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I see the same as yours. Big men let women earn money outside, which is incompetent in itself. Your dad is jealous, he has no ability, he is afraid that your mother will be liked by other men, and your dad has low self-esteem because he can't make money.
You have to understand him. You persuade your father: You can't make money, you still have to be mother, so be more considerate of your mother, or you go out to earn money.
Home and everything is prosperous, the family does not bully outsiders, difficulties are temporary, everything will pass, tolerance is a virtue.
You persuade your father and your mother. You want to be a "diplomat" and a "peacemaker", you know? Why don't we read our books in vain? After school, if you also help, won't Mom and Dad be happy?
Happy family!!
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After reading what you said, it feels very similar to my own home, and my family used to quarrel with each other! In fact, dad is like this, few are careful, he just thinks that the economy is not good now, men have a good face, and it is normal to lose his temper! As our children, there is no economy**, only obedient, do more housework and not make them angry!
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So you have to be angry.
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In fact, there must be one person in a family who lives at home and one who works hard outside, not that one of the two people does not work, but there must be a person between them who pays for the family at home, which is a very happy thing, but not everyone can do it, and it is willing, adjust it!
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Summary. Hello, your parents are quarreling, you are in the wrong position, you should not help anyone, you should be a middleman, find a way to resolve this crisis, apologize is right, it is always wrong to quarrel with your parents! Use reason to talk to the two of them, so that they see that their children are sensible, maybe there won't be so many quarrels, apologize in person, if you are embarrassed, send a text message to apologize to your father, you must send it, don't interfere in the parents' affairs in the future, such quarrels are often there, you should be sensible, and you should apologize.
Mom and Dad quarreled, and I helped my Mom. What should I do if I quarrel with my dad?
Hello, your parents are quarreling, you are in the wrong position, you should not help anyone, you should be a middleman, find a way to resolve this crisis, apologize is right, it is always wrong to quarrel with your parents! Use reason to talk to the two of them, so that they see that their children are sensible, maybe there won't be so many quarrels, apologize in person, if you are embarrassed, send a text message to apologize to your father, you must send it, don't interfere in the parents' affairs in the future, such quarrels are often there, you should be sensible, and you should apologize.
Then they quarrel every day.
Now my mom says.
I'm targeting my dad.
Hello, you may not think so, you are just a psychological reaction, parents quarrel, your first reaction is to protect your mother.
You didn't mean anything about your father, maybe your parents felt like this, and they didn't understand you very well.
I just don't talk in the future.
That's it, mmmmmmmm
It's okay too, keep silent.
Good. Mmmm, I wish I could help you.
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This is still your wife's problem, why can't you do it with your elders? The family is happy to do education work on both sides, especially the wife, to educate her, people say that the family has an old man is like a treasure, your mother should still be very good to say, because of the age, they are very open, let the wife apologize, probably it will be fine.
You are still in the rebellious period, you don't understand the love of your parents, maybe she expressed it in the wrong way, maybe she beat you, but she was in the bathroom with tears of heartache, people, only if you are a parent, you will understand your parents, if your homework is very good, do things measured, how can she always take care of you, you communicate with her more, noisy can't solve the problem.
As children, whether the old man is right or not, we shouldn't go against each other, you can communicate with them in another way, they are old people, how can they bow their heads to you and admit their mistakes, everyone has a little temper, but don't play awkward in front of your parents, it's not right, it's not right, you can't let them know those sad words, and one day your emotions are stable, you communicate with them well, in fact, I also understand your current mood I'm an only child, sometimes my parents will say that I'm willing to contradict them, and they are actually very cold Even if they admit your mistakes to you, will you feel better, after all, you are an elder, and I want to be treated fairly, but this is the way of education in China, in fact, the time we spend with our parents is very short, and when we start a family, your time is outside, not your parents, now cherish the time with them.
What you struggle for yourself is the best. Don't rely on your mom anymore. She's hard too.