Too much explanation, it is better to choose silence, maybe this will be more appropriate?

Updated on society 2024-06-09
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    People may be contradictory animals, and you explain that he thinks that explanation is disguise. If you are silent, she will think: silence is acquiescence!! What can we do??? Let it be!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Summary. Silence is the answer, in fact, you should have understood it a long time ago, and the meaning of this sentence is that I respond to you in a silent way. You know a way, it's actually the answer I want from you, you should have understood, but you pretend you don't know anything.

    Silence is the answer, in fact, you should have understood it a long time ago, and the meaning of this sentence is that I respond to you in a silent way. You know a way, it's actually the answer I want from you, you should have understood, but you pretend you don't know anything.

    For most people, in fact, commitment may also be a kind of escape for them, but no matter how to escape, they need to face it, and the psychology of this kind of person is more entangled, and they don't know whether they should choose such a path, or whether they should choose such an answer.

    They always think that the other party will understand themselves, but in fact, many times in people's consciousness they will add oil and vinegar to various behaviors and carry out all kinds of unnecessary generalized reverie.

    Therefore, no matter what happens in the future, it is best to focus on verbal communication.

    No matter what you want to express, what you want to respond to, what you want to respond to, something that can be said clearly in one sentence.

    I used to want an answer to everything, but now I understand that a lot of things end quietly, and silence and alienation are the answers.

    Indeed, as a result, we find that there is such a phenomenon in both interpersonal relationships and in any relationship, and gradually everyone seems to become very silent as it was at the beginning, and as we get older, and we become more experienced, we look down on these things.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't know how to do it, don't worry, think hard.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It means that when you don't know what you know, understand, or are unsure, it's best not to express your position directly.

    It is also a way to avoid saying and doing things wrong.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Silence is sometimes just a way to escape, and this is the method of escape I choose now, but it hurts me a lot, and I still want to face it

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Not necessarily, sometimes it is necessary to rebel.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The best answer, the best explanation!

    When you make a mistake, it's always better to be silent!

    After all, you already know what you're doing wrong!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't know if you haven't had this mausoleum or what you have done:

    Seeing that others were unhappy and wanted to comfort them, they found that they couldn't find the right words, so they held back their enthusiasm and concern in their hearts.

    I wanted to express the subtle emotions in my heart, but I found that even if others would understand it, they would still say that you were hypocritical, so I chose not to say it at all.

    When you encounter happy things, you can't wait to share them with others, but you find that the person who shares the happiness is wrong, and it becomes a ...... to show off

    Then, slowly, the words spoken became less and less, and the person became more and more silent. I don't know if I have abandoned hypocrisy or learned to be indifferent.

    I saw a sentence on the Internet: After hypocrisy, it is difficult to collect the water, it is better to be silent and watch how the time says. yes, sometimes it's really good to be silent, to pretend you don't know anything.

    I remember reading a story about an employee who went to tell his boss because he saw a colleague around him do something not very ethical, and then he was fired.

    Although there is a slight irony in this story, this is the true portrayal of society. Because, you have seen many things, but it does not mean that you can say it, and even if you can say it, no one may believe it.

    Therefore, in many cases, silence is the best choice rather than telling others about your grievances and unwillingness. Because those who believe in you will always believe in you, and those who do not believe in you will not believe in you in anything.

    Leslie Cheung said: I just hope to do my duty so that those who like me continue to like me, so that those who didn't like me at the beginning at least don't hate me, I am already satisfied, because I am not a saint and the whole world cannot resonate with me.

    In this world, some people like to listen to you and shudder, and some people don't like to listen to you. Some people like you, some people hate you. So you have to learn to hide your emotions with silence.

    Tell others when you are in trouble, so that it will not make people think that you love and hate, but only let people know how stupid, naïve, kind, lucky, unlucky, and painful you are.

    Hopefully, in the future we can all learn to be better silent and smile.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sometimes, I always feel that I talk a little too much, and when I say it, I am afraid that I will say the wrong thing and cause unnecessary trouble.

    Being in a special working environment, the interpersonal circle naturally becomes a little more special, and many times, a seemingly insignificant sentence may become meaningful and even have a bad impact on certain things.

    When I was in school, I used to be a taciturn boy, I could even say a little stupid, at that time I was considered an introverted boy, and then I felt that I was always so introverted that it didn't seem to be good, obviously a little unsociable, and it would be very troublesome to mix in society in the future.

    So I began to consciously make myself look more cheerful, the most obvious change is to become talkative, and even some people say that they are talkative, I think cheerful is to talk more and communicate more, learn to joke with others, laugh together, and let others often see smiling faces.

    But in fact, I was wrong, talking more is not the same as being cheerful, and in daily interactions, talking more is more risky, because it is often the trouble that comes from the mouth, and talking too much will also affect thinking, so I think I am cheerful, but I just jumped from the previous extreme of silence to another extreme of chattering, from not knowing what to say to others, to having to say something to others to prove my existence.

    Standing on top of these two extremes, no matter which end, is not necessarily a good thing, the important thing is that I don't need to prove my existence to others at all, and sometimes, appropriate silence may be the best choice, only when I am silent, I can better listen and think.

    Sometimes, if you are in a dilemma and can't answer it right away, it's better to be silent for a while and think about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Wen Xia Han. When I was young, I always cared a lot about what others thought of me, I was angry when I heard gossip, I was eager to argue when I was misunderstood, and I said it when I met someone when I was wronged.

    As I get older, I gradually understand that instead of explaining bitterly, it is better to smile and have a clear conscience.

    Life is your own, you don't have to show it to others, you don't have to care about other people's opinions, sometimes, there are many things to say and many wrongs, and silence is more convincing than explanation.

    I agree with the saying: "In life, there are two things that should be done as little as possible, one is to interfere with other people's lives with your own mouth, and the other is to rely on other people's brains to think about your own life."

    Dealing with people, there is no need to pay attention to too many accusations and misunderstandings of others, just concentrate on taking your own path and making yourself better, which is the best response to those malicious ridicule.

    Time is silent, but it can always solve all problems; Silence is the best explanation.

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