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Since you have the idea of wanting a girlfriend, tell your parents, they are your relatives, what are you afraid of. As for whether the object they introduce is good or bad, you just need to see if you can, if you don't like it, you can choose again, just take a look, and it's not that you want to marry her even if you don't like it.
Love only has a chance if it takes the initiative. The fear of being hurt or staying in the pain of being hurt in the past does not feel like taking a step forward. Such a person may lose a marriage in front of him.
This is my opinion, and how to do it depends on you, the protagonist. Here, I wish you to find a good woman to spend your life with as soon as possible.
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In fact, first of all, whether love will hurt or nourish people, only those in it will know. If you have an idea, just say it. They are your parents. It's not someone else.
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Categories: Troubles >> family relationships.
Problem description: I have a girlfriend, introduced by a relative of mine, looks average, but we are very close, get along very tacitly, we love each other very much, but unfortunately she does not work with me in a city for the time being, my parents want me to find a girlfriend who works in a city with me in the agency, and her parents because of my family and her family around a little kinship, a little worried, do not agree, we are very filial, no one wants to make my parents angry, recently my parents everywhere to introduce me to a girlfriend, What should I do?
Analysis: I think you should be separated, really, good for you and for her. If you live with your family in the future, the problem is even greater.
Because your family doesn't want it right now! When the time comes, you'll have a hard time doing it in the middle. And she's not going to be happy either, are you willing to watch her unhappy?
If they are separated now, both of them will still pursue their own happiness, people! Decades in a lifetime pass in a blink of an eye, cherish time, and be happy every day. If you know that there will be hidden dangers, you have to eliminate it, there are many people who have broken up, and there are many people around me, but after they broke up, they each formed their own families, and they are still very happy!
There are few meetings, each has its own way! Don't get annoyed! Be realistic!
Trust you to be a sane man! I wish you a happy life as soon as possible.
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Because of your own problems. The goal of love is to get married, have children, and live a lifetime, while your goal is only to fall in love and just turn yourself into a woman.
Now it is very high, and many girls are all in this idea, and the love that is not married is all hooligan.
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With the passage of time, the years urge us to grow up, and our parents are also wrapped up in time to grow old......
When we go to school, our parents can care about our academic performance and campus fun; But when we graduate, most of us are far away from our parents and from home.
In order not to worry our parents, we never report good news but not bad news, because we are busy with work, and we have less and less contact with our parents. You always tell your parents that you are doing well outside.
However, because of the distance and space, our parents' worries about us have increased.
They arranged a blind date for us, did they really want us to get married right away?
No, I don't think so! It's their way of showing that they care about us, and it can be a little clumsy and sometimes even annoying. They just hope that you are working hard alone, someone to take care of and someone to accompany you, they just want someone to stand at dusk with you, and someone to ask you how much porridge you can ......
That's all there is to it!
As the saying goes: only when you raise a child knows the kindness of your parents. As children, we will one day become parents, so we should understand and understand the worries and expectations of our parents.
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