How to tactfully ask a good friend to ask her to pay back???

When chatting with her, she said that you want to buy something or something, such as your backpack is broken, you want to get a new backpack, so-and-so wants to give a gift for her birthday, and the living expenses have been a little tight recently, etc., these words obviously mean that you are short of money, if she still doesn't pay you back, or she will forget it at the end or you don't want to pay it back, you don't want to be embarrassed, people are embarrassed to borrow, why are you embarrassed to ask for it, smiled and said Hey, the last time the five hundred yuan that solved your urgent need, you forgot, give me Zhang Luo Zhang Luo I am useful, you are intimate with her like this, It won't hurt feelings.

For example, if she lends you six dollars, and when you want it, you call her name, stretch out your hand and draw six, and if she doesn't understand, you shout: six dollars!! That's it.

But in the future, when someone cares about you borrowing money, when he says thank you, you say to him: Don't thank you first, I will be embarrassed to ask you if you thank you.

Don't be like this, if you're a good friend, you'll be detoured, to tell you the truth Since you're a good friend, you don't count so much If you make up any reason to go around the bend with her, it will make him think that you are fake, and the relationship with you will not be so close What do you think?

I borrowed money from someone else, but I really want to buy something, can you pay me back the money I borrowed from you last time? Or you can borrow some for me first.

You said you were going to use the money, and you didn't have it on hand.

You pretend to forget that he wants to pay you back, so you go to him and borrow money.

Borrow the same amount of money from her.

If you don't pay back your money, that's also a good friend? So how did he open his mouth to borrow it?~

Method 1: Revisit the past.

When a friend borrowed money from you, you must have asked him why he was short of money. Now you can talk to him about the reason for his lack of money at the beginning, and kindly ask him how things were at the beginning, whether it has been resolved, and whether he is still short of money......The hints are already obvious, and if he hasn't grasped it yet, then you repeat it a few more times.

Method 2: Cite the example of someone else borrowing money.

When you chat with the friend who borrowed money and didn't pay it back, you have to mention how much money you borrowed from you, and what you did (this matter can be made up, after all, life is like a play, it all depends on acting); The amount of money and the things you do should be the same as what happened between the two of you, so that he can remember.

Method 3: Ask him for money on the grounds that he is in financial difficulty.

It's also a more euphemistic way to make up a reason to ask him to repay the money, for example, you just tell him that your daughter-in-law has been in charge of it recently and has no money on her, and then you want to get back the money you borrowed before.

Method 4: Borrow it directly.

You can borrow as much as he borrows from you, and if he forgets to pay you back, then he can forget the money he lent you, and that's exactly what he has done. If he hasn't forgotten the money he lent you, then you can just make it clear, if you don't pay back the money you owe, you don't have to pay it back if you lend it.

When asking a friend to pay back the money, you can say it in this way:

1. Tell a friend that there is no money to spend, and ask him if he can pay you back.

2. Tell a friend that you urgently need money, and ask him to repay the money to you as soon as possible.

3. If you are worried that your friend does not have much money to pay back, then let him pay back some of it, so that it is easier to speak.

4. First talk to your friend about his recent situation, and then ask him to pay back the money in a joking tone, so that you will be less embarrassed.

5. Find a suitable reason, borrowing money needs a reason, so we also need a reason when we find a friend to repay the money, and it is best to be able to find an impeccable reason.

In fact, there has been a strange phenomenon in today's society, I am a grandson when I borrow money, and I am an uncle when I repay the money, we take it for granted when we want to pay the account, why do we need to express it tactfully, I think I need to explain it directly to him when I want it, saying that now I need to use the money, you must return the money to me, so you can just express it directly, and you don't need to express it tactfully.

You can mention how he has been living in all aspects recently, and then say that you have been a little tight recently, and then at this time, you can actually tell him about some other people, that is, borrowed money, but I personally still think that at this time you still tell your friends directly, and ask your friends to pay you back, because I think at this time, if you are too tactful, maybe he will not understand, so I think if you really need money, it is better to say it directly.

You can tell your friend that he is short of money recently, and then ask if it seems that he still owes this money, because at this time, if you show that you are short of money, you can say that you need to pay back the money now, so that you will not say, let the friend feel that you are urging him to pay back the money, let him feel that it is this time to repay the money, which is still a kind of help for you in all aspects, so I personally think it is better to ask for money because of your lack of money.

Now the society has really become a distorted society, people gradually have no integrity, sometimes when you lend money to others, others say that the next day or next week will give you, but a delay will drag on for months or even years, these people have, if you want him to pay back, you tell him that this time is really very tight, because asking for money is a matter of course for us, after all, others have borrowed our money, so at this time we don't need to express it tactfully.

I think we can invite him to my house in the evening and tell him how he is doing, because he really needs money, so it would be better for us to talk about it privately, and because no one else in my own family will know about it, it would be better to do this way.

We can ask our friend to pay back the money through some implicit behavior, for example, we can discuss some online shopping or shopping with him, and then he will ask us, why do you have so much money to shop? And then we said, isn't this waiting for you to pay back? In this way, you can express yourself well with a happier topic, so that friends can quickly repay the money.

<> is there anything you can talk to your friends about Nothing can't be solved Just talk about it.

Grievances should be resolved, not settled. It's not the way to go on like this.

This is immoral.

Now the problems are not good, because many problems are complex and diverse, more troublesome, and easy to make mistakes, so you can only be sure of yourself.

Asking others to pay back the money tactfully, instead of being tough to come back, requires some scheming, and there are usually three ways to refer to it:

First, give the other party a reminder first.

There is a possibility that the other party will forget. Even if the other party has not forgotten, they deliberately think that the other party has forgotten, subtly remind the other party, and create an opportunity for the other party to suddenly remember.

At this time, the other party already felt that he had a chance to give him a ** level, and he may have returned the money on the grounds that he remembered it.

This method of asking for money is the least hurtful.

2. Use the anti-borrowing method to remind you to repay the money.

I am not in a hurry to repay the money, but say that I have encountered a major event and urgently need money, can you lend me a sum of money to use it first, and then pay you back immediately. At this time, because the other party owes you money, he will be unable to live with his conscience if he knows your situation and does not pay it back, so he may return the money to you.

3. Find someone who feels pressured to mediate.

If the above two methods do not work, it means that the other party has financial pressure, or it may be that they want to repay the debt, and then leave a face to the other party, that is, to find someone who can talk, and it is best for the other party to feel psychological pressure to mediate, so that the purpose of repaying the money can generally be achieved.

In short, it is easy to borrow money and difficult to ask for money, and when you meet a thick-skinned person, you should be more active when you ask for money.

1. How to euphemistically urge people to repay the money The first trick: skillfully pressure to repay the money. It is not easy to tell the other party with a red face, but your family lover or parents (pale) often encourage you to recover the money you owe, and if you delay, it will lead to family disharmony;

2. How to euphemistically urge people to repay the second trick: side reminder to repay the money. Find a mutual friend of both parties, and inadvertently bring up the matter of raising money, everyone is a person who wants to save face, so polite and embarrassing to ask for money can not be repaid;

3. How to euphemistically urge people to repay the money The third trick: send a circle of friends to remind you to repay the money, send your recent lack of money to the circle of friends, and casually remind him to pay back the money to save the emergency, this polite and embarrassing method of repaying the money reminds the friend elegantly, and does not lose face;

4. How to euphemistically urge people to repay the money The fourth trick: SMS reminder to repay the money. Sending a text message to exaggerate your recent financial pressure to the other party, using this polite and embarrassing method of repaying the money shows that it is not me urging you to repay the money, but the reality is forcing me, and I have no choice;

5. How to euphemistically urge people to repay the fifth trick: consumer intelligent transformation to urge the repayment of money. Ask him to go to a similar place to borrow money, or take him directly to shop, when paying the bill, he said that he forgot to bring his wallet, and there is no money on WeChat on his mobile phone, so he asked him to pay for you, and politely and embarrassingly reminded him to repay the money and said that it was deducted from the money he borrowed last time;

6. How to euphemistically urge people to repay money People with different personalities should adopt different methods, the most important thing to urge friends to repay money is to be afraid of losing face and taking care of each other's feelings. For a person who can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, he has to collect evidence and use legal means to sue and demand the money.

Repay the money (euphemistically and bow his head to return the money (euphemistically and bow his head and clasp his fingers to show embarrassment).

If you have pointed out that the borrower is a person who wants to accommodate him, it means that in his heart, you should borrow money, so the act of "asking you to pay back" itself hurts him, whether you are tactful or not.

From your description, it is clear that his unconscious behavior has hurt your feelings, which means that it is impossible for you to keep him from hurting you on the one hand, and you not hurt him on the other.

If you still want to be friends with the other person for life, it is recommended to talk to the other person directly about your problems and inform them that the other person's behavior not only hurts you emotionally, but also causes you to be struggling in life. If the other party treats you as a friend, he will definitely explain or pay back; If the other party doesn't treat you as a friend, then you don't have to worry about whether it will hurt the other party's feelings.

In addition, there is more than one roommate in the dormitory, so ask other roommates if they have your own troubles, and maybe this trouble will become an opportunity for you to become friends with other people.

In short, we can't be close friends with everyone, keep a certain distance, and just don't get into trouble.

Don't be tactful, just say it.

Honest people won't mind, they will pay it back if they can, and they will explain the reason to you if they can't.

It's useless for you to be tactful!

If you are angry because you bluntly ask for the money to be repaid, complain about you and resent you, such a person doesn't pay it! Be free and easy!

Just say what you want, tactfulness has no effect on this kind of old man.

I'm sorry to use it, it's useless to knock on the side, just say it directly, I've been short of money lately, and I don't have money to eat, so I borrowed it from him.

For such roommates, they still stay away. He didn't treat you as a roommate, you are still afraid of hurting your feelings, what feelings do you have at all, be brave, your kindness will only make people gain an inch. You embarrass yourself, do others take your kindness seriously, maybe they will scoff in their hearts.

Really good roommates are all for each other, not for themselves.

You said that your aunt or some relative's cousin likes to play games, borrowing money from classmates to buy equipment, classmates ask him, tell his parents if he doesn't give it, he is afraid of being beaten and borrow money from you... As for the food money, if you want, ask him to bring you something one day, and the amount of money is not about the same.

Judge whether he has the ability to repay first.

If so, hint to him that you are very poor now and have difficulty eating, and ask him if he can pay back the borrowed money to eat well.

You find a suitable opportunity and jokingly say: You still owe me two meals... Forget it.

To put it jokingly ...

Look at the bowl of rice in the cafeteria, it doesn't look like the two meals I helped you make before.

That's it, after all, it's a dormitory, forget it, 2 meals money, but next time he tells you about borrowing money, he can't be resolute.

Say it directly, often say in front of him that he has no money, he will not borrow again, and then directly ask them for money, what to transfer to me how much, he himself will be embarrassed, if there is no money, he will ask when he will pay back, if it is next month, next month, next month, he must wait for his family to call the money, then he will ask, otherwise after a long time he will say that he has no money again.