It s awkward to eat with a friend of the opposite sex What s wrong with me

Updated on psychology 2024-06-06
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's okay, he asks ten times, you just ask for one (and it's not too expensive), some boys value this very much, you just come along and it's fine! Don't feel like you're taking advantage, no one thinks that way, except yourself! And he always invites you to dinner, does it mean that to you, if you both have it, then it's not a problem, just let him spend it, he's happy, even if it doesn't work out in the future, don't worry, no boy will recover the cost because his friends didn't negotiate, or he's too much!!

    Rest assured, it's all over!!

    If you want to be bored with him, then make it clear immediately, and just refuse to go to dinner! Otherwise, she thinks that you are playing subtle, and it will be difficult to deal with this matter after his unrequited love for a long time!!

    Solve it immediately, don't do it, or ordinary friends don't have to do it!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not your fault, it's not good, you shouldn't have seen him for a long time, have you become a stranger? Most people will have this feeling It's normal You have to try to talk to strangers In that case, you will slowly get used to it You should be a quieter person Usually go out less to play Like to be at home Or go out only to find some good friends Oh If you change your mind, you won't be like this Here is a person who said that there is no woman to pay the bill when you go to dinner with a woman? What kind of international joke are you making a public shouting at the woman, please do it, you call it a swollen face and a fat man, and you want to save face, and the woman's payment is very embarrassing, and the ideas are different, and now men and women are equal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I ask you, have you ever seen a boy and a girl go to dinner and a boy asks the girl to pay the bill?

    Then you have to find a way to explain it to him in advance! Lest it get harder and harder to say the longer it goes on!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's right. He is bored with man self-esteem. The girl felt embarrassed when she paid for it, so I invited mm to dinner several times and was refused, not to jump off the building.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not strange for a guy to go out to dinner with friends of the opposite sex, the two of them may have a good time, get close, and it's normal for friends to go out for dinner occasionally!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's very normal for a guy to go out to dinner with friends of the opposite sex, and there is nothing strange or wrong about it. But if you have a girlfriend, it's better to avoid this kind of thing as much as possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's normal for a boy to go out to dinner with a friend of the opposite sex, and it's naturally your right to choose what kind of person to make friends with, so there's no need to care about the gossip of boring people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Is it strange for a guy to go out to dinner with a friend of the opposite sex, and what's wrong, if the guy doesn't have a girlfriend, it's not wrong, if he has a girlfriend, it's not appropriate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think it's strange or wrong for a male god to go out to dinner with a friend of the opposite sex, because they will have a lot of things to deal with, so the girlfriend should understand the boyfriend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When a guy goes out to eat with friends of the opposite sex, it feels strange if two people go out to eat alone, but if two people are together with a lot of people, this is normal.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not strange for a guy to go out to eat with friends of the opposite sex, because men and women can also be good friends, and two people can do it without a little ambiguity just as friends.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is nothing strange about this, because men and women just need to interact and then meet to eat and go shopping to enhance their relationship, so it is necessary for two people to communicate, and there is nothing wrong with it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If a boy goes out to dinner with friends of the opposite sex, this is not surprising at all, after all, when he reaches the age of talking about marriage, he should have more contact with the opposite sex. Therefore, we should all be very aware of this point and not discuss it excessively.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What's wrong with a guy going out to dinner with friends of the opposite sex? I think guys go out to eat with the opposite sex. I think it's awkward for him to eat on that occasion if it's not a friend of the opposite sex, only a real friend of the opposite sex is eating together, I think. That's normal.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not surprising that a boy goes out to eat with friends of the opposite sex, and there is nothing wrong with having friends from all walks of life having a meal together

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't think it's strange for a guy to go out to dinner with friends of the opposite sex, there's nothing wrong with it, it's just that if it's single, it's okay, and you need to pay attention to it when you're married.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not surprising that this friend of the opposite sex goes out to eat, everyone will have friends of the opposite sex, for example, there are also colleagues of the opposite sex, so it is normal to go out to eat once in a while.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Is it strange for a guy to go out to dinner with friends of the opposite sex? Is there anything wrong? If a guy already has a girlfriend and often goes out to eat with friends of the opposite sex, there must be something wrong. There must be something problematic.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think it's surprising, after all, everyone has their own private space, and they all have their own privacy! There's no need to be so strict!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If a single boy and a girl go out to eat, it is indeed a little strange, of course, there is nothing wrong with it, you can go out to eat if you want, why do you have to care about other people's eyes?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's not strange or wrong for a guy to go out to eat with friends of the opposite sex.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If a guy has a girlfriend, eating alone with the opposite sex will cause his girlfriend to be jealous.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's normal for boys to go out to dinner with friends of the opposite sex! What's so strange about that? It's a real friendship between people, so what's the fuss?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    A guy goes out to eat alone with the opposite sex, if he has a girlfriend, of course he will be very well-behaved, if he doesn't have a girlfriend, is he likely to be more nervous?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    How can it be strange that contact with the opposite sex is normal both at work and in life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Is it weird for a guy to go out and eat with friends of the opposite sex, is there anything wrong with it, I think it's okay if you don't have a girlfriend, it's a bit bad if you have a girlfriend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Guys going out to eat with the opposite sex are either interesting to girls or lovers.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's weird to go out to dinner with friends of the opposite sex, what's wrong? I think it's better for boys to maintain a little relationship with the opposite sex.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Eating with someone of the opposite sex you like can be a little nervous and awkward, but that doesn't mean you have to avoid it. Here are some suggestions that may be useful:

    1.Relax: Try to relax and don't overcomplicate this meal. You can try to relax and enjoy your meal while having a relaxed and natural conversation with each other.

    2.Be prepared: If you feel the need to discuss something at the dinner table, think of something ahead of time, or prepare something interesting, such as talking about a movie you've recently watched or traveling.

    3.Authentic Performance: Try to be your true self and don't try to play a different role than yourself. If you're embarrassed or don't know what to say, express your feelings and thoughts, or ask the other person what they think.

    4.Maintain a positive attitude: Maintain a positive attitude and try to show your interest and curiosity. You can ask the other person some questions, or listen to the other person's ideas, and show your understanding and support.

    5.Don't rush: If you feel that this meal didn't live up to your expectations, don't be too frustrated or rushed. You can try to invite the other person to dinner again, but don't force yourself or the other person to make any uncomfortable decisions.

    The most important thing is to be confident and respectful, believing that you can have a great time dining.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There are two ways to do this.

    One, if the two of you have just been together, the relationship is not in place, you don't know each other well enough, and you can't let go of the restraints, so it will be embarrassing to eat in Yihan.

    Second, if you have been dating for a period of time and have a relative understanding of each other, this can deepen your relationship. Able to speak freely and without inhibitions.

    In this way, eating together will not only not be awkward, but also promote each other's previous feelings.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Can I eat alone with friends of the opposite sex after getting married? In fact, the ancients have already used their wisdom to give the answer, as the so-called melon field does not accept, Li Xia does not complete the crown. This means that it is best not to do things that can cause people to be suspicious and suspicious.

    Of course, in the case of modern society is not so feudal, it is not that you can't eat alone with friends of the opposite sex, but first of all, your own behavior determines whether you can give yourself the other half, absolute sense of security, there must be a certain safety distance between people, and there is a very important sense of proportion, and friends of the opposite sex must pay attention to the sense of proportion between each other, and then do everything to respond, for your other half, let him be full of security for you, give him enough confidence, I don't think he will have any objections even if you go out to eat with friends of the opposite sex, but if you don't give him the security he wants at the beginning, then it's normal to be suspicious of you later.

    Men and women who are in love or after marriage, if they are smart, will not do this kind of thing that makes their other half feel uncomfortable, or that matching fingers is suspicious. If you do, you must also be consistent with your words and deeds, so that your other half can feel at ease. After all, in the world of feelings, people are selfish, and they don't want their lovers to be ambiguous with others, or something unclear happens.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    1.First of all, it depends on whether you have a boyfriend, if you have a boyfriend, it is best to talk to your boyfriend first, and ask your friends of the opposite sex if you mind if you bring your boyfriend. Secondly, it depends on whether the other party also has a girlfriend. If there is, then just go to dinner with the four of you.

    3.If the other person has a girlfriend, it's best not to eat alone. Ask the other party to bring his girlfriend or refuse outright.

    2.If you don't have a boyfriend and you're single, first ask your friend of the opposite sex if it's the two of you or if you're eating with someone else. If you are alone and you have a crush on each other, then going to dinner can also promote the relationship.

    If you don't have a good impression of each other, it's nothing if you're just a friend of the opposite sex to go to dinner, and it's a big deal to end up AA

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Isn't there a call for them.

    Or you're alone with a significant other.

    Let them envy, envy and hate.

    Life after marriage is a family-oriented, and you have to consider your husband's opinions and feelings.

    Of course, everyone will also have their own private space after marriage.

    If it's just a normal matter of friends or work, make it clear to your husband.

    I believe he will understand, and pay attention to it, such as not coming home too late, not drinking too much, not being too intimate with other members of the opposite sex, etc.

    It's normal, it's just embarrassing.

    This one together before going out.

    Let's just talk about it first.

    Tell the other person. Today's meal AA system.

    That's it.

    If this question is standing on the man's side, it must be wrong, no one wants their girlfriend to go out in the middle of the night, even if it is a friend of the opposite sex who has a good relationship, you can say something the next day, there is no need to be at night.

    If you think about it from the woman's side, since your friend has called herself, if you don't go, it will be very shameless. But! The woman can politely refuse, saying that she has to go to work tomorrow, so can she get together again tomorrow, to see if the woman can speak, on the one hand, it is respect for her boyfriend, on the other hand, it is also respect for her friend, the word friend, not just talking, friends are people who understand each other and help each other, real friends, will not call you out in the middle of the night, he will consider whether it will affect your rest, or call you out in your leisure time.

    And friends don't necessarily play well, they are together every day, and they are called friends for a long time, do you know what is the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is sweet? It means that friends with interests have very deep feelings, but they will also break off relations because of this, this society is really like this, brothers still settle accounts, not to mention friends.

    LZ is still very comprehensive, since he is back, he has time every day, and the next day is the same, I don't care about that night, and girls shouldn't drink and eat at night, if I were a parent, I would never let my child go out in the middle of the night, I believe that absolutely no parent will be like this, if there is, then I can only say, you haven't been a parent yet, you don't understand anything at all!

    You say that a new restaurant is a good thing to try,,, or you say that someone has a treat, and when you arrive, you say that the person is not coming.

    If that guy is also my best friend, I don't think it matters, if it's just her friend of the opposite sex, then I'll see if there is a business relationship or some other reason, if there is no reason to eat, I obviously don't want to!

    If there are men and women with a group of colleagues after work, it is nothing, and if I meet someone alone on the weekend, I will be jealous and angry, this is to distinguish what the situation is and what is the matter.

    AA, since the other party has spoken. So what's the point, you're a boy who should invite girls to dinner and show good manners.

    He likes you or he has bad intentions.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Personally, I think that eating alone with friends of the opposite sex can also realize whether the opposite sex loves you or not, in these three aspects, the more a man "minds", the more he really loves you!

    1. He will mind your interactions with other members of the opposite sex.

    Everyone has their own ideas about whether they can have friends of the opposite sex after falling in love or getting married, some people will feel that as long as they are not the other party's ex or the like, ordinary friends don't matter, but some people feel that since you are with me, then you should not have friends of the opposite sex.

    If that friend of the opposite sex likes you and wants to pursue you, such a person of the opposite sex will naturally refuse, otherwise your partner should not be at ease, don't say anything" He is just my good buddy, "The man who really loves you, he is as nervous about you as you are to him, and he will also be worried about losing you."

    2. He will mind if you don't have him in your heart.

    If a man truly loves you, he will also be jealous and "angry," and his jealousy and anger are nothing more than that you don't love him enough and don't care enough about him in your heart.

    3. He will mind if he joins your circle.

    Men and women are the same, if they really like each other, they will hope that the other party can introduce him to his relatives and friends, and let him integrate into his circle, which represents his true recognition and acceptance.

    When a man loves you deeply, he will naturally mind whether he has joined your circle, whether he knows your friends, and even at that time, he wants to know your friends more than his own friends, his psychology is nothing more than because he is closer to you and can understand your life better.

    4. The more you love your man, the more he will mind these little things, not so much that he minds, but because he cares.

    Only a man who cares about you will mind your association with other friends of the opposite sex; Only a man who cares about you will mind that you don't have him in your heart; Only men who care about you will mind if they join your circle or not.

    When he has you in his heart, he will become a child, and even have a lot of childish practices, and this is nothing more than because he loves you, don't think that those who don't mind anything are really good to you, and if they don't mind, they don't care, and not being jealous can only show that they don't love you enough in their hearts.

    In this life, you may meet many people, but the person who loves you like this may be the only one, and you will be loved!

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