How to leave a man who gives you financial support

Updated on society 2024-06-02
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    A person will not help you in vain, don't leave in a hurry now, you can find out the other party first.

    Generally plain helpers are possible.

    1. You are related (maybe you don't know it), or you are entrusted by your relatives to take care of you.

    2. This person has a good heart and sincerely helps you, and asks for nothing.

    3. What I want from you, what I want to get, or what I want to make up for.

    If it's the first two cases, it's not close to you if you leave him again, you just can't bear it.

    It's not good that he doesn't love you and leaves, you can treat him as an older brother and open him as a communist.

    Talk, as long as the heart is right, it is the same whether you leave or not.

    If it's the third case, I suggest you wait and see what happens now, and when you have a job, you will have less contact.

    Nature leaves, the most important thing is your heart, your love for his heart to do weird, as long as you control yourself.

    Feelings are good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Seriously. You can just leave him.

    Pay him back when he gets a job. I don't think he cares when you give it back to him. You can talk to him. After getting a job, how much is it still in a month.

    You say you love him, and if you really want to end it, stop the relationship.

    Since he said that, it must be like that. But you subconsciously don't want to have anything to do with him, so you hurry up and find a job and pay back the money. That's it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Why would you accept a man's financial support for you? Is he your family? If not, why did you accept it in the first place?

    Why not on your own? Did you like him because of material things? On the other hand, if I were that man, I would have chosen it this way.

    Even if it's a boyfriend, a man who is ready to go for the rest of his life, you shouldn't let him bear your finances, right?!

    Girls who are not married, please give yourself dignity and backbone, why rely on men? In the end, it is too dependent on the other party, and it is difficult to leave.

    Now, he thinks that as long as he bears you until you have a financial **, there is nothing to be sorry for you, and he will feel that he has done his best, and it is your fault if you pester him again. Why did you bother in the first place?!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't panic, don't get excited, just wait and see what he does next.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love him why don't you tell him, no matter what he thinks.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you know that your girlfriend is in trouble but don't take the initiative to help, this kind of man is too irresponsible. Even if a good friend has difficulties, you have to lend a hand, and as a qualified boyfriend, even if you have difficulties, you must help your girlfriend out of the situation first.

    So you still have to recognize this man seriously, so as not to delay your youth.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The ancient road is slightly blank and complete, and the origin of the dust is to blame the sages.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    So why did you agree to marry him in the first place? Don't you even know about it? If that's the case, it's not interesting for you to live with him anymore, it's you who is affected by anger, and now his heart is not on you at all, so you won't think about anything for you, but if you want to divorce, try to agree to both parties, otherwise you will have to return some of the money! What I hate the most is to get married blindly!

    Think of a way to leave, there will be no good fruit to eat in persistence!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can be together, that's fate.

    You can have a small family meeting with your husband and his family, or if you don't dare to say it, just talk to your husband and ask for your name and your husband's name on the house you buy.

    If you don't want to, then divorce With such a family and such a husband, you won't be happy, but fortunately you don't have children.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, a man will only care about the woman with whom he shares weal and giving.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it were me, I would take her! But don't give her money to spend!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, this should be a gold worshipper.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I wouldn't do anything like this woman.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it is still necessary for men to volunteer, and there is no way. If he doesn't do it voluntarily, even if you get the hang of it, there will be problems in the end.

    Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Most women like honest and responsible men, to make a woman truly love you, you must first truly love her, be able to tolerate her, take care of her, and love her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To see whether a man is a potential stock, look at the following three points.

    The most important thing to look at is the following three points:

    First, it depends on whether he is a hard-working person, not only to work hard, but also to strive to create relationships that are beneficial to him.

    Second, it depends on whether he will create opportunities for himself, such as "charging" his work in a timely manner, and not letting go of any opportunity to get to know senior management.

    Third, it depends on whether he has a calm and firm personality. If he wants to change from a "potential stock" to a "high-performance stock", he must encounter setbacks up and down, if he does not resist pressure and does not insist, then his "stock price" will definitely not rise to the peak. In addition, his calm personality means that he will not change due to changes in the external environment, let alone forget his love commitment due to the rise of his personal value.

    If he has the above three points, then you can buy him with confidence and hold him as a "high-performance stock" for a long time.

    I've seen two interesting figures: in economics, the success rate of the first venture is less than 10%, and the average person often doesn't really succeed until the fourth start. In the study of love, the success rate of first love is only 6%, and more than half of people have experienced four or more times of love before they can get married.

    Some people say that economics and love are inherently intertwined, and it seems that this is true.

    If you want to start a successful business, you can't avoid mistakes, and if you want to be happy and in love, you must learn from the past!

    A certain Taiwanese writer once said: "God will let you meet a few wrong people first on the road of love, and the most suitable person will always come the latest." In economics, we say, "The best investment for you often comes after a few failures!" ”

    If he has the above three points, then you can buy him with confidence and hold him as a "high-performance stock" for a long time.

    There's a formula in economics: Happiness = Utility Expectation. On the surface, the same thing should have roughly the same effect, but applying this formula, we can see that the higher your expectation, the lower the happiness.

    For example, if your boyfriend's company gives a bonus, and he gets 1,000 yuan, but you expect him to use this bonus to buy a lv bag for himself, which requires 10,000 yuan, then use the above formula, divide 1,000 by 10,000, unfortunately, your happiness is only. But if your best friend's expectation is to let your boyfriend use this bonus to invite herself to a Western meal, as long as 200 yuan, divide 1000 by 200, her happiness is 5, much higher than you. So, to achieve happiness in love, it is best not to let lust affect your life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let him hand in the salary stub.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ask him for a pay slip and a pay card.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1.Scarf--- I love you forever.

    2.Cups --- for a lifetime.

    3.I miss you --- letter.

    4.Pajamas--- I give you my all.

    5 Flowers--- I wish to put my name on your heart.

    6.Book --- I'm sure you're smart.

    7.Chewing Gum--- I want to be with you for a long time.

    8.Cigarette --- I hate you.

    9.Book--- I want to see your innocent love.

    10.The ring --- you belong to me forever.

    11.Umbrella--- I will protect you in any situation.

    12.Hairpin--- I hope you succeed.

    13.Mirror--- don't forget me.

    14.Necklace--- I want you to be by my side.

    15.Chocolate--- I love you.

    16.Lighter--- you are my first love.

    17.Ballpoint pen --- I give you half of my heart.

    18.Key ornament--- I hope you're lucky.

    19.Paste mend (pen) - treasure our love in my heart.

    20.Tactile Doll (Gloves) – Hope you are a little more realistic.

    21.Mascot--- I want to be friends with you.

    22.Handkerchief--- I waited for a breakup to meet again.

    23.Diary--- I hope to keep the memories of the two of us in my heart.

    24.Pie Net's pie --- haha, this shows that she is very suitable to be your wife.

    25.Wallet - means that you want to be by his side forever.

    26.The belt - represents the tying of him for the rest of his life.

    27.Shaver - represents that he is an excellent mature man in your heart.

    28.Album - Treasure your and my memories forever.

    29.Paper Crane: I hope my love with you has a happy ending.

    30.Sending a watch means that you and him seem to have a relationship every minute and every second.

    31.Giving a tie means that you have trapped him so that he will always be by your side.

    Send girlfriend: 1The ring represents the love of you to the heart, and the willingness to take the vows for your love.

    2.The necklace represents locking you tightly, hoping that there is only him in your heart, and there is no other person of the opposite sex.

    3.The bracelet, in addition to wanting to trap you, also implies that he only loves you alone.

    4.Bracelets, on behalf of wanting to tie you up for the rest of your life.

    5.The anklet represents the tying of this life and the next life, hoping that they can still be together in the next life.

    The red rose represents passionate true love:

    Yellow roses represent cherished blessings and jealousy of lost love;

    Purple roses represent romance, true affection and preciousness and uniqueness;

    White roses represent purity and innocence.

    Black roses represent gentleness and sincerity;

    orange-red roses, friendship and youthful beauty;

    The blue rose represents generosity and kindness.

    Meaning of chocolate:

    Hazelnut Chocolate – Fidelity.

    Pralines – lovely.

    Wine chocolate – drunk with you.

    Creamy chocolate – my honey.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is not a simple question. The object you are sending to is a woman, and you should explain the specific situation of this object. What is the age of this woman?

    The identity of this woman? What is this woman's relationship with you? For example, if you are past the romantic age, you are not suitable to give her a thousand paper cranes.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Wanting to be financially compensated goes against the original intention of being a lover. Lovers don't talk about money, when they can be together, both parties will feel satisfied and happy, and now that the contradiction has appeared, then part ways, because you don't owe anyone, and there is no need to compensate.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Little three are doomed to no result This is the law.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    See if he has the financial ability, if the strength of the family is relatively strong, just like Song Siming's family in "Snail House" gave Seaweed a house and 5 million deposits, if the person has no financial ability, you should be free to fall in love!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Well, a breakup fee is a must. If you want it, you can leave no illusions. Don't waste your life on someone who doesn't fit, it's not worth it. Take his money and treat him to a meal and tell him not to think about me in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You've already done it wrong once, please don't do it a second time!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What kind of financial compensation do you want? Get out of here!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Seek knowledge. He doesn't love you when he's with you, and to be honest, he doesn't want to make a big fuss.

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