What kind of woman is hard to be happy after marriage?

I think that if a woman wants to be happy after marriage, she must not be careful, she must be good to her in-laws, she must be reasonable, respect and love each other between husband and wife, do not talk about other people's affairs behind her back, and have children, such a woman will be happy.

Marriages that are not supported by the man's family are often difficult to be happy.

In fact, regarding the marriage of Dong Zijian and Sun Yi, everyone may not be particularly optimistic at first, after all, although the two are stars, there is still an identity gap. And it can be seen that someone's family is not so simple, and his mother is also a very capable person, so everyone imagines that their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is tense.

But for their marriage relationship, it is all speculation from the outside world, and only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not. Whether Dong Zijian's mother supports their marriage or not, there is no definite statement on this matter. The separation of two people may have something to do with the family, but more importantly, there is an emotional problem between the two people.

But when it comes to a marriage that is not supported by the man, it is indeed difficult to achieve happiness. My cousin agreed to marry my cousin-in-law after her passion's pursuit, but my cousin-in-law's parents didn't like my cousin very much. When you marry into a new family, and most of the people in that family are not very happy with you, it can be difficult to get along with them.

At first, my cousin thought that she could impress them with meekness, but when others were prejudiced against you at the very beginning, all your performances would make them feel pretentious. And when they are dissatisfied with their daughter-in-law, they will complain endlessly to their son.

At first, my cousin-in-law would also help my cousin say good things, after all, this is the woman he worked so hard to marry. But when her parents talked too much, they were too lazy to explain at the beginning, and finally slowly recognized. Because after the enthusiasm is retreated, what remains is the trivialities of life.

If it is just a conflict between the husband and wife, the two people can discuss and solve the problem. But his family does not support your marriage in the first place, but when you have a conflict, they will not only not persuade peace, but will also fan the flames. It doesn't have much to do with personal quality, human nature is originally to say things that are beneficial to oneself.

My cousin suffered a lot of grievances in this marriage, and even if she had her own children later, she would find that her parents-in-law were not as good as her children. Not only is he inferior in this family, but even his own children are inferior, which makes my cousin have no way to accept it.

When a long-term grievance erupts, he will become more irritable. But at this time, my cousin-in-law will not feel that it is his and his family's problem, but will feel that my cousin has changed over the years. Originally, you are getting older and older, so in the eyes of your husband, you are a sloppy and emotionally unstable middle-aged woman.

From the beginning of their sweet love, to the end of the resentment, although the current marriage is still barely maintained, but the sweetness and happiness have disappeared. Not being supported by the man's family, including emotional and financial support. Therefore, I feel that marriage can only continue to move forward on its own, and it may be held back, how can a marriage that moves forward with a heavy load be easily happy.