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A child with a sense of family responsibility like the landlord is indeed commendable, and it is precisely because of this that I affirm the harmony and unity of the landlord's family. Because of love, so concerned, because of concern, so suspicious.
But as you said, adults don't listen to your persuasion easily. They have to be like a parent, and it's hard to tell you the whole story from a personal perspective. And the persuasion that you easily express without knowing what the situation is in the original situation will not work at all.
On the contrary, because of your bias and rebellion, it will also add fuel to the fire of the relationship.
I am more in favor of you to adopt some gentle methods, such as you can use the advantage of your pearl in the palm of your home to please parents, mobilize parents, and involve parents in big initiatives (such as college entrance examinations, studies, school activities, holiday celebrations, etc.), to divert their attention to you, so that they can unite when discussing your problems. Use your own well-behaved and sensible to reconcile between the two people, let them feel the warmth and happiness of home, and let them notice that there is a particularly important you in the middle of them, as long as you persist in this way, no difficulty can separate you.
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You don't want to get too involved in the affairs of your parents, although your mood can be understood, but you can't solve it, you still need to tie the bell, outsiders will not help the successful resolution of things, and there will be unnecessary misunderstandings, just don't see it, do your own thing, treat yourself as an outsider, that's better.
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Let Dad investigate and verify the true situation, and if the truth is contrary to the facts, Dad should apologize to Mom.
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If you can't leave, generally speaking, men's hunches are relatively accurate, and I believe that your father will not talk nonsense if there is no basis for this kind of thing.
But your father is a gentleman, and he played well.
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Dad's love is too selfish, since he loves each other, he has to believe it, why should he easily doubt his wife? Dad should be criticized, even if you can't talk about him when he's angry now, but you have to show something and let him know that it was he who violated Mom and that you have an attitude in this matter. You should always care for your injured mother, wait for her, and show your sympathy and support for her.
After this sensitive stage, the two of them should be brought together, communicate well, criticize when criticized, let Dad review his irrational behavior, and persuade Mom to be forgiving and forgiving, and continue to walk their life path with Dad together.
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My dad was always suspicious of my mom and quarreled with her about why, and I didn't dare to stop me from doing anything.
Your father is suspicious of your mother and often quarrels with your mother, as for why, there are many reasons, only the parties concerned know it, and it is not easy for outsiders to guess.
You don't dare to stop it, that's because you are small, you don't understand it, as long as it's not a big fight, there is no big damage to the family, it's right not to stop it, let the adults solve it, and if it's solved, it won't be noisy.
As for what you can do when they quarrel, of course, do your own thing, study hard, take care of yourself, respect your parents' ideas, if you are working, do your own work, don't let your parents worry, this is the most correct thing you do for them.
There are reasons for adults to quarrel, and you don't have to think about why, even if you know who is right and who is wrong, it is not easy to blame anyone when you are small. Let the parents take care of their own business.
Hope mine can help you.
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This may be suspicious, or there may be something you don't know, and you'd better mediate.
<> mother is in charge of the child, and the father should pay attention to the fact that as long as one party is in charge of the child, the other party cannot interfere, and no one else can interfere. When the child does something wrong, and the mother criticizes and educates the child, the father must remain silent, and cannot interfere with the mother's education of the child or speak for the child, and Bao Zhaosan and other family members cannot interfere, so as to maintain the mother's authority in front of the child. The family is a social unit based on blood ties with emotional ties, characterized by a common dwelling, economic cooperation and reproduction. >>>More
When the father is educating the child, the mother must not go over to protect the child, try to hide, and when it is over, she must talk to the child, tell him why the father did it, let him know where his mistake is, and why he does it.
Actually, I think you just need to sincerely say to your mother, "Mom, I love you, I'm proud to have a mother like you", and then you have to care more about your mother in your daily life, even if it's a little bit of it! You can't just remember "make mom happy" just because it's your mom's birthday! I'm also a mom, and it's December 16th, and my daughter surprises me every year, although it's not expensive, but it satisfies me, and she always touches me in many ordinary times! >>>More
I'll help you analyze it first:
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