Do people have to lose before they cherish it?

Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable. The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past?

The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late. Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

Remember the lesson, know how to cherish, and there will be no second loss.

People are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving them. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

People actually cherish it when they don't lose it.

It's just that this kind of thinking is caused by the loss of a mistake that makes people feel that they were not sure before!

Or there is another kind of person who really does not cherish it, and feels that he should cherish it after losing it, such a person should suffer a loss and grow wise!

One has to trust each other.

To love someone is to understand each other.

To love someone, you have to be tolerant with more heart.

To love someone is to be open-minded.

To love someone is to respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

If you love someone, you should support him (her) a lot behind your back, instead of preventing someone from facing him (her) when you can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm very good and happy.

To love someone, you have to hide your inner fragility and grievances, and don't let him (her) know that you love someone too much, too much love, maybe some people can't do it.

Because you have it, you won't feel its importance, you just feel that it belongs to you and you don't need to pay anything!

People who are together will not cherish. Because after losing, you will know how good he was before. Man is an animal that wants to have regret medicine. Listen to love at parting.

When you have, you feel satisfied, you feel that it's all that I deserve, that it's not going to go away.

And when you really lose them because you take a wrong step, you regret it, thinking about why you didn't do it in the first place, if only you had done it that way, if only you didn't have how it was ......in the first place

But fantasy is fantasy after all, it is not reality. When things happen, they happen, and it doesn't help you to regret your bowels.

If this continues, when people know how to cherish it one day, I am afraid that their hearts will already be full of holes.

There is only one sentence: be satisfied with what you have now, and always feel dissatisfied.

This sentence is not contradictory.

We must meet the current standard of living, be satisfied with what we have, and do not expect from others; And "dissatisfied" refers to the expectation and cherishing of the present life, cherishing everything in front of us, and looking forward to another beautiful day tomorrow.

If everyone can think like this, it doesn't matter if you regret it or not.

Because she didn't know the preciousness at that time, when she had lost it, she would feel that the paradise in her heart was still that place!

Because you don't cherish it when you have it, you don't feel that you will lose it, you tend to ignore it, and when you want to leave, you will find each other's importance.

Because of the "lessons from the past", I will be careful what I do in the future, afraid of whether it will hurt or not, so I cherish the present even more.

What is lost is often the most beautiful.

Maybe before you get this love.

You will work hard to fight for it, and you will work hard to win.

But when you've got that love.

You lose your original self.

You just want to try the joy of this success.

When love is far away from you.

You just realize.

The things you fought so hard for are gone.

All you have has come to naught.

The most precious thing in the world is not 'unobtained' and 'lost', but happiness that can be grasped now.

I hope everyone can grasp their own happiness.

Don't let happiness perish in your own hands.

If you know how to cherish, you will find that you gain more and more, if you pursue it one by one, move forward with one by one, desperately for your own pursuit, put too much pressure on yourself, and do not pay attention to cherishing, you will find that you are losing more and more quickly. Love is suitable, don't be aggrieved, as long as you are casual, don't put too much pressure on each other, and don't believe in perfect love, in fact, you just need to know that no one is perfect, everyone will have shortcomings, a simple loveliness is enough, a kind of life is true For the value of your own life, you will pursue your own true happiness In everyone's life, you will meet a lot of people, all kinds of personalities, all kinds of different people, how many are your bosom friends? And how many people love themselves deeply?

And how many of them do you love? Instead of seeking thousands of times, it is better to cherish the people in front of you. Love is not to wait for you to be free to cherish, we meet, it is fate, for this fate, we may be trying to adapt to each other, everything just wants to go with the flow.

I wish my friends happiness.

People always know how to cherish after loss.

Before I lost it, I thought that everything now was what it should be, natural, and reasonable, and after I lost it, I was shocked to find out how wrong my previous self was, so I tried my best to recover everything that originally belonged to me, but now I have lost everything He has hurt you again and again, but you forgive him again and again, and finally tired, there is a pain in my heart, and at that time I know what it means to lose and cherish.

The eyes can often see the farthest, farthest and most unreachable scenery, but they can't see the eyelashes that have always been by his side and never leave him.

Because you lose it, you know the pain!

Because I didn't experience what it was like to have it.

Only when you regret it, do you know how to cherish it

Only when you lose it do you know what pain is, and only when you lose it do you know how to cherish it.

Because sometimes I don't care about his existence!Didn't feel good about him!When I lost it, I realized that he was so important to me!

When we have experienced the process of growing up from children to growing up, life is slowly changing, and people are also changing, in this process, there are joys and sorrows.

There are bitter and sweet But we have missed many opportunities, when we turn our heads and think about it, how unfortunate we are, how ignorant, how ignorant Life is like this, we must know how to fight for it, to pursue When I am old, I will not be ashamed of doing nothing, so that I will not feel sorry for myself, my family, and all the people who love me

So from now on, I want to cherish it and never miss any opportunity that I can challenge

The encounter between people is like a random sample.

In different time and space. Meet each other.

Sometimes. You like someone very much. But you know.

You can't be together at all.

Someone who loves you. You don't love.

Someone you don't love. But I love you like that.

This complex problem follows us like this. I can't solve it, I can't figure it out, people say that they love someone at the right time. You are happy.

Meet someone in the wrong space. You are miserable.

It's like a bus.

Everyone board the train at this stop.

Get off at another stop.

Everything is always full of uncertainties and unknowns.

Therefore, everyone should cherish every chance encounter.

Because you simply don't know.

Missed this time.

In what space will you and him meet?

Maybe it's the only time you'll ever meet.