Can high emotional intelligence and forbearance be equal?

Not equal, high EQ is my own ability, and at the same time give face to others, forbearance is my own powerlessness, I can only accept it, so high EQ and forbearance are not at the same height at all.

Patience is a little too reluctant, reluctant, but high emotional intelligence it is manifested in initiative and mood and so on! <>

Can't be equal, people with high emotional intelligence can always easily resolve embarrassment, and you will feel very relaxed when you get along with him. If you forbear, you can't accept the words or actions of the other party, but because of many considerations, you don't show it easily.

The ability to endure may be high endurance, but it also depends on what it is, and the coward's forbearance and humiliation represent learned helplessness, holding back something, not to mention it, which means that there is a certain sense of anxiety in the heart, and there is no ability to grasp the possible state of affairs. There is no unified standard for emotional intelligence, so it is difficult to say that it may be, it may not be, and there is one thing that I think is very important to analyze specific things, that is, whether what you do ensures the maintenance of higher interests (not just money), if not, you generally cannot say that emotional intelligence is high.

These are two different things, although the two are things in the world, but there is a big difference, "high emotional intelligence" can retain the face or dignity of both parties or parties, this is something that is willing to do, and it is praised by everyone and said that it is good. Most of the "forbearance" is what you can't do, and if you give in once, most of you will feel that you have no ability.

Let's put it this way, being able to endure and resolve is high emotional intelligence. I can bear it, but I can't resolve it myself. Some people endure not to show but their hearts are turbulent, this does not mean how strong he is, such people will break out sooner or later, and they are not as good as those who can vent at that time.

Some people were very uncomfortable at the time but didn't have a seizure, and after thinking about it, they thought about it and thought about it, and their hearts seemed to be bright and clear, such people are masters. ‍‍

Emotional intelligence lies in: emotions, emotions, will, tolerance of setbacks, etc., emotional control is one thing, if you endure good things, and your heart is not ecstatic, it is. If you endure bad things and don't suppress them in your heart, it's okay.

But if you are suffocating to death in your heart, you just don't show it, it doesn't count, high emotional intelligence can be self-grooming.

Being able to endure is not necessarily high emotional intelligence, but people with high emotional intelligence must be able to endure, not only can endure, but should be able to endure, endure for a while, be calm, forbearance, forbearance for a while will make the other party worse, should not be forbearable.

Depending on the occasion, you can endure for a while, but there is a limit to patience, because each person's cultivation level is different, and the boundaries of forbearance are not the same. Some trivial things can be tolerated, but things that hurt the basic principles of life and the dignity of honor and dignity cannot be tolerated. But no matter how you endure it, to what level you endure, you will eventually need to resolve it.

Just like a pressure cooker, if it overtimes, it will burst at any time, and it is easy to hurt the innocent. It can be done in a variety of ways, such as finding someone to talk to, shouting alone, and taking a break in the suburbs.

Of course not, high EQ is to be able to fight back when you can't bear it, this is the real high EQ.

I don't think so, forbearance is a kind of temperament in my opinion, not with your general knowledge, this is not necessarily a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, but it must be a manifestation of temperament, some people with high emotional intelligence, IQ is not the same high. ‍‍

I don't think it's equal, people with high emotional intelligence are not wronged themselves, and others are comfortable.

Personally, I think that high emotional intelligence and forbearance are not the same thing at all, because people with high emotional intelligence will always come up with a way to face things.

High emotional intelligence does not require patience. Endure because you can't do anything. You can't fix it.

I think yes, know how to forbear, know how to be introverted, is a far-sighted performance, do not care about the people in front of you, this kind of person itself is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, but in high emotional businessmen are also divided into high and low. ‍‍

Whether you can bear it or not, in fact, it is not emotional intelligence, many people understand, but they just don't want to endure it! Do you say she has low emotional intelligence? Maybe many people can't bear it, or they don't want to endure it, just because they have no breath, why are people alive.

I don't understand. What is the relationship between emotional intelligence and forbearance?