How to deal with separation 5

Is it that painful ?

My husband and I are not from the same place, he graduated a year earlier than me, he went to Shanghai after graduation, I went to school in Shandong, we have to meet and have to do more than ten hours of train, we only met on National Day and May Day, of course, I secretly went to see him in my senior year. I didn't go to him after I graduated, he didn't come back, I went to another city to find a job, and after a year I stabilized, my husband quit his job in Shanghai and came to me. We just got married last week.

Although the separation between the two places is painful, it is also a test for you, if you can go through this process, then what else can make you separate in the future. Or let your girlfriend focus on her studies. Love doesn't have to stick together, it doesn't have to be together in the morning and twilight, as long as you can get through this period, you can get married and be together every day.

I wish you happiness, and I want the two of you to be heart-to-heart and take care of your love together.

Truly loving someone is like that.

I want my boyfriend to be like that, too.

Maybe I'm too selfish.

But I love him.

That's what it is.

So I believe.

Your girlfriend loves you too.

This connection is meant to continue your love.

If two people are not together, there is no contact.

Then you can't continue to love.

You know.

Are you rusty, don't delay your girlfriend's future! You know. You have to work on it too. Or you will drink the northwest wind then!

Let's work together, and that's going to work.

The solution to the separation of the two places is as follows:

1. Insist on communicating with each other every day. For couples who live separately in two places, it is very necessary to maintain a certain amount of emotional communication and mutual play every day, and share and share small things such as difficulties and joys in their lives and work, which will increase the feelings between husband and wife, and will not gradually fade and alienate because of the separation of the two places.

2. The two parties will regularly determine the opportunity to meet. Long-term separation, must be a month, half a month or a quarter, etc., to have time together, such as: Saturdays, Sundays, holidays, birthdays, etc., both parties to create a good atmosphere, to add some sweetness and surprises to the relationship between husband and wife.

It is very helpful for couples who have been separated for a long time.

3. Understand, support, and trust each other. For long-term separation, there will always be dissatisfaction between the husband and wife, for this situation, both parties must be honest with each other, express their true thoughts, but also understand each other, consider each other's feelings, empathy, so as to make the relationship between husband and wife who are far away from each other stronger.

4. Determine the end date of separation between the two places. Whether it is for work reasons or family reasons, the long-term separation of husband and wife must end, and the separation of the two places is only temporary, so don't delay it indefinitely, which will not benefit anyone. Therefore, after friendly negotiation between the husband and wife, the plan and timetable for the final reunion are determined.

At what point in time, it is necessary to end the status quo of separation between the two places, that is, to give each husband and wife an explanation and a reassurance.

5. Family and career are important. Don't give up on your family because you want to pursue your career. After all, family is the most important support and harbor in life, even if the career is booming, losing the family is not necessarily happy, so family and career must be taken into account in order to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife for a longer time.