What to do in the face of the girl s vexatious trouble, you know, please help

It's not good to hit someone, that's domestic violence

I think, she must be a girl with a relatively young psychological age, sometimes very lonely, she is the first affirmation of love for you, you have to analyze why she has such dependence on you, is there any pressure, and she does not have a good communication ability to turn this pressure into a process of pressure on you, that is, to vent to you, but you don't understand, you have to communicate with it more, solve this problem from the details and crux, not blindly retreat can be solved,

It's normal for a woman to be a little coquettish, if it's a little trouble every day, 2581 fight, I guess few men can stand it, my method is very simple! If it's really too much, when I can't bear it anymore, I won't say anything, and I'll slap it twice! No, two more times!

Women can be used to it, and they can also be petted, but they can't be too used to being too spoiled, everything must have a degree! Especially for those vexatious women! The most disgusting for men!

Men should still coax girls more. Although it may make you feel tired, at least there will be no quarrels between the two, so bear with the small to protect the overall situation. But it's not good to always blindly accommodate her, if it's always like this, you should find a calm time to talk to her, and it may be much better for everyone to talk about it.

That's how buddy women are, be more forgiving

Girls are generally angry when they say this, because vexatious is always what boys describe girls, and women don't feel that they are vexatious. At this time, you need to coax her to admit your mistake and say that you have misunderstood the other person.

What should I do if a girl says she is vexatious?

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What should I do if my girlfriend says that she is sometimes vexatious?

Girls are generally angry when they say this, because vexatious is always what boys describe girls, and women don't feel that they are vexatious. At this time, you need to coax her to admit your mistake and say that you have misunderstood the other person.

In a relationship, girls often get angry and unreasonable because of some trivial things, and at this time, many brothers quarrel with each other and then reason with her, but the final result is often unsatisfactory, and even two people end up parting ways.

1. Praise her.

When a girl is unreasonable, you might as well praise her, say some nice words, praise words, at this time it is necessary to put dessert in the mouth, but the premise is that this matter is not so serious, it is okay when it does not involve the other party's principles, if the matter is very serious, it is not recommended to do so.

2. Just kidding.

If a girl is losing her temper just because of a small thing, then you might as well make a little joke and see what she will do, if she laughs because of your joke, or feels nervous because of your joke or something, then as long as the girl is not angry.

3. Don't mess with each other.

When a girl is unreasonable, don't easily provoke the other party, otherwise you will definitely regret what you just did. Because when you are unreasonable, you just hope that someone will coax you, and at this time, a few simple words may be able to make the other party happy, so don't make some actions that will make the other party angry, otherwise it will only make the other party really angry.

4. Reflect on yourself, whether it is your own problem.

Sometimes their vexatiousness may be due to something wrong between you, is it because you forgot to buy her a gift on the anniversary of your first date? Did you forget her birthday? Think about it for yourself if it's your own problem that caused your girlfriend's unreasonable trouble.

If it's not your own problem, or the woman is purely unreasonable, then, as long as it's not a very serious problem, as a boyfriend, you should say more good things, say more sweet words to coax her, and praise your girlfriend for being beautiful, beautiful and virtuous, etc. Girls like to be coaxed and noticed. Sometimes they are unreasonable, but they just want to win your attention and love.

So, you might as well satisfy them.

5. Give enough care.

When our girlfriend is always unreasonable, we should not blame the other party, what we should do more is to give the other party enough care, understand the other person's thoughts and thoughts, and help her eliminate her troubles.

The most powerless girl I've ever seen is in a relationship, no matter how good the other person is to you, but sometimes you will quarrel with the other person because of the slightest little thing. ThisIt's the end that girls like to do.,It's not that the other party treats you badly.,I think there are a lot of such vexatious girls in daily life.。 Because some girls don't fall in love because they really don't know their own situation, when they fall in love, they know that they will stick to each other in love, and even very selfishly will not give each other any private space.

Although such a girl is not bad in nature, she will be very happy when others treat her well, and once the other party has something to do, she will think that he ignores her。When the other party has to deal with something, she really doesn't understand; When the other party's affairs are over, they will ask "why they didn't reply to the message" very unreasonably. When he was tired, he didn't ask him "Are you tired"?

There seems to be some words of concern. In such a relationship, it may make one party very tired. And the girl doesn't know how to care and think about him, which will make such a relationship only unilateral, and such a girl's way of doing things will also make people feel very unreasonable.

When you encounter difficulties in daily life, you will throw them to others, and girls are afraid of trouble, and they don't want to encounter some troublesome things because of this. Many people think that this delicate girl should be unlovable, like to be unreasonable and unreasonable, and many times will be self-centered and will not consider the other party's feelings. Although sometimes the other party gives a lot of their sincerity, they don't think so.

Usually when the relationship between two people is good, but when there is a disagreement because of a small matter, it will hurt people even more, and such unreasonable troubles will also make the other party's life more tired.

All in all, some small things in daily life will also be remembered by girls for a long time, if because of a trivial matter, please do not meet her wishes, and the appearance of being vexatious is the most difficult to coax the other party.

Could it be that the answer to the actual problem of straight men may just be the onset of drama addiction.

In a relationship, girls often get angry and unreasonable because of some trivial things, and at this time, many brothers quarrel with each other and then reason with her, but the final result is often unsatisfactory, and even two people end up parting ways.

What does a "vexatious" girl look like in love?

Being unreasonable in love, in fact, there is no brain, and the IQ is close to 0.

Many girls have never had much contact with the opposite sex when they grow up, so when she starts her first relationship, or has been in contact with several relationships, and does not have a deep understanding of the opposite sex, then this girl is easy to fall into the misunderstanding of IQ.

When I wasn't in love, I had a high IQ and was very smart, but as soon as I fell in love, I immediately became a "love brain".

What kind of love brain?

It's like a child who yells at their parents for toys every day, and if their parents don't fulfill their wishes, they will immediately cry.

In shouting and oozing in love, some girls are like this, she revolves all her energy and life around her boyfriend, and gradually loses herself and the exploration of her life.

When a person pins all his hopes and emotions on others, you say, will this person be happy?

I'm afraid it's hard to be happy.

Unreasonable girls don't think that their words and deeds are wrong, on the contrary, they are very firm in what they do, thinking that only they are right, and if their boyfriend does not do what they think, it is against her will. The main manifestations of vexatiousness:

1.Tantrums.

This kind of woman's mood changes relatively quickly. A bad word from my boyfriend. Immediately he would shake off his shoulders and make him desperately try to find a hole in the ground in full view of everyone.

2.Wayward self.

This kind of female Zheng Zhen is arrogant and unreasonable. Don't empathize and be considerate of other people's feelings. Domineering and domineering, extremely egoistic. When she wants her boyfriend to accompany her, regardless of whether her boyfriend has time or is not feeling well, she has to come to accompany her immediately, and if she can't go, she will lose her temper immediately.

3.Don't stop until you reach your goal.

When she loses her temper, it's useless to coax her, and you will only stop when you agree to what she wants to get. Do not shout Chang at all to consider the location, time and other external reasons are not allowed.

In a relationship, girls often get angry and unreasonable because of some trivial things, and at this time, many brothers quarrel with each other and then reason with her, but the final result is often unsatisfactory, and even two people end up parting ways.

First of all, we must make a change in thinking, women don't reason with her when they are unreasonable, they are all adults, she is not stupid and knows what she is doing. What she wants is not what you can see, and tell her through all kinds of reasons that she shouldn't do it, and reasoning with her will only make you more unreasonable. There are also men who will choose to run away from this situation, fearing that they will have an argument with her at this juncture and cause more serious consequences, which can be said to be quite dangerous, because in the eyes of the woman, you have made the most fatal mistake - ignoring her.

I offer you three magic weapons: first, the transformation of thoughts; Second, know it with affection; Three: good memories.

These three magic weapons you have to make the right choice according to your own actual situation, to see what is the reason, to solve the problem reasonably, do not let the matter expand, I wish you a happy life!