What should I do if my family is not good and I want to go to college?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-03
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you really can't afford it, you don't want to go, although it will be difficult to find a job without a diploma, but it will shine if it is gold, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will definitely be better than others.

    The other person: It depends on whether you really can't afford to go to college, and it's always better to go to college

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Apply for a student loan, and then work part-time to support your family. I wish you all the best!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are a boy or a girl, if you are a boy, you should go to work and study at the same time, and you should study well, so that you may get a scholarship from the school, so that you can have some funds. You can also turn to well-wishers from all walks of life to help you donate funds, depending on your ability. I believe that there will always be kind people who will help you and donate money to you.

    I'm similar to you, and I'm also a student who is going to face the college entrance examination!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First, go to work on your own.

    Earn some money and go to school.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Now the state promotes higher education for students.

    Or vocational education. If you get into college and your parents won't let you go. I think you can turn to it.

    Your local education department. You can even ask for help from a worker who can persuade your parents on your behalf. And if your desire is to go to college, then you have a choice, and the people you ask for help will help you convince your parents.

    So if your parents don't want to go to college, it's a bad decision.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If your parents don't allow you to study, as long as you have an admission letter (it's okay without a letter, you can prove that you are you, and the school won't let you fail to study), you can go to the university to report, and you can study without paying tuition! (There will be various student loan applications, etc., and it will be paid off in the end) The tuition, accommodation and food expenses of every (public) college student are actually posted by the state with a large part of the money. Graduate students pay more money, perhaps as high as hundreds of thousands, and the state also gives them money (subsidies and bonuses).

    Generally, universities do not have to pay tuition fees at the beginning of the semester, and even if they can settle it before graduating from university, it is OK!

    Take the admission letter to buy a high-speed rail ticket and get a discount! Also, if you don't have a travel fee, you can take your admission letter to the Education Bureau, and you can get 500 yuan for the road in the province and 1000 yuan for the outside of the province.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then you have to discuss it with your parents, because since you have been admitted, it would be a pity not to study! Because even if they go to work in the society, high school students are far less paid than college students, if high school students can get a monthly salary of 2000, college students will be at least 5000-12000, so the starting point is different, and the treatment is also different. There is no tuition, you can choose to borrow money, or you can choose a college student loan, work and study during your studies, and it is easy to repay it if you work hard.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If your parents don't let you go to college, you can negotiate with your parents to take out a loan or work-study program and work part-time to go to college.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your parents don't want you to go to college because your family is too poor to pay for tuition, otherwise your parents wouldn't ask for it. It is recommended that you communicate well with your parents, and the university can apply for financial aid, and then work part-time by yourself, so as to earn all the tuition money and living expenses, and reduce the pressure on your family.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Under normal circumstances, parents want their children to be admitted to a good university, but also so that they can glorify their ancestors. If your parents don't let you go to college, you can convince your parents that if you still have no choice, you can only choose to work and study at the same time, or you can only go to work.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How are you doing in school? If you study well and can be admitted to a 211,985 national key university, then you must go to it, because it is a good way out, but if your academic performance is average. You can only take the entrance examination to an ordinary university, then there is no need to go to it, because after an ordinary university comes out, there are few ways out, and if you don't get it right, you have to struggle again, so it is better to experience the society as soon as possible.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Parents don't let you go to college, it's just that I'm a girl, and the second reason is that because the family conditions are not good, I should go out to work outside during the summer vacation to find a summer job, which can reduce the burden on the family, and communicate with my parents well, why are your parents not so opposed to you going to college.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Look at the reason why your parents don't let you go to college, if there is room for reversal, then talk about it first, if the reason is unreasonable, then prepare the materials to report in advance, don't tell them, go by yourself, you can apply for student loans for tuition fees.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you have to analyze the reason why your parents don't want you to go to college, whether it's because of the tuition fee, or because your parents feel bad about the school you want to go to, or even because your parents' concepts conflict with you, etc., find the main contradiction, and then prescribe the ---right medicine

    If it's because of tuition, then you can get the tuition you need through labor, or a state student loan;

    If your parents feel that the school is not good, the school is just a starter, and it may only mean that you have failed the college entrance examination, but you still have a long life

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Apply for a student loan. The state student loan is a major measure taken by the Party to improve the financial policy system of ordinary colleges and universities in China and increase the financial assistance for students from poor families in ordinary colleges and universities under the conditions of market economy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it's because of money, you can tell your parents that you can work part-time, or work and study, and talk to your parents about it, and then say that going to college is also beneficial, with a high degree of education, so it's easy to find a job.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Why don't they let you go to college?If it is due to financial problems, you can apply for a student loan, which does not require interest during your studies. You can talk to your parents about it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After graduating from high school, my family is not allowed to go to college, and I want to go to work and make money by myself during the winter and summer vacations, and I can postpone the payment of college tuition, and talk to the counselor to see what report I want to make, and I can find a way to work to make money during this time, at least I don't have to worry about living expenses, but I can't do it, and there are student loans. You said that you can be admitted to the university, find a way to solve your financial problems, and pay back the loan after graduation, it is not a problem.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When you reach the age where you can take the college entrance examination, that is, around the age of 18, you are an adult, you can make decisions on your own, your parents don't let you, at most you don't give tuition, you can work on your own to earn some, and then apply for student loans to pay for your own tuition and go to college.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    At that time, you should be an adult, if you can, you can discuss it with them, if not, you can pay for your own tuition and go to school by yourself, and if you don't reach out to your family, they should have no reason not to let you go to school.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Communicate with them, you can't read it if you can't do it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you can afford to earn your own tuition, you don't have to worry if your parents let you study. But if you don't have the ability, you can ask your parents to help you try to sit down and ask the reason, because your parents always don't want to embarrass you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, if you are admitted, then work hard to earn money to go to college, and if you are still in high school, you can apply for assistance.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it's not Tsinghua University and Peking University, it's not that if you don't get on the 211985 number, you won't be on it, and if you don't get up, you won't be on it, because it's better to work outside than to come out, you know?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If your parents don't let you go to college, then you can work on your own to earn money and go to college.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Is there still such a parent?You can earn your own tuition fees and living expenses.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    How can any parent not let him go to college?Is it a serious child who has been admitted, or does his parents have to make tens of thousands of dollars to mix up three private schools.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Just sign up for it yourself.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I couldn't find the right ** specific university.

    What kind of nonsense are parents not allowed to go to college?!

    Do you have something serious to do all day?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you study hard and get a good score in the college entrance examination, you can go to a good school, why don't you go, unless your family is really in difficulty (you can also apply for subsidies).

    If it's angry, then communicate well: if it's really unreasonable, call the police.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If your family doesn't provide you with the funds to go to college, you won't be able to get the money, so you'll have to find another way out on your own. It doesn't matter if you go as an apprentice, or go out and work to earn money, and then spend money to train yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It mainly depends on the specific reason, whether it is because of the poor financial conditions of your family, the inability to support you to go to college, or what the reason, you can choose to work hard to earn money or work-study on your own, and some universities have student loans.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If mom and dad say that they won't let you go to college, you should ask them why they won't let you go to college, and then make it clear to them that you really want to go to college.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Isn't going to school just to be able to grow knowledge, in order to find a job in the future, I went to college for more than ten years, college is to prepare for finding a job, you should talk to them about college, if there is any problem, you can solve it well, you can also ask teachers and relatives to help you talk to you and persuade them.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hello! You can't listen to your grandfather about this, as long as you get admitted to the university, you go to school, and if your parents don't give you money, then go to the bank and apply for a student loan.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    How so? You were admitted to university, and your parents still didn't let you study, no. What parent doesn't want their child to become a dragon or a phoenix?

    Even if your family is very poor, you can do it. Take out a loan, college students can take out a loan to study. Early uncles, aunts, uncles, grandparents, grandparents, grandmothers, etc.

    Convince your parents.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    His parents don't let him go to college, since he was admitted, then he should still insist on studying, in fact, he doesn't help you pay for tuition, you can also borrow it from your relatives and friends.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You have to go to the university you are admitted to or not, and there is still a big difference between going to college and not going to college. College students can apply for student loans, and you can pay them back when you work in the future.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Why don't your parents want you to go to college Are the conditions at home not allowed I have been admitted to college I have to discuss with my parents to let you go to study You work and study while studying My parents have a good communication No parents are unwilling to let their children go to college.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It is very important to go to university, we must study hard, so that we can be admitted to a good university, and we can change our lives. But some parents don't realize the importance of going to college, and they want their children to go out to work after high school. At this time, the child must convince his parents that he can find a better job and get more pay after college.

    So what if your parents don't support yourself in college?

    At this time, the child must not be able to compromise, he must tell his parents that going to college is very important, and that going to college can change our lives. Many parents are short-sighted, they can only see some small profits in front of them, and they don't know that after college, their children can find a better job and get more salary. So the child can tell his parents that he will be able to give back more after he goes to college, and he will be able to make you live a better life, so you must support me to go to college now.

    In fact, as long as the child is reasonable with the parents, the parents can understand the child, and they can also support the child's college behavior.

    We must know that going out to work after graduating from high school is a part-time job, but after going to college, you will be able to get a more stable job, and you will be able to improve your education, and you will be able to change your life later, and the future is infinitely possible. Therefore, children must tell their parents that going to college is a long-term investment that can get more returns, so that parents can support them to go to college. With the support of our parents, we can go to college with peace of mind and study hard, so that we will not disappoint our parents and repay our parents.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In such a situation, children should communicate more with their parents, let their parents know the importance of going to college, and work hard to persuade their parents, or they can go to work to earn money for school.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Parents should be more aware of education, and should tell parents about the benefits of going to university, if they do not support you, you can be admitted to university through your own efforts, and earn your own school tuition and living expenses.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You must communicate with your parents and express a thought in your heart, or you can call the teacher and let the teacher communicate with the parents.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You should talk to your parents about going to college, if you can't learn your favorite major, it will also have a certain impact on your future.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Faced with such a situation, you should convince your parents to tell them about the importance of going to college and the benefits of going to college.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You should communicate something with your parents so that your parents can approve of some of your choices and make them realize the importance of going to college.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I was forced by my parents to go to a university I didn't like, and I was really sad at first, but slowly I seemed to accept my fate.

    After the college entrance examination, I clearly told my parents that I wanted to go to other provinces, there was no clear school, but I just didn't want to stay in this province, I wanted to see the outside world.

    At that time, my mom agreed, but my dad didn't say anything.

    Later, in the days when I filled in the volunteers, my father was busy with the volunteer book every day, and he didn't ask me where I wanted to go, and then he decided to help me fill in the normal colleges in this province, and the only thing to be thankful for is that the major I chose by myself. After I decided on my wishes, my father asked me to fill in the online form by myself according to his wishes. At that time, I was really angry, and I quarreled with him while filling in, except for the first three volunteers who followed the path he planned, I filled in the other provinces, and even filled in the farthest province to express my rebellious psychology.

    On the day the admission information came down, I stayed at the normal school in the province, and I was not happy at all at that time, only complaining about why I followed my parents' advice at the beginning, and why they didn't do what they promised me. However, things have come to this point, so we can only accept fate.

    When I arrived at university, I found that it was not as good as I imagined, I couldn't go out of school, and I was overwhelmed by the complicated school activities. Later, after my father was drunk, he cautiously asked me how life was in college, and I still complained about him. At this moment, I was suddenly relieved, in fact, it is good to stay in this province, not to mention the convenience of going home, and there is not much difference in terms of diet.

    In fact, parents forcing us to go to schools we don't like should be the situation that most college entrance examination students are facing, parents always let us do things we don't like under the banner of being good for us, this kind of good is really depressing, but we can't avoid it. If it doesn't make sense, just obey. After all, there is no independent economic base.

    Before, any struggle was ineffective.

    In any case, you must learn to adapt to the environment, find happiness on your own, and remember the handwritten experience when you go to a university you don't like, and happiness is the most important thing.

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