Is there a moment when you from the bottom of your heart don t want children?

Didn't think of it that way. Every elder wants his child to become a dragon and a phoenix.

When I first graduated, I went to work outside, I was unfamiliar with life, and I almost didn't even have a place to sleep, at that moment, I felt that I was living too hard, and then I thought, if I have been so poor, then I don't want to have children, I don't want my children to live that kind of hard life.

One time when I came home, my brother and they got married and had a child, and I asked them how much does it cost for a child to study for a year? He gave me at least 50,000 yuan to go to kindergarten. I haven't had that idea since.

Actually, I don't think I've ever had a child, but I still feel very happy to have a child.

If you know that life with children is like this, you will not be born if you are killed. It's not that a moment leads to not wanting to live, this moment is just the last straw that crushes the camel. After giving birth, you will find that for a long time or the whole life cannot be carried out according to the plan, to put it bluntly, there is no life of your own.

Not only that, but with a fiery heart that is responsible for the child, it will be suppressed by various forces, and finally think, what about love. When you meet a good teammate, your hardships can still be understood, but the other half of most mothers wait until the child can call dad before realizing their responsibility, and then fulfill this responsibility: play with the child.

This does not include the physical pain, the deteriorating physique, the deformed body, and the mysterious postpartum depression!

When my 4-month-old daughter was crying and couldn't take it away. I couldn't laugh or cry, I had to laugh and laugh.

After watching many friends around me become parents, life has become completely different from before.

Ever since I was in high school, I didn't want to have children. One is the fear of pain, the other is the fear of trouble, and most importantly, the fear of trouble. Why?

From the moment you conceive a child, you are destined to run for this little thing for the rest of your life. I was pregnant in October, I couldn't eat or sleep well, and I was physically and mentally exhausted from various examinations. After birth, it is not too painful to worry about the body, study, love when you are older, marriage, and then grandchildren.

Probably watching those friends around 22 years old love to play and laugh, are full of spirit every day, especially like to go out to play, and stick to the child every day after having a child, not too angry, and don't even have their own time.

There is a sister who shouted in the ward with painful contractions before childbirth, I will never have a child again in my life, but after less than two years, I had a second child. As soon as I heard the news that she was pregnant with her second child, I told my mother, didn't she say that she would never have children again, and my mother said that I don't know how many people have said this, but there are a few real "people who do what they say".

Now my daughter is ten days, and it is understandable that my mother-in-law does not let me wash my hair and take a bath during the confinement, I have a slight nail fungus on my fingers, and a little bacteria will **, and my mother-in-law will not let me cut the nails, saying that I am not allowed to touch the scissors in the confinement, and a group of aunts and aunts will count them together, hehe.

The bear children during the Chinese New Year made me deeply realize that if the education is not good, don't give birth. It's not good for children or for others. Coupled with the fact that I was a teacher during my internship, I became more and more afraid of children.