What am I going to do? Love is weak, what should I do if I can t stand the dullness of love?

A year of love is not a long time, my friend and his girlfriend have been together for four years, but the relationship is still the same, there is never a feeling of love and no freshness, so maybe one of the two of you has a problem, if this is really the case, then I think it is not interesting to be together, let's find a place to sit down and talk, what is the problem that caused a misunderstanding between you, resulting in a separation. If you feel that there is really no way to save it, then let it go, the long pain is better than the short pain, is it the annoyance from the heart? It's still annoying on the surface, let's spread it out and make it clear, don't have any misunderstandings and blind spots.

I think you'll find the problem. It really can't solve the problem, then it's only necessary for each to find their own happiness, there is no need for the two of them to go cold like this, it's a waste of time and a waste of life.

The intensity of feelings does not change with time. It is you who change. Is it because after a long time, I got used to it, and I no longer carefully cared for this very emotional? Or is it because you are unknowingly demanding more from each other?

In fact, you are still reluctant to give up each other. So the most important thing at the moment is that you should have a good chat and be honest and calm. As long as there is love, there is no need to worry too much.

Feelings to be managed. Occasionally use some tricks, not sleek, but to keep love fresh. For example: create some space and freedom for your lover, praise each other from the heart, boys will be a little romantic, girls know how to be a little coquettish, inject fresh air into your relationship...

Love, love, it hurts feelings.

You chose her in the first place, she should have been studying at that time, but now you are going to break up with her for one reason or another, don't you feel heartache? Actually, feelings are a matter for the two of you if"Break up"These two words are so easy to say, so we don't have much to say, you know? Think about it carefully, take a wrong step, and you will regret it for the rest of your life!

In fact, everyone's emotional journey is similar, so I can also feel your feelings! I just want you to be happy, whether together or apart! Think about it

True love is not something that can be diluted by time, but your story is not a kind of love.

It's just a step into love, and you're getting started.

Is it a mentality problem......

I've been with him for 5 years.

Usually he rarely speaks.

Nor do they grow together.

It's just as happy.

My relationship with him is not weak.

Try to change your mindset and try.

Love cannot be measured by time.

I talked about it for 2 years. I've also found that we get to know each other. The feelings faded.

The relationship faded, there was nothing to say, and then they broke up. I think I'm in a good relationship. When she told me to break up.

I'd rather believe that I got 500w than believe that she said it, but in the end I broke up.

So the feelings are all fake. Now in this society, only money is the most real.

Isn't love transformed into family affection?

How much of the two people are together by freshness?

Freshness can be created by two people. It's nothing、The question is whether you think you're suitable?,Temperament and personality.。

It hurts too much to divide and merge.

If you can be together, you cherish each other.

In that case, it's better to do it! lest everyone be miserable.

Let's talk about what it is.

Feelings are such a thing.

The most important thing is human life.

Feelings are like a knife, the knife can ensure that it will not rust, if the knife sees blood but always can't change the feelings, the knife will accelerate the speed of the relationship breakdown. People are emotional creatures, and when there is a problem in their relationship, they will be overwhelmed and will worry about the other person leaving them. In fact, you have been together for a long time and you don't know how each other is doing lately.

How to save the relationship from getting weaker and weaker? First of all, it is necessary to understand how the other person behaves when there is an emotional crisis.

1. Suddenly become silent.

In the relationship, if there are discordant notes, there will be a rift in the relationship between the two people. They will also show impatience when the other party has a conflict with you, and they don't even want to communicate with you. At this time, the other half should find a way to find the problem between you.

You should also understand the real thoughts and emotions of the other person in a timely manner. Lu or this, don't break the hearts of two people by saying something because of a momentary gaffe.

2. Occasional quarrels.

In fact, most of the contradictions and quarrels between you are minor problems. If you've been in harmony with each other, it's normal to have an occasional fight over a few minor issues. But if there is a period of time when two people always quarrel, it is not because of something big that happened in the small family, but because of some trivial things in life.

That means there is a good chance that there is a relationship crisis between you. And then you have to know how to save this relationship.

3. Always insecure.

A man's insecurity towards a woman begins at the beginning of a relationship between two people, and because of insecurity, men become very sensitive and often lose their temper with women and get angry. A phrase "I know you're annoying" can also make a woman angry. It will even make a woman feel that she is nice and cares about you.

But after a long time, women don't care so much about you. Men are also when people have the urge to vent their emotions, and women are often in a state of being dominated and ignored, so they can't vent the emotions they bring to men in time, and over time women will feel that they are putting pressure on men. So women must adjust themselves in time!

What should I do if my love becomes dull after a long time.

Accept it slowly, and it is more able to reflect true love in the plain, maybe you are not used to it when you just transition, just take it slowly, don't compare the past with the present, this is a process that love must go

Blandness is also a beauty. If you want to be too dull, you can only create opportunities for yourself to be not dull, not verbal, but to act. I hope the landlord is happy.

It depends on your own reasons, whether you are too demanding on your other half, or because of your temperament and your ability to accept a person.

It shows that your ideas are mature enough, and you need the freshness of every new girlfriend, and this kind of love will not last long.

Like all the secret sweet words.

The past has long been said.

Leave a few thoughtful words.

It's ordinary but warm.

I once asked in the darkness and darkness over and over again.

Only then did I know that plain and calm is the truth.

It's not that love is dull, but it's that we're getting acquainted with each other and getting used to it.

There is no heartbeat and tension at the beginning.

It's a little more noisy.

Please don't go away.

That's someone you didn't find you couldn't live without.

Then why do you make love so bland.