It s his fault, I said to break up, but I really want to think about what he should do

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Silly boy, in fact, why bother with this kind of thing.

    And you said that he always said that breaking up because of trivial things, and using it as a reason to suppress you is an unreasonable behavior.

    Not to mention the position that the man who often talks about the breakup puts you in.

    You've redeemed him, so he thinks you can't live without him, and he thinks you're going to redeem him again, and that's what it's called a matter of course.

    But he found that you didn't take the initiative to redeem it as he expected this time, so he had to appear in front of you from time to time to make you feel his existence, in fact, it was also to remind you that it was time to take the initiative to redeem the words he said were nothing more than to make you feel that the matter was serious, and if you didn't redeem it, it was likely that there would really be no chance.

    This kind of man is very spineless, and I believe that in four years, you must know him very well as a person.

    How does he treat you? And what about you?

    If you still love him, it's okay to get it back again, but you have to make sure he's not the one you love, the one you need.

    If you miss it for the sake of fighting for a breath, it will be more than worth the loss.

    But if he is easy to change, his nature is difficult.

    Maybe this is your chance to start anew.

    Then let him go completely, you still have a long way to go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It will pass. Now there will be only reluctance, which is the habit of the past.

    But you yourself are magnifying his goodness, and distance always produces beauty.

    If it's not impulsive, or if reason tells you that his mistake is really unforgivable, hold on.

    Who wasn't like that at the beginning of a breakup?

    It'll be fine after a while.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Breaking up because of a trivial matter, such a relationship can't last. If you really love him, let it go, you don't have to get what you like.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    -。It's okay to hit the past. Look at his attitude to decide whether he is a decisive breakup.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're not wrong.

    Long-distance really needs to be understood, if you cherish each other, someone has to give up, at the beginning of the relationship, it will make the long-distance become the same city, reduce this friction, since this is the case, never talk about long-distance relationships in the future, growth will make you better and more mature.

    I wish you a satisfactory answer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A couple who torture each other, there can be many reasons for torment, but as long as they still love each other, they can be resolved, but they are afraid that there will be no love Reason tells yourself that you must break up.

    But emotionally said that I still love her.

    That's how tangled it is.

    Friends who like suspicion can't afford to hurt.

    The trust between the two sides is the stepping stone to resolve all contradictions.

    Trust is gone

    Say to each other: start anew, give each other another chance, try again, cherish the opportunity to agree to create a surprise like a chance encounter at the place where you first met and met, if she still loves you, she will cherish such an opportunity.

    May love be sweet.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    True love is not distracted by distance, and you are suspicious of each other because you care too much about each other and are afraid that you will lose each other one day. However, you really love each other deeply, and if you want to redeem it, let go of some so-called face and go to her and tell her that you are wrong. Then talk to her about the misunderstanding between you.

    Explain everything and promise each other that you won't trust each other anymore.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A very complete example of the failure of a long-distance relationship, you are not wrong, the key is a long-distance relationship, immediately take the train to find her, and tell her that I am willing to give up everything, as long as I can be with you, you can definitely get back together. If you can't go to her, you'd better find another one...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Now that it's over, don't look back.

    Time can dilute everything, and it will also allow you to meet the right person at the right time, and end with a harmonious and happy ending.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If I can't solve the problem of getting along in a long way in the short term, I think it's better to be friends. The source of long-distance relationships is actually innocent love and hot feelings, which come from the hope for each other and out of their own imagination. Do you really know each other?

    If you solve the problem of being in a different place, will you definitely hold the hand of your son and grow old with your son? However, emotional matters are your own affairs, and what others say, just listen to them and make your own decisions.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My boyfriend and I have been together since college, and after graduation, we have been separated from each other. But we've been trying to get together, like getting married. But I don't know your age, landlord, and I don't know what you and her have been through.

    In addition to the most fundamental trust, long-distance relationships actually have their own self-confidence, which must have the independence of girls and the intimacy of boys. You love her enough, go to her city and live with her, and if you can't, be decisive and mature. Falling out of love, not forgetting It's just a process.

    If you want to fall in love, you have to learn to be free and easy, it's nothing more than 2 endings.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't think about it, it's actually too unlikely that you'll be together. We don't trust each other at all, so how can we continue? Find a woman around you, there is a person who cares about you in reality, it's better than the care in QQ text messages every day, isn't it?

    It's not that you can't forget, it's just that you suddenly can't accept that no one is telling you QQ**, and you just feel lonely. I hope you come out soon.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's disperse early. You could have lived a happier life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You are both at fault, and if you can trust each other, you will be able to move on. But you can't even do the most basic mutual trust, and the relationship is destined to be long-lasting. Therefore, learning to trust each other can lead to long-term feelings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love goes to him! If you don't love, be decisive!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There's something in economics called the sunk capital effect (if I'm not mistaken), which is when you make an economic or spiritual investment in something and later you find out that you're losing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Ask what is the situation in the world, life is ......

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hey, life is as it first seems. How wonderful.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's right, asking what the world is like, only makes life and death promise.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You're right, we can understand each other.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Time is good medicine, and one day you will find that you can forget what you want to forget!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't cherish it, who is to blame?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Let yourself go and want to open a little. If you break up, don't be nostalgic.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's impossible to break up, what do you want him to do, work hard, find a better one.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's normal to think about him when you first share! With the passage of time, I will not miss him so much! He will be put in the deepest part of your heart, and he will not think like that! So it's over! Believe you can!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Do you love him? Does he love you? Do you really love each other?

    What do you like about him? Since he already thinks you're annoying, why do you want him to think you're even more annoying, I guess you're a girl, and you don't live like a man. Give up on him, even if you hide and miss him, don't send messages, don't call, don't QQ, don't contact everything, don't ask friends about his news, let him know that without him, you are happier, happy, happy!

    This is what you need more, missing him will only be more painful, and the pain without results, why bother?

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