Will you go to your ex s funeral?

Updated on society 2024-06-09
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, a good ex should be like dead, since he has become an ex, he should let go of what he should let go of completely, why bother to do useless things, what if the current one knows that he is unhappy, I don't think it's necessary.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I definitely won't go to my ex's funeral, because it has nothing to do with me, and even if I go, it's very embarrassing, so why bother looking for this embarrassment.

    So there's really no need to go, it doesn't make sense for me anymore.

    Unless the other person is kind to you, you should go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I will go to my ex's funeral, because in the past, husband and wife, after all, they were the father of the child, and they should go to the funeral.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, if you go, it is easy to cause dissatisfaction with the other half. Let him pass the past.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't go, if you have feelings, you will inevitably be sad, and if you don't have feelings or go with resentment, it's a little unkind, just go with the wind in the past.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Answer, after all, the husband and wife have a certain relationship, the ex has passed away, out of inner debt, you can go to his funeral, this is human nature.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It won't go, it's over is in the past, and there's no going back.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, a one-day husband and wife for a hundred days, although they have become ex, they will also feel that they are relatives, and they will remember what to remember when they are gone.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After all, once a husband and wife, they have had a skin-to-skin relationship. Divorce is not a deep hatred, time will dilute everything, and people are dead and still care about what to do so much. Or go and offer condolences.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No. Because I don't have any contact with my ex!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course I'm going to go, after all, it's a husband and wife.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The ex died in a car accident.

    I stood in the middle of the crowd in a plain robe, and my heart was unwavering, and those old grievances and hatreds were separated forever by death as if they had spanned centuries.

    The black coffin was quietly parked in the huge hall, and people ate, drank, talked and laughed, came and went in a hurry, as if a person's death was no longer sad, but was replaced by a so-called habit.

    The funeral lasted three days, and I was going to go back to Changde after his funeral, but this decision was not carried out in the end.

    The night before the funeral, I sat alone in the hall with my mobile phone in my arms, listening to the drizzle and muttering to myself from time to time. The night in the mountain village was silent, there was no neon courage, no street lamps as a companion, and I don't know when, his old mother, who was more than half a hundred years old, also came to sit down with me, and the old wrinkled hands trembled and handed me a ring box, bright red appearance, red dazzling, just like the red under the scorching sun on the road that day. By the time the tears fell, I didn't have time to hold them back.

    I never thought I'd be able to send you off in this capacity!

    In fact, at that time, we really called each other this identity, and worked hard for this identity, but we were too difficult, the society is more realistic, money always comes first, in the eyes of the fathers, marriage is to live, no feelings, as long as you have money, you can spend the morning and twilight with anyone, love is pure nonsense! That's just something that is false in books and can't be false.

    After three days, when everything returned to calm, I began to go to work and get off work every day, eat and sleep again, although sometimes I think of him inadvertently, but I didn't feel hurt that no, everyone understands the truth that people can't be resurrected after death, and what happened has to be accepted, anyway,

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the other person's family doesn't invite you to attend, you don't have to do anything more, you can pay a moment of silence for them, and of course, if you want to go, you can sneak in and have a look.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Go, go see her off one last ride. But the custom here is that there is no funeral for a young person when he dies, and if he has the heart, he can go and see her parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personally, I don't think it's okay not to go, it's good to get together and scatter, even if it's dead, don't bother her, and then entangle how tired she is, live a good life, and cherish the people around you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Go to participate, although you are no longer together, but after all, you once loved, and give him a ride on his way to another world, without leaving yourself regrets.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you want to go, after all, you have been together, even if there have been many misunderstandings and incomprehensions, people are gone, and these will all disappear with the wind.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't go, after all, they are already separated people, and they should not disturb each other, and now they go, and they can't do anything, just pray silently for them in their hearts.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The sea of people is vast, meeting is fate, whether it is love or hate, after all, we have known each other!

    I'll go and send a little tear to the past, after all, we used to have good memories too.

    It's not easy to meet someone, let alone love each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Go ahead. No matter how you say it, they are all people who have loved each other, and if you can send the last ride, you can send it away, whether it is love or hatred for him, it can only be a matter of the next life anyway.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think I should go, after all, I once had a good relationship, and the person is no longer there, so I must go and say goodbye.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think you can go, after all, the other party is no longer in this world, people die like lights out, even if there is a conflict between you, it doesn't matter at this time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If the relationship is not compatible or there are other family conflicts, divorce and separation, you can go, because the junior is determined not to go.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you are invited, you will definitely go, and if you are not invited, you will feel sorry for him, and you can't do anything else.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't go, he's an ex and someone else has a wife. I cried for days when he died, but I couldn't go to his memorial service. Hearing from his friend that several of his high school classmates would go, he felt a little comforted.

    I imagined that if I went, I would tell my classmates not to tell him that I was his ex-girlfriend, I just wanted to be an ordinary classmate and give him his last ride. However, I couldn't go for any reason.

    I initially judged that it would not be cremated so quickly because very few people are cremated on the day they die. I'll make a long story short about cremation. Generally the odd number of days before the death of a person is the day of cremation, 1, 3, 5, 7.

    Generally, cremation is not done on the same day to prevent fake death. The custom in my hometown is generally to be cremated for three days and funeral for five. This is the case with the old lady in the family.

    Now that you've seen it, cremation sheets. I don't think there's any need for their families to join forces to lie to you. I once had a very good friend in high school, after going to college, because of the distance, there was very little contact, the last time he hit ** was he told me that he was going to be a soldier, and I said that you finally achieved your dream.

    But when I learned about him later, it was a log sent by his mother using his QQ account during my graduate school entrance examination. It was written that my friend had exertional heat stroke due to too much training. Passed away.

    I didn't sleep that day.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think it's necessary to go to the funeral, if you do, whether your boyfriend will be upset or not, you have to think clearly. You can also discuss it with your boyfriend, if he agrees with you to go you go again, if he doesn't agree you don't go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You don't have to go, if you go, it may make the other person's relatives even more embarrassed.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Will go because I have a certain affection for him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's better not to go, since you have broken up, if you go, in what capacity, people may be married, and you will be embarrassed if you go.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't go to the funeral, he's just your ex, he's not your good friend, you don't have anything to do with each other anymore.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you become an ex before you die, you don't have to go, and if you become an ex after you die, you must go.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think I can go, after all, if you get acquainted, you should go and see it as an ordinary friend.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'm going to go, after all, we've been together, we've really liked each other, and I'm still going.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you want to go, remember that he should not let him go too lonely, after all, he was so close.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You have to look at the situation, you are still single, you can respect the deceased. After all, there was a relationship.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You can go or not, if there are no people, there will be nothing, this is just for the living.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's time to go, my friend also wants you to accompany her, and it will be more embarrassing for her to go alone, so friends should help and take care of each other.

    When the other person needs help, help as much as you can. Sending charcoal in the snow was the icing on the cake at least ten times, and the people who stood by my side to help me when I was alone, I remember for a lifetime, even if I suffered betrayal in the future, I should have given each other a chance to be friends and strangers, at least I couldn't be enemies, and I wouldn't hate.

    Treat each other honestly, sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, real friends should get along with each other to make each other feel very comfortable, will not be embarrassed because of the time not to meet, and will not feel that there is a generation gap because of the other party and their own economic strength, cultural and educational differences, should know how to accommodate each other, know how to cherish and respect each other, can be poisonous, but do not touch the other party's bottom line, do not hurt each other, can make some small mistakes, but also learn to apologize and make up.

    You can go crazy and make trouble together, or you can learn and progress together; You can sing and watch movies together, or you can play sports and travel together. Life is very long, and you feel lucky to meet good people, not to mention good friends, and you must learn to cherish them.

    Friends are a very magical existence, there are things you don't want to tell your parents and boyfriend and girlfriend, but you want to talk to someone who knows you well, maybe you know that he can think from your point of view, and can be a bystander. And sharing little secrets is also a friendship lubricant, so although I am very busy, my friend comes**, and he will definitely come back after being busy, and then it is**porridge for an hour or two.

    Friends should also keep an appropriate distance, do not snoop on other people's privacy, the other party wants you to know that they will naturally say, don't want to say that you don't ask, see that he is in a bad mood to accompany her, take her to eat, go shopping, boys play games, drink, in fact, I used to accompany them when I had no money to press the road, chat south and north.

    Since your friend wants you to go with her, then you shouldn't shirk it, go with her, since she went to her ex's funeral, it means that there is at least a little place for him in her heart, and when she is sad, remember to comfort her.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    shouldn't go, this relationship is so messy, how much your friend hates her ex, this is because I saw her ex die with my own eyes, I have to bring one.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If a friend invites you to her ex's funeral, then you can go, after all, it is an invitation, and it is not okay not to go.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I don't think you should go, her ex has nothing to do with you, you have nothing to do with this matter at all, and you should decisively refuse when you should refuse.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    A friend invites you to attend his ex's funeral, and you can refuse it because you don't know his ex, so there's no need to go.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You shouldn't go, because it's his ex's funeral, and it has nothing to do with you, and it's better to go less than the funeral.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you are invited, then go, since he has sent out invitations, then go, if you refuse, it will look very vulgar.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I think it's better not to go, it's too embarrassing, you can find a reason to refuse your friend, that's it.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You can not go, it's your friend's ex, and it's not your ex, if the relationship is not good, why go to this kind of occasion, it's very embarrassing.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Since it's a friend's ex, there's no need to go, and the relationship isn't very close, so there's no need to go to such a serious occasion.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I don't think it's a problem to go, after all, it's just a funeral, and it's not a big deal, and there's nothing embarrassing.

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