My husband and I don t have children together, can we get by? 30

In real life, there are good men, and there are also those who care about their wives, but there are very few. Generally, men are careless and don't feel their wives' feelings, and think that their wives are fun at home for a day. Some people will change when they communicate, and some people will be so stubborn that they can't change it for a lifetime.

So we women don't want men to change for us, only live well for ourselves, don't think so much.

I think that since your husband is married for the first time, he must want a child of his own, if you think that his character is okay, you can consider having another child with him, it is difficult for two people to maintain without a common child, if he is really irresponsible, you should consider divorce, don't be too wronged yourself.

Listening to you say this, if there is no common child, there may not be much problem inside at first, and there may be a lot of conflicts later because there is no common child, and parents may hear gossip outside, after all, your daughter is now plain and has no blood relationship with them. It's hard for the older generation to accept the idea, if you have a child in common, I think their attitude towards you will turn 18°!

In fact, I think there are two ways, the first is for you to communicate well with your husband and find a better solution, and the second way is for you to divorce, anyway, together, you and your daughter are not doing well, life is something that needs to be enjoyed, why let yourself live such a hard life? Maybe life will be better after the divorce. Many times what you think is very important and serious now, in fact, as long as you get through this period of time, you will feel that it is not very important, it is not very serious.

Actually, I think if your husband loves you, if he is good to you, he can live a good life, of course, well, if your husband's parents are good to you, it is naturally better, but I think it is better to have a child than to have a common child, so that the connection between you will be closer, and there will be less gossip from others.

These are just my opinions, just my opinions, and it depends on the subject, what do you think.

I couldn't go on like this, so I quickly took the woman and left.

If it goes on like this, it will definitely be unhappy, the best way is to communicate with your husband, unify your ideas, tell him your sufferings and difficulties, and then tell him what changes you want him to make, what he can implement and what he can't implement, whether you are satisfied after his transformation, the essence of marriage is to seek common ground while reserving differences, find a balance, you can both accept it, and you can enjoy it in this marriage; If there is an imbalance and nothing is gained, then why bother tying them together? It is better to divorce as soon as possible and stop losses in time.

In a relationship, if you don't love your husband anymore, then you should divorce decisively and don't insist on it for the sake of your children. will fall into an endless abyss.

No. I don't think you should wronged yourself for the sake of your children, because two people are already in name only, and you don't love each other anymore, so the best choice is to divorce each other, which is also an act of respecting each other.

I think that of course it should be continued, otherwise the child will definitely be hurt in the heart when he grows up in an incomplete family.

I believe that when every couple enters marriage, they never think that they will have no children, some couples want to have children, but they can't have children because of their physical reasons, and some couples want to play for a few more years while they are young, but when they want to have children, the woman is older and still can't give birth. How long can a marriage without children last?

Many couples think they don't want to have children, but they can't face the eyes of the world. Some people want to have children, but they never get pregnant. As a parent, I raised you with hard work, and I look forward to watching you get married and have children in my lifetime.

And they all think that the family is a husband and wife plus children and a complete family. If there has been no movement for several years after marriage, we will look at our daughter-in-law differently. Many couples also face such problems, and they end up being unbearable.

Then when this happens, the following two things happen:

First, divorce is not negotiable. Because of the other party's physical problems, they can't have children, they are dissatisfied, complain, complain, feel that they are unlucky, meet such a person, and then they are unwilling, and they don't want to have so much regret in their marriage, so they will ask for a divorce, completely separate, and then look for their own happiness. In this case, it is often because the husband and wife have average feelings, but they cannot have children, which directly becomes the fuse of the dissolution of the marriage.

Second, discuss the final direction. When one party knows that the other party has a physical problem, they will actively cooperate**. Psychological counseling, medication**, or find other sciences, such as IVF.

But after all, you can't have your own children as you wish. At this time, there will be two situations of Qi Ling's mill. One is that because of his own reasons, he can't let the other party enjoy the right to be a parent, so he wants to give up his marriage.

If the other party does not give up the relationship and wants to maintain the relationship, then the marriage can continue without children. The other is that one party's good intentions are accepted by the other party, and the marriage comes to an end.

Couples with children do not necessarily live long, and couples without children will hold hands for a long time. Whether a marriage can last long has little to do with children, but whether two people have a common view of marriage. Husband and wife are lovers, friends, and partners in marriage.

When you have the same goals and shared values, you will be just as happy without children.

This marriage won't go far. Because although two people have a certain emotional foundation, but two people have to face a realistic problem, if two people can't have their own children, it is likely to lead to a lot of conflicts in the future, which will lead to the breakdown of the marriage.

It shouldn't be far, without children, the family will be torn apart, and there must be a son.

The son is the bridge structure of the family.

Now there are a lot of Dink families, so it is possible to grow old together. If two people are very fond of slippery and Wu Huan's children, they can try to do a test tube or go to the hospital**, and they may have their own children or adopt a child.

Of course, when the relationship between two people is stable enough and the family is stable enough, you can choose to raise a child, which will be better for each other's feelings, and you can better play with your children.

If two people have a common idea before, then two people can go on for a lifetime, because two people will have a goal of repentance, and two people will never quarrel because of this coincidence, so it depends on each other's attitudes, thoughts and opinions.