Should this kind of love continue to be turned into marriage?

Updated on society 2024-06-19
45 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It is difficult for a Qing official to decide family affairs, and all we give you is advice: You say that you love him very much, so does he love you very much? Love is not something that can be expressed in one word.

    Love should be a verb, and according to common sense, it should be a verb with a strong persistence. After listening to your story, I think that the two or three of you should not discuss the issue of "love" now, it is better for the three parties to talk together about how to solve this triangular problem, and when the matter is clear, it is not too late to make a decision. You have been together for three years, if there is no relationship, it is definitely impossible, relationship is the same as life, few people have been calm all their lives, and there is a high probability of crisis in the relationship.

    Therefore, before these lifelong events face difficulties, we must think twice, think twice, think again! People of our age have to slowly learn to face and deal with these things, there are many things in life that are constantly changing with the passage of time and the progress of society, and we must think calmly about every new thing and new thing we come into contact with, don't blindly draw conclusions, do this, I believe you will be happy in the future!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Such love. It's really bizarre to be honest. But you know you better than we do.

    Do you believe him? If you believe in getting married. If you don't believe it, you will spend the rest of your life with him???

    Is it worth it? Who will be injured then.?? Some things can change.

    It is very difficult to change a person's nature.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you break up with him, will he treat you like that woman?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Leave him. He and you may have other plans.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The decision is made on your own, but it depends on what you think.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is definitely a difference between a good love and a love affair and a marriage.

    When two people are in love, they only have each other in each line, and at this time, they only need to concentrate on this relationship, so it will be relatively easy.

    But after getting married, it's different, every day you will face firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, and a lot of trivial things in life, at this time, everyone needs to work hard for this family, so there is not so much time to focus on this relationship.

    No matter how beautiful love is, it will be dull, and it will be overwhelmed by the trivial things in life.

    Of course, we also need to manage it carefully, not that there is no love after becoming dull, sometimes it becomes not a human heart, but the environment in which we exist has changed.

    And after getting married, it's not just the life of two people, in fact, this time is when two people break down from a big family and then form a small family of their own.

    At this time, our state of mind has actually changed.

    Everyone should yearn for love in fairy tales, and also yearn for marriage, and it can become the same as in fairy tales, but this fiction requires two people to operate slowly.

    And after getting married, the focus of the two people may shift to their careers, and at this time, the mood of simply falling in love must have changed.

    When they have a child, the focus of the last two people may be shifted to the child, and at this time love becomes multiple, for the family's responsibility, career, family, and children.

    When two people become three people, in fact, we have to learn to trust and learn to tolerate, because life cannot be so smooth, and there may be some small quarrels and frictions.

    And there is also a secret to open your eyes when you are in love and close one eye when you are married.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There will be changes, when love enters the state of marriage, it will make the love of two people become family affection, and there will be certain changes in nature.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Beautiful love will change after entering marriage, because the relationship between two people has changed, and the emotions have changed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There will be no change, if two people love each other very much, if two people really have love, there will be no change after marriage.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Beautiful love will be changed by arguments after entering marriage, but as long as they tolerate each other, trust each other, and understand each other, the change is also beautiful, and life will become better and better.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After the beautiful love enters the marriage hall, there will be some changes, but the imitation of Kuanneng will be more plain and simple than before, but it will definitely not lose love because of marriage.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Beautiful love will also change after entering marriage, because married life is very boring, and two people will be very familiar, and there is no sense of freshness in the journey.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After a beautiful love enters marriage, there may be changes, so when you encounter such love, you must cherish it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After a beautiful love enters marriage, it will not change, it will make this love more beautiful and deeper.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No matter how beautiful love is, it will be overwhelmed by the trivial things of life, and in life, Zen will have to face eating and drinking, and face material needs, so as to change the initial mentality of self-congratulatory laughter!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After a lot of boring marriages, well, there is also a feeling, there will definitely be changes, because it is to become such a family, as long as you are as good as me today, I feel that the crack will be very good.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    People who really like to think about Sakura and treat you well from beginning to end will not change his mind even if he enters marriage, and some people will be better to you after entering marriage, because he has to fulfill the responsibility of being a wife or husband.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think the beautiful imitation of love, after entering the marriage, there may be a little change, maybe in the marriage, you may be more familiar with the key to the steady Ling, after all, you have to support this family, the pressure may be a little bigger, after all, for life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After the beautiful love enters the marriage, there will be some changes, in the marriage, not only you are the two of you, but two families, even two families.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Will your good love not change after marriage? This also has a lot to do with the attitude of two people after they get married, if they can continue to maintain the degree of love for each other, then Pacha quietly will also experience love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, it is very likely that this is the case, because there will be a lot of trivialities in married life, and at this time, the two need to run together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The beautiful love that will inevitably change may not need to be criticized by firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the life after marriage is closely related to firewood, rice, oil and salt.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After entering the marriage, beautiful love will change, become more mature, and become more colorful.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Does a beautiful love change after entering marriage? I think that if love is beautiful, it will not change after entering marriage.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There will be a change. When two people get married, love will slowly become what life looks like.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is said that marriage is the grave of love, and once a person gets married, his true face will be revealed between two people. All the pretense of the past will no longer exist, and there will even be some emotions occasionally, and in the face of life full of chicken feathers, there will be no strong love at the beginning. After entering marriage, the life of two people is more plain, and love cannot be as warm as before.

    Because when two people first fell in love with each other, it was an instant spark that came out of the calcium carbide. This feeling is fleeting and does not stand the test of life.

    In fact, true love can only be embodied in daily life, and when you encounter difficulties, it is a time to test the character of the other party. If the other half is a person who has no responsibilities, then sooner or later the love will disappear. When I used to be in a relationship with my husband, it was a sweet time, no matter what we did, it was beautiful, and it felt like he was the only one left in the world.

    But marriage is different, and his bad temper follows. I had to do laundry and cook for him all day, and even quit my job for the sake of my children, which made me feel particularly aggrieved. Marriage is not always as good as love, but it can bring a sense of security.

    At least it can give you a sense of home and let you find a touch of warmth in a cruel world. Moreover, married people will have a sense of responsibility, especially boys, who will shoulder the heavy responsibilities of the family with their strong shoulders. You will feel that life is especially easy because there is always someone who will carry the heavy lifting for you.

    The ultimate goal of love is always marriage. Many people say that marriage is the shackles of love, and I disagree. As long as you manage it with your heart, marriage will bring you endless warmth.

    That's how life is. There is a big gap between love and life.

    If you feel that you can't stand such a thing, then it can only be over, because the future is still long, and every day is associated with trivial things, and there is a lot of responsibility. But you have to talk to your boyfriend seriously, tell her what you think, don't pamper him, let him get rid of these bad habits. It is not easy for two people to go from acquaintance to marriage.

    During the relationship, any shortcomings between lovers are tolerable and can even be beautified, that is, as the saying goes, the lover is in his eyes, as if he is separated from Sanqiu every day.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it's not a particularly beautiful love, you can just enter the marriage hall directly, so that you can slowly wear it out for him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Beautiful love will become happier and happier when entering marriage, both parties understand each other in life, think about each other, and help each other in things everywhere, such love will become stronger and stronger!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes. Because love is beautiful, and marriage is more realistic, marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt, so those beautiful scenes will be wiped out.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, because the two concepts are different when they are in love and during their marriage, there will be various dreams shattered.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, there are some people who are still very happy after getting married, and the love of two people can bring some good results.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't think that's the case, it's mainly to see if the two people get along well and harmoniously after they get married.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Is it no matter how beautiful love is, as long as it comes to marriage, it will be worn out.

    It's not like that, it must be that you have a misunderstanding. Marriage is based on love, although it tends to be dull after entering the marriage, there are all kinds of unsatisfactory and repeated life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but your love is everywhere, and it will be reflected in the bits and pieces of your life. As long as you experience it carefully, you will realize it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No, sometimes a good love is not as good as after marriage, and it will become happier. But sometimes when you change your mind, then when you get to the palace of marriage, there will be a certain amount of friction between the two people after marriage, and there will be cracks in the relationship, which need to be maintained by the other party.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you are always arguing and no one is progressing, then wait for the problem to disappear, then this pattern will make your feelings lighter and lighter. There are a lot of young couples who feel very good when they are in love and they will be married. When you want to get close to each other, you think of it as a previous injury.

    No one apologizes, no one wants to change,

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It is not entirely true that beautiful love has changed because of entering marriage, although there will be more problems after marriage, but if both parties can still make changes for each other, there will still be a beautiful love.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think sometimes no matter how beautiful love is, it will not necessarily be worn out when you enter marriage, in the final analysis, it depends on what you think, how you feel about this relationship, whether there is no emotion in your relationship, or there is no emotion after your marriage, then it can only be worn out.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    After entering the marriage with love, the love will become stronger and stronger, which is the normal road to marriage; After a long period of love, each other finally enters into marriage, and the love will become stronger; If after entering the marriage, the love has become worn out, it can only mean that both parties have not gone all out to maintain the marriage;

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    A beautiful love will never be worn out in marriage. If he continues to play the role of her sweet and happy in marriage, then the marriage is happy. If it is worn out, then this marriage will not be happy.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's not that no matter how good the love is, as long as the marriage is not the same, it will be worn out, as long as the two of you have a good relationship, it is okay to communicate and get along together, and you are willing to change and grow for each other, even if you enter the marriage, it will be sweet.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Well, no matter how beautiful love is, as long as you enter marriage, it will be wiped out, I don't think it's necessarily, this depends on the person, two people must be loving enough. He will not be worn out.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    No matter how good a marriage is, as long as you enter the marriage, there will be problems of one kind or another, but as long as you maintain your original intention, there will still be good results.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's not that a beautiful love will be worn out when it enters marriage, like the love between Lin Huiyin and Yang Sicheng, you can become more brilliant in marriage.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This statement. It's not right, as long as there is a good love, then you will be very happy and contented when you enter marriage.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Don't think like this, love is beautiful, marriage is also beautiful, marriage is the sublimation of feelings.

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