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In my opinion, there are a lot of such things around us, first of all, we must establish the relationship between the two of you, whether it can be to the point of inseparability, what is the basis of the relationship, can it be built on the pain of your parents, if there is no problem with the two of you, let's talk about it again, why do her parents oppose you like this, the crux of the problem is **, see if it can be solved well, if you can't say so much, if you can't, then start from the beginning, let's talk about it first, Who controls our marriage, whether you are her parents or hers, that is to say, how do you usually do it, who is more active, who will bring more harm to whom, if her parents love and hurt greatly, how will the two of you live in the future, what will you do, if it is you, what will you do, what are the main reasons for your parents' obstruction, what have you understood about them, or how much understanding you have, whether there is any misunderstanding, such things are better to communicate with them more, They are also for the sake of their daughters, but sometimes it seems to be a bit counterproductive, the heart is always good, but the starting point of the problem is different, maybe we young people only think of romance and forget the hardships of real life in the future, parents come over, and I, you can understand this, the love road is bumpy, not easy, maybe when you look at this post in N years, you won't have so many thoughts, it's just a good memory, life is like this, and the wheel of fate is so hard to think about, grasp it well, young man, it's yours and not someone else's, and if it's not yours, it's someone else's.
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Well, the analysis of "mentality life" is very correct! Two people who can become husband and wife and grow old together require too many conditions and efforts! Many of our feelings are sometimes not very mature, our ability to survive for a long time cannot bear a home, a person is powerless for many things, if you can't bear it, you can only give up.
Life is like this, you can't get what you want often, do your best, where you can go, so you can be relieved!
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First of all. Act like a man.
Then. Do what you have to do.
Although I don't know what will happen in the future, I insist on being together now and go to her house to see her more.
Remember to bring something to her mom when you go.
Speak like a man, "Don't hesitate to speak".This is something that the elderly attach great importance to.
Tell the old man clearly. If you don't have money now, promise to give her happiness in the future.
Even if I don't know what will happen in the future. But it's the best way to do it!
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You can try to communicate and see what she is against.
You can find out what she thinks, and then use some practical actions to prove that you have the ability to give her daughter happiness.
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It's not the way to go, it's going to be more painful.
You should communicate with the other parent a lot, say your thoughts, and use actions to prove that his daughter is happy with you, and a man should be like a man, have the courage to face it, and have the courage to take responsibility, which is the test you are facing.
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Dizzy, fruitless, and eventually broke up. It's best to break up early. The family aspect is important.
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I think this is the time to give each other a little space, calm down first, and then communicate, determine each other's ideas, find common ideas, support and understand each other, and work together.
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At this time, you can ask others for advice, you can also study online, or buy a few books to read, or you can ponder on your own, or ask the people in your family and ask them for advice.
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I think if you can find such a problem, then you can still control it, so you can control the problem that arises and solve it.
Sometimes people are like this, obviously there is a good choice around them, they still have illusions about the past, and it is understandable that they can't forget it, but it is irrational to give up contact with others because of him, you can first associate with him to see maybe he will fall in love for a long time, but if it doesn't work, don't force yourself.
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It's all like this, you can't live without him, it's better to take the child to live on your own, do you still need to ask others, what about your basic judgment as an adult? The minimum morality of being a person must be there, if you don't honor your parents and don't care about your family, then what do you insist on.