Can only learn to love oneself in order to truly love others?

The advertising slogan says that the sky is full of fancies, as if loving yourself and loving others are so big and how big the connection is, and the explanation of this problem depends on what angle you stand on the problem.

You can love others if you don't love yourself, and the person who loves you won't let you hurt yourself, he will care about you and will ask you to care for yourself.

If you love yourself, you will understand what people need and when they need care, which is also a way for you to love others, for the people you love you will make yourself better than others.

With all that said, you know the relationship between loving yourself and loving others.

Yes, if you don't love yourself, how can you get others to love you?

You can change yourself and make yourself better, you read more books, you will definitely be a person with a lot of connotation, and others will naturally like you.

That's not true. Because the person you love has not yet appeared in your life. When you find someone worthy of your love, you will understand that you will start to love yourself well in order to love him.

You don't cherish yourself yourself, how do others cherish you, just look at those depraved female college students.

Only those who respect others can be respected by others. The same is true for loving someone, first of all, learn to love yourself.

It's fine, but if you don't love others, no one will love you.

It doesn't matter if you are really good to others, others will be good to you!

It doesn't matter what you say.

As long as there is love.

Prerequisite. If a person can't even love himself, how can he love others?

If you don't love yourself, you do harm to those who love you.

Love is a polysemy word in Chinese, with maternal love, father's love, love, friendship, love and the fundamental emotion of all things.

Many times we think that being good to others is love, which is right from the appearance, but there is a kind of love that is empty and passive to love, not from happiness to love others, such as love for children, some parents from the birth of the child to work before the fight souhe, has been asking the child to do what the child does not necessarily want to do, the name is for the good of the child, but any parent in the world will be good for the child, but the way to treat the child is different, there are doting, pampering, caring and forced love, etc., Sometimes the love for children is actually just for the parents themselves, for the unfulfilled wishes of their childhood, they don't want to leave regrets, so they form a standard for the parents of the children, but is this just to meet the needs of the parents themselves?

We all know that children inherit most of their parents' genes, part of which is the result of the child's own genetic mutation, that is, it is constantly evolving, so everyone is unique, of course, interests and hobbies will be affected by the family environment, so parents are the best teachers for children, children accompanied by physically and mentally healthy parents at least belong to self-confident people, and children educated by parents with psychological trauma will also have trauma.

Only parents who are self-sufficient, that is, people who know how to love themselves, can know how to love their children, because if it is only for others or children, they will suppress to love, and suppress their feelings to love just to please or goals.

Only those who know how to love themselves have the ability to love others.

Think: If you could sum up the past in one word, what would it be?

1. Only if you love yourself the most, can you love others you love better and longer.

2. When you were young, you loved yourself the most and made yourself excellent in the group you were in. Then, your parents, your loved ones, will be proud of you and not worry about your studies. To put it another way, you love them with your actions.

3. When you are an adult, you love yourself the most, make yourself sunny, healthy, and deep, and make yourself strong. You are to relieve the worries of the people who love you the most, and to love, help and take care of the people you love with your efforts. Parents are proud of you, wives are proud of you, and children are proud of you, and this is the best love for them.

4. Love yourself in old age, make yourself beautiful, neat, healthy and happy. This is the greatest love you can give to your children and grandchildren. can let the children and grandchildren not worry about it and not linger on the sickbed.

Suppose you, don't love yourself so much and cherish yourself. So what capital do you have to love the person you love? Talking about love, but the wayward living habits make you three highs at a young age, and even struggle on the line of life and death, so are you loving your family?

It is clear that the Changna feast is dragging down the people you love and those who love you.

So, if you want to love others, you must first love yourself.

Only by loving yourself can we love others.

Love, first of all, is to love oneself, when a person only loves himself, we will love others.

Many times, we have been greatly wronged, and we choose to endure, not because we are cowardly, but because we love ourselves. We can't ruin our lives because of small mistakes, and we can't ruin our own lives because of other people's mistakes. We have to love ourselves, even if the person we love again, he leaves me, we can't give up on ourselves because of his lack of love, and we can't ignore our future life.

Perhaps, it will be painful for a while, however, that is only temporary. Let the passage of time be the best medicine.

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky. Don't just look at this moment in life, think about the long term. Whoever laughs last is the one who can laugh the most and is the winner in life.

How to have the last laugh? That is, you live better than him, you don't have him, but you are more high-spirited and more charming, this is the highest means of a woman. No cold words, no means, has made him regret it.

Without you, I would still be doing well, even better than when I had you, and this is also the highest level. Why take other extreme measures?

Using the method of "I am better off without you" can invisibly shake the other party and make him doubt himself. When a person doubts himself, he is actually remorseful.

Of course, men to women, this is also an excellent means.

Only when we can love ourselves will we be better able to love others.

When you really love someone, he wants to leave you, and you will not hurt him, but will fulfill him. Give him freedom, give him wings to fly.

Yes, everyone must learn to love themselves and love others. When we are together, we live happily; When not together, each pursues his own life.

Fulfillment and letting go are the best attitudes after the two are separated. It is also the love for each other and the fulfillment of each other. I let you pursue happiness, and I myself have to cheer up and pursue new happiness. Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why love a grass?

Only by loving yourself can we love others. To fulfill others and let go of knots is actually to love yourself. To be perfect, to let go, is not to let yourself, let the other party be hurt more, want to let yourself have a pair of wings to fly, to seek a better life. This is the essence of love.