I met a girl and we loved each other. But family problems give us headaches

Updated on society 2024-06-20
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    How did his family do this? Try to talk to them.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can cut it first and then play it. My husband and I are like the same, my family and his family don't agree because it's too far away. Then we told our family that we were going to be together no matter what.

    Later, I don't know if it was a coincidence or what, I got pregnant, so I had a showdown with my family, although at first they would be angry. Later, I saw that we really couldn't do without each other and compromised, and now my baby's baby is still more than a month old. Another point, I have to work hard and try to create a better condition for my girlfriend, so that her parents will slowly agree with her when they see it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Parents love their children, you have to stand in the perspective of parents to consider this problem, find out the problem is easy to solve, if his parents because of your family is poor or something, this is not a reason, if you really love each other, you are not afraid of anything, you can find an elder to talk to his parents, in order to minimize the problem of the fundamental, if his parents are unreasonable, then soft and hard together, because if you come together, you still have to face it in the future. Emotional things should be fast, not delayed! Love acts, and you don't regret working hard.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Man, if you are really a man, you go to her house and say you are married! Go get a marriage license now! Will you?

    The rest of his parents knew she was 28. I'm afraid that you and him will have no results! My parents are also against my current boyfriend.

    I also found a pro. But I honestly don't like either man, do you know why? The one who went on a blind date, I really didn't feel it!

    The one who is in love now can't afford to marry me. So I gave up on both. If you love someone, you have to give him stability and give her a home?

    You deserve to be here to say love!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Discuss it with her family, discuss it if you can, and elope if it doesn't work!

    When the results are made in the future, I will go back to see her parents!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Report 110 and ask the police uncle to solve it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Can't you discuss it with your family? It's really not good, elope!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is impossible, two people implicate these two families. There are a lot of difficulties in maintaining.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As long as your family doesn't break up, it's dangerous, if one partner doesn't like it. was caught and his reputation was swept away, that is to be discussed by the public, life is very short, there is no need to suffer this crime.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Etiquette, platonic, it doesn't matter, but once something happens, the real relationship is the misfortune of the two families.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The relationship can be maintained, and it is necessary to keep a distance and not destroy the family of both parties.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Just pay attention silently, don't contact, this is also a responsibility to your current lover!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Everything is empty, and when it is broken, it is broken.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hey, maybe when sensibility prevails, it's useless to say anything rationally, I wish you happiness!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. You need to calmly judge whether the feelings between the two of you are love or a whim, after all, when the couple has been married for a long time, everything has been diluted by time, and the feelings have long been transformed from love to family affection. At this time, you will suddenly see a different new face, you will feel very fresh and special, and at this time it can make you feel a kind of mistake: I have met love again.

    In fact, it's just a temporary freshness, and after getting along for a while, you may find that it is still the best of the original.

    2. Think clearly about whether the person you love now is worth abandoning your original family and destroying your marriage for him. Don't dissolve your original marriage only to find out that the so-called true love you are meeting now is not as good as the one you shared with you before, and you will do harm to each other.

    3. Properly handle the affairs of your two families. If you still insist that the one you meet now is your true love after thinking about it calmly, then please be sure to take care of your original family. Don't think you can pedal two boats, it's easy to fall into the water.

    For the person at home, even if you don't love it, please don't hurt it. If you really don't count it anymore, you must make it clear to him and deal with all the follow-up work, after all, you are the one who made the mistake, whether you are a man or a woman, you must be responsible. Don't do the kind of thing that is living with the other half of the family and entangled with another person at the same time, it's not good for everyone.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's easier said than done, if you are in it, you can deeply appreciate the ups and downs.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's immoral to do this before you get divorced.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it doesn't work out, don't have sex, be kind to your family, bury your love in your heart, and be a good friend.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The past life is in love with this life, boldly pursued, and depended on each other for life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's not a man, he is irresponsible for his family, and even if he leaves and follows you in the future, he will be irresponsible to you ......

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is just a temporary infatuation, not to mention that people have families, so they will not be happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Break up immediately, don't destroy people's families, and don't delay yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This idealism is unrealistic. Your kind of extramarital affair can be hidden from the other half of both parties in the short term, and it will always be discovered after a long time, and you say that it will not destroy each other's families? When the time comes, the family is broken and forgotten.

    You still have to have a child, and the child you give birth to must nominally belong to your husband, and your husband is willing to let you give birth? How much does it cost to raise a child now? Even if your husband lets you give birth, you will never be like you in life, like a lover.

    Your husband sees that this kid is not like the two of you, and he goes to make a DNA, and that's when it's completely finished. Or don't think too much about it, and if possible, end this secret relationship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think so, it's a mistake and it's not good for children, you have to think ahead!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    "Each other does not destroy each other's families, and each other loves each other's families"In fact, you have destroyed and betrayed each other's families and lovers. Divorce it, and don't talk about the right to love in deception and hurt.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is immoral, and it is even more illegal, and if you want to give birth, you can give birth if you get divorced.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    So naïve. Are you looking to have an illegitimate child at home? Who's going to take care of it?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't, that would ruin two.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What about your husband, what about your home.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, marriage is like a thick layer of plexiglass, which seems indestructible, but sometimes it will fall apart with a light knock. Or you think that you have not hurt each other's families, but in fact they have left each other's families in ruins, broken and just waiting for an opportunity!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If there is a person who doesn't care about the position and doesn't care whether they live together, then you have to cherish her (him), which is a rare confidant in life!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then you'd better be in vain. It made everyone feel uncomfortable. Do you just hate your reputation and meet him earlier?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Well, there will be regrets when you are a man.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Well, it would be nice if you all thought that way.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Do you think it's love for each other? Is it sincere? If a person loves someone, can he not take it for himself, don't tell me anything about chicken soup for the soul, love is giving, not asking for anything in return, there is not so much greatness at all, more to take what you need.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Your love will not bear fruit, you will be scolded, it is better to give up and not contact each other.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Is it really in love? What is love, you know?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    An affair! If you are caught, you will either be killed or injured! Think it through.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Either divorced or in a relationship.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Fall in love with someone you shouldn't fall in love, girl, you have to bear it. Because it's not so easy to be a behind-the-scenes lover. First of all not to be blessed, in there is to endure moral condemnation.

    Even if your love dies and lives, can he give up his family and children for you? You can not burden him or force him now, but you won't ask for more and more in the future! Don't you want him to belong to you in its entirety?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    A fruitless love is a waste of time, and in the end, it is not cost-effective for women, and I think we should withdraw in time

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You're sure he loves you and doesn't want to steal a favor.

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