Do boys like girls a little bit and develop into objects?

I'm a girl, and I'm disgusted to see that some boys want to chase the girl they like but don't dare to chase her, and they want others to chase her.

From a girl's point of view, I understand the psychology of girls better. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, except for brave girls who really like it too much or have more personality. So, if you like a girl very much and think that she is also a little interesting to you, then take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will be uncomfortable, and maybe the person you like will also be miserable.

When any girl is being chased, her psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but with a little trepidation, she has an ambivalence about this boy who has broken into her peaceful life, she doesn't mean to. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself, and she's afraid of getting hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust, if you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will slowly fade away. If your initial confession is rejected by her, that's normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what's going on in this girl's mind?

Maybe if you confess it twice, she will be moved by you, a good girl with a good heart is very easy to touch.

Hope it helps.

It depends on whether the girl is willing or not.

A man with an open heart can accommodate countless women, beautiful women. Look at the ancient emperors and you will understand.

Even if you've already ordered food, you'll still see what other people eat.

If you like it or if you like it, you have to figure it out.

If the beauty of the world cannot be fully captured, it will be painful and regretful.

Hello! If this is the case in an adolescent child, it is a reaction of adolescence. Adolescence is a period when a person forms his or her own personality, and during this period, many aspects are learning, growing, and the state is very unstable.

Maybe I want to be a teacher today, I want to be an actor tomorrow, I like this star today, I like that singer tomorrow, I will be easily excited, and it will be easy to change, and my worldview and values may be reorganized when I wake up one night. The fact that a girl who already has a partner falls in love with another boy shows that the girl's personality is unstable and her choice is unstable. Because there is no more information about the girl, I can only answer so much for you.

Linda, a psychological counselor at Wuxi Kenxinfang.

Actually, there are many reasons for this.

Maybe it's the girl's own fault, or maybe it's the current one.