Ask Zhixin emotional expert, my girlfriend is three years older than me, will it be appropriate for

If you listen to many people around you, then let them marry you and fall in love, and let them give you children and raise children.

If you don't like it, let it go.

If you like it, don't care about other people's eyes, cherish your feelings.

That's not a problem.

As long as you think it's suitable.

You have to be faithful to her, be honest, and promise that you will bring her happiness and truly love her. Give her a sense of security.

How good it is for a female junior to hold gold bricks.

I just fell in love with a boy younger than me, and I don't think age was an issue.

Feelings include a lot, if you are in love, feelings should be treated truthfully, not hypocritical, in love to pay the feelings are very sweet, but there may be quarrels, quarrels are inevitable.

What problem you want to solve, you can post what you want to solve on the Internet, and there are people who can solve it who will help you, and you can refer to it.

If it's just a morning meeting, the two of you can go shopping, buy some things, and see the attractions. This class will go to eat delicious food and do some interesting experience activities together. This will strengthen the bond between each other.

Just don't stay in the house all day. If two people are in different places, what is needed is a kind of trust in each other. Because of the distance, it will increase the longing and suspicion of the other party.

I can help you. But first you have to explain your problem! In fact, it is better to rely on others than on yourself, solving problems is not a math problem, there are fixed answers! m ask others, a hundred people, there are 100 answers! But not necessarily! Or according to your own heart.

Explain the problem clearly to help you.

What's the matter, I'm just, let's hear it.

The problem is in all aspects, depending on your resilience. If you have a problem in a certain aspect, first of all, you must be calm, not impatient, your thinking, to think in multiple directions, and then find the most confidant to discuss with your own family, to calm down and listen to the opinions of others, in the synthesis of the nature of the problem, plus the solution you want to solve, from which to find the best way to solve the problem. That's all I can think of for you, and I don't know if I can help you.

Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you. The heart will become peaceful.

I don't know, there's no problem at the moment, I don't need to solve it, the problem is too heavy, I can't take it out! Really solve the problem or do you do it on your own? All you have to say is advice.

It is the small that makes the big one, but it is necessary to educate the small one! Everyone has to learn to grow up, in fact, when they are old, they will also be very favored, but there is no bigger one to compare at that time. Besides, there are not many things that can be done at different ages.

There is also the inertia of people, who know more in their hearts, and should take care of the small ones and let the small ones. It is the small that makes the big one, but it is necessary to educate the small one! Everyone has to learn to grow up, in fact, when they are old, they will also be very favored, but there is no bigger one to compare at that time.

Besides, there are not many things that can be done at different ages. There is also the inertia of people, who know more in their hearts, and should take care of the small ones and let the small ones. It is the small that makes the big one, but it is necessary to educate the small one!

Everyone has to learn to grow up, in fact, when they are old, they will also be very favored, but there is no bigger one to compare at that time. Besides, there are not many things that can be done at different ages. There is also the inertia of people, who know more in their hearts, and should take care of the small ones and let the small ones.

Sometimes quarrels are inevitable, and as long as you have expectations for the other person, you may be disappointed, or the other person may resist. But the way to solve the problem is not only quarrels, if you can, just hold a round table, ** communication is easier to solve the problem than quarrels.

However, if everyone is angry, my general solution is to tell myself that such a noise will not only not help solve the problem, but also hurt the feelings of two people, so I usually cool down quickly and run away without talking. When the other party also calms down, then he will definitely come over to discuss the behavior just now.

Everyone will encounter endless difficulties and ups and downs in their lives, for some problems, we can solve it with personal ability, but many problems may also be, the vast majority of problems are beyond our personal ability, which will cause us a huge psychological burden, if your mentality is not adjusted well, you will feel pain and sorrow, your whole person may also be defeated by difficulties, and even from then on, then in the face of difficulties and ups and downs, what should we do? The key is to look at the personal mentality, when you maintain a mentality full of positive energy, in Internet language, the gods and horses are floating clouds, so tell yourself, face the sea, spring blossoms, and be a person full of positive energy from tomorrow.

You can't pursue the ultimate in everything!

Half of the flowers bloom, drunk and slightly drunk!

It is the most beautiful scenery in life!

To solve a problem, first look at your analytical ability, and then look at your ability to deal with changes.

If you have a problem in a certain aspect, first of all, you must be calm, not impatient, your thinking, to think in multiple directions, and then find the most confidant to discuss with your own family, to calm down and listen to the opinions of others, in the synthesis of the nature of the problem, plus the solution you want to solve, from which to find the best way to solve the problem.

That's all I can think of for you, and I don't know if I can help you.

Reality beats love! You know why? It's not the powerlessness of love, it's the reality that is too powerful!

At this time, we must learn to give up, give up the psychology of impatience, and wait for the turn of life safely, so that we can have a transcendent care for life and life, even if we can't reach this realm, we must learn to give up, and strive to live freely. People are born, we need to give up a lot of things, the ancients said: fish and bear's paws can not have both, if not we should have, we have to learn to give up, we have a maturity, to live a more fulfilling, calm and easy, to give up a relationship is also difficult, especially to give up an unforgettable relationship, but since that period of time has passed away, since the back has gradually drifted away, why do you need to watch hard in a place?

It is better to take a step back calmly, will not give up, everything will be bright, many things, always after experiencing will understand, such as the emotional pain, will know how to protect themselves, stupid, will know how to adhere to and give up in a timely manner, in the gain and loss of we slowly understand, in fact, life does not need such a senseless attachment, nothing really can not be parted. Learn to give up, life will be easier, learn to give up, turn around and leave before crying, leave a simple back, learn to give up, bury yesterday in the bottom of your heart, leave the most beautiful memories, learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, the love all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable, this journey is deep and shallow, it is not easy to get to this day, gently pull out your hand, say goodbye, really thank you, there are you along the way, I have said that I love you, I still love you today, Just love you but can't be with you just like the fire lily in the back field, love it, but can't take it back, every feeling is beautiful, every journey is also intoxicating, is not to have the regret, let us feel more affectionate, is the middle of the night no one misses, let us feel more nostalgic, feelings is a questionnaire without an answer, the pursuit of hard work can not make life more complete, maybe a little regret, some sadness, will make this answer, more timeless, but also longer, pack up the mood, keep walking, miss the flowers, you will harvest the rain, I just met you if you missed her, keep walking, you will eventually reap your own beauty.

Every family may encounter problems, that is, the conflict between marriage and love, most of the marital crisis in the couple is due to emotional breakdown, this emotion is the emotion of marriage, not the emotion in love, psychology is used to call the emotion outside the marriage as the emotion in love, and the emotional meaning in marriage and love is completely different, the emotion in love is a romantic and warm love show, the sense of submission in marriage is attached to care for life, and then the emotion of ecstasy finally has to return to the bland, even cruel reality, Only a marriage that has experienced uneventful and cruel, and can still stick to attachment and tolerance, is true love.

Be yourself, don't end up with nothing.

It's not a good consciousness, to be honest, I'm not a master of love, but, I took a look, slightly expressed my little opinion, for my own failure, I did things that violated my principles and violated my feelings, don't you think it's really sad! Just because of your own failures, do you ruin other girls? Facing your feelings so superficial, why don't you like the girl you like, if it's me, I won't like you, you're a man, you can't face failure, how do you give happiness to the person you like!

However, it's too late for you to change it now, remember! If you fail, don't be the same as before, as a bystander, I can only say so much, but I still sincerely hope that you can be happy!

It's a really profound experience, it's very moving, your affection, your helplessness, your pain, it's all very touching, I have to say that you are a good man, but you didn't meet the right person at the right time.

It feels like this thing is really ethereal, there is it, there is no none, there is no such thing as cultivating feelings, so since she has betrayed you by giving you so much, then you better let it go. In fact, it may not be as difficult as you think, because everyone wants to retain the purity and beauty of their first love, so they are unwilling to let go easily.

She, I do think it's not good, but it's not a good way for you to vent and retaliate for her, because from beginning to end, you are the only one who is hurt, and she won't feel sorry for you, so why bother.

My first boyfriend (who realized that he had broken up for two years and had been dating for a year) was also empathetic, and then it was purely for the purpose of using my money, and in the end when he proposed to break up, I didn't want to let go, and willfully disagreed, but he still broke up unilaterally, and I was helpless. I also indulged in drunkenness for a while, but then I came out, life still has to live, people still have to live, don't they? Besides, I was only in high school at the time, so I still had a long way to go.

So think about it, and hope my words will help you.

Today's society is just for fun... I also have a boyfriend, but I'm also having an affair with a man, and I still have to go back to my boyfriend after playing, you should always be a person like me, body, just to vent... I also told the man not to fall in love with me, I'm not responsible. Actually·· To put it mildly, in this society, who is not lonely... Speaking of which, my boyfriend can't compare to any of the man, my boyfriend, who is poorer than my family, is not responsible, let me have two babies in a year... On the first night of my surgery, I could still play billiards with someone until midnight, I went to him, I got angry in front of his friends, he could push me to the ground, such a bad man, I still don't want to leave him, because I love him, maybe we are all all the way, we can afford it, I can't let it go...

Learn to let go. Resume.

It's said that it's the first love, isn't there a second and third spring?

You're good to her, you're good to her, that's your business.

It's someone else's business if they don't accept it.

It's not wrong to work hard emotionally.

Have you used to enlighten people a lot, and there are always some similarities in emotional problems.

That's how people deal with other people's problems, it's easy and reasonable, but it's hard to deal with problems yourself.

You're a good man.

I suggest you find another one.

Find a time to go out for a walk, look at the sky, look at the landscape, go shopping, in the birds and flowers, laughing and scolding, you will find that there are many beautiful things you have not experienced. Love each other, but don't let love become a bond, let the past become a memory. Maybe happiness is just around the next corner, but don't go all the way!

Hehe, I wish you happiness

"Once the sea was difficult to water, except for Wushan is not a cloud", don't think you are well-informed and think that you are well-informed, and you will look down on everything if you really experience more. You can rest assured, as long as you work hard, you will meet a good girl who can get married that you feel and love you.

Alas... THE WORLD IS CHANGING SO FAST THAT WE CAN'T DO ANYTHING ...

Your ex-girlfriend shouldn't do this, you have to recognize her, this kind of woman can't do it, what does she think of you. But it's not right for you to be like other women, it's your own problem.

How to say that, your situation is very sad I don't think it's really better than you It's just this writing and reading In fact, you don't have to change It's good to be your original self, you don't need to be too persistent in your life, just say that your first love is generally the most beautiful But there are few happy endings No matter how good you are to him, it's useless to be unsuitable is not suitable Reluctant to be together will not be happy Since she said that she loves her current boyfriend very much, that is not to love you Although you feel that you can't let go That is also your own attachment Why don't you turn this relationship into the best memories Time will cure everything It's this to let go Bless her Isn't it better Wouldn't it be better to save yourself the pain Let him go and let himself go The girl you want to chase ignores you You don't have to change anything Wait Maybe what suits you hasn't appeared yet What's in a hurry Why don't you want them to miss you is the biggest loss Have self-confidence Live your life happily is the most important thing Don't be too persistent and die sad.