I ve broken up, I can t let go of him, should I urge him to pay back?

What do you have to let go of He has no more money than to play some temper He has a stronger self-esteem He doesn't even have any backbone No more money Even if he borrows it after breaking up, he should pay you back But he recognizes that he owes you and doesn't pay you back He doesn't pay you back It's not something that a frank person can do A bright man will tell you clearly How long will it take him to pay back Now there is no money And then give you an IOU to let you know that the money will definitely be paid back to you And he didn't do anything but hide from you You can't let go of anyone who has to see if this person has that weight worth you can't let go He is not a responsible man like him You don't have the ability, you don't have the ability, you don't have anything to admire, you go to him, ask him to write an IOU, pay it off in a year, and then don't pay attention to him, and then ask for it again in a year, and now you are not satisfied.

Hello friend, I think you should put it down, because what he values is your money, you propose to let him pay back, he will resolutely break up, if you don't mention the matter of repaying the money, he will not mention the breakup, you have to see his essence, there is nothing to be nostalgic about, the matter of repaying the money will continue, in fact, repaying the money is repaying the money, breaking up is breaking up, it should not be mixed up, you must remember this lesson in the future, don't involve financial problems when you fall in love, don't lend money to others at will.

Even if you can't let go, then you have to make a choice at this time, so sometimes it's not that you can't let go, it's that you can't give it up, it's your own reluctance, the main thing is that it has nothing to do with the money you borrowed from him, and the other party must return it.

I know it's painful to get out of a relationship, but love is never the whole of life, don't force it anymore when the relationship comes to an end, and choosing to separate is also a way to start over, people need to work hard to get out, let go of the pain of the past, and meet a new life, there will always be all kinds of injuries and different people in your life, start your own new life, if there is still a knot in your heart that can't be untied, and you can't get over, then find the source to untie the knot, and you can use the power of family and friends to use the power of time The more important thing is to convince yourself to let go.

It's already broken up, and even if you can't let it go, there's no good way. At this time, you should urge her to pay back, after all, you should not have anything to do with each other.

It depends on what you think, whether you want to take the money after breaking up with him completely or don't want to get back together with him, it depends on who he is and whether he likes you very much.

has broken up, and you still can't let go of him, are you calling for the money, or does he need to come to see you, or get back together with you? Understand your heart, make a decision, and don't do what you regret.

I think that since you have broken up, you still can't let go of him, you don't have to ask him to pay back the money, you should have a good chat with him to see if you two can get back together?

As long as you have this kind of affection for him, you should still take the initiative to take the initiative to take the initiative to be good to him, which must be very important to you.

has broken up, and you still can't let go of him, I think you should be urged to pay back the money.

In this case, we suggest that we still have a good communication, and then find a point in time, and then talk about the misunderstanding between you, and it will definitely be good after a long time.

If you still have this relationship with this boy, so I think the two of you should still be together well, or just go and play back, it must be very important for you.

I think you can't let go of him, since you've broken up, then you should learn to let go, it's an impossible fact.

Now that you are separated, you have to choose to forget. Taste of the community.

Summary. Dear, I'm glad to answer for you, I can't understand it this way, first of all, as a man, you need to be generous, and his behavior is more generous! Because he felt that everything she gave you at the beginning was wishful thinking on her part, and in the end, even if they didn't come together, there was no reason or face to ask the other party to return or accept the other party's gift!

After breaking up, I returned the money he used to him, and he turned back to me, and he said that we have broken up with Xunli, don't be this stupid thing, do you want to completely disconnect with me.

Dear, I'm glad to answer for you, I can't understand it like this, first of all, as a man who rents a man, you need to be generous, and his behavior is more generous! Because he felt that everything she gave you at the beginning was her wishful thinking, and in the end, even if no clan infiltrated together, there was no reason for Ren to ask the other party for return or accept the other party's gift!

He's a stingy guy.

Dear, are you stingy too? Or because of the love of face, I don't accept your gift!

Originally, he used his money, and returned him, is it a gift?

Pro, it can be understood as giving back, which means giving back the previous gift to the other party, or it can be understood as returning to the other party as you said.

You have to understand clearly that when he gave you money or asked you to spend his money, it was all a Hong lease box willingly, and there was no hunger in it, so it can't be understood as his money.

Transferred to him, he said that I should not do these things that I have and don't have, do you want to completely disconnect with me.

Dear, it can be understood in this way, but what he means still has another meaning, that is, Chi Liang hopes that you don't want to do these meaningless answers, after all, everyone has left, what's the use of asking for money to leak Danhui?

Does it mean that he left, or did I leave?

Dear, you must have left.

Obviously he broke up, me.

Dear, I understand what you mean, you think differently to understand, which means that it is over between you, why do you need money?

It took him before.

Dear, I understand this truth, provided that he is willing to spend it for you.

If you borrow money, you should pay it back, whether you break up or not.

If you solve the economic problem, you will be relieved of the emotional problem, and you will not owe each other from now on, isn't it very good!

He asked to return, within your ability, then "return", break up and see character, don't pull each other and waste time because of this matter, but Tong Jian is a pro, and you must remember it for a long time in the future and protect your person and property.

Because you didn't say what the money was used for, I'll give you a breakdown of the situation:

Gifts for small amounts.

If in the course of the relationship, the two parties give each other gifts, and the amount is not large, it is a gift, and there is no right to ask the other party to return the money.

Red envelope. If the red envelope is not used for remarks, or if it is a red envelope with a special meaning of 520, you have no right to ask for a refund.

Bride price money. In order to fix the bride price given by the relatives, the last shouting wheel is that if you are not married, you need to pay back.

Pay back the money. I hope it can help you, and I hope to praise Zheng He.

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If you break up and don't repay the money, you can claim to get it back in the name of borrowing. The boyfriend borrowed money from his girlfriend, and if he didn't pay it back after the breakup, he could sue if he had an IOU, but if he didn't, he could only find evidence. Friends who have not repaid their debts when they are due may not be able to repay, may have forgotten, or may even have no intention of repaying at all, but no matter what, as long as they forget to repay the money, they can take the IOU and tell their friends clearly.

Regardless of the outcome, it is necessary to negotiate first, and if the negotiation fails, other methods will be adopted.

Hello, I would like to consult about the breakup without paying back.

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If you break up and don't repay the money, you can claim to get it back in the name of borrowing. The boyfriend borrowed money from his girlfriend, and if he didn't pay it back after the breakup, he could sue if he had an IOU, but if he didn't, he could only find evidence. Friends who have not repaid their debts when they are due may not be able to repay, they may have forgotten, or they may even have no intention of repaying at all, but no matter which one they are, as long as they forget to repay the money, they can take the IOU and tell their friends clearly.

No matter what the outcome will be, it is necessary to negotiate first, and if the negotiation fails, then adopt other methods.

According to the law, the "Civil Procedure Law" stipulates that if the creditor requests the debtor to pay money and value, if the following conditions are met, it may apply to the basic people's court with jurisdiction for payment of the order and judgment of loss: the creditor and the debtor have no other debt disputes; The payment order can be served on the debtor. If the debtor fails to repay the debt within 15 days after receiving the payment order issued by the people's court, or fails to raise a written objection to the people's court, the creditor may apply to the people's court for compulsory enforcement.

It can be seen that the biggest advantage of applying to the people's court for a payment order to recover the loan is that the time for impulse is short and the effect is quick. Of course, if the debtor submits a written objection to the people's court within the statutory time, it must be handled through litigation procedures.

Summary. If you don't want to be too unpleasant, you can file a lawsuit for "unjust enrichment", and as long as you can prove that the money was delivered, the burden of proof is met.

It is better to directly file a private prosecution for the crime of embezzlement and pursue criminal responsibility. It also saves legal fees and makes it easier to get money.

If you don't want to be too unpleasant, you can file a lawsuit for "unjust enrichment", and as long as you can prove that the money was delivered, the burden of proof is met.

If you deal with it as a "private lending dispute", it is a bit difficult to fight, and you have no evidence to prove the existence of the fact of borrowing, and this is something that you need to prove.

If you go to private prosecution, it is best to find a lawyer to help you deal with it.

If you don't go to the right place, the case is very simple, and you don't need to find a lawyer. Write a complaint (there are many on the Internet) and prepare a record of the transfer. It would be better if there was a recording, and the recording was mainly to guide him to admit that he had received the money, the amount, the use, and so on.

If the facts are as described in your question, you should win or call for a lawsuit.

You can also talk to him about it, but you can find a lawyer to find out and see if you can go through the legal process.

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If the reason for your breakup is because of some unavoidable factors, then he still has you in his heart, after all, you have been in love, he still knows a little about you, and the reason why he wants to help you, but he doesn't talk to you, he is afraid that if he always tries to keep you, you won't follow him, so he will only talk about money for you and nothing else.

What did he want? 】

He can't let it go, he's worried in his heart, he's afraid that you won't have money to spend, and he's still waiting for a word.

But he ignored me? 】

He doesn't blame you for leaving him in the past, he is only afraid that you will hate him in the future, he thinks of you in turmoil, he thinks of you with tears in his eyes.

It's not that he doesn't want to pay attention to you, he's afraid that he will lose control, he's afraid that he will cry, and he's afraid that you won't want his money ...... anymoreYou actually want to say to him, right? Otherwise, you won't accept what he gives you.

Send him a text message. He's a good boy, but he has a bit of a temper. Just bear with him.

If he really doesn't belong to you, make it clear to him and just be a friend.

Love you, just use the wrong method, you may think that money is your love.

He also loves you and is afraid of being rejected by you.