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The best thing to do is to go with the flow. Isn't it?
If you want to change something, do it. Try to get the results you want.
It doesn't matter who hurts in the end.
It's better than being in pain like this all the time.
The first. The woman you like.
The second. A woman who is very close to you.
Third. A woman who is very, very good to you.
The first one advises you to give up on her, because after all, it wasn't you who was after her, did you?
The second person suggests that you try to accept her, because I think you also thought about it when you chose blindly, after all, it is not child's play, so you think so in your own heart, so you should try to give her a chance.
I can only say that the third person is suitable to be your sister, because your impression of her is only very good to you. Your heart has given her a choice of roles in her own life, a relative, the friendliest friend, someone who cares about you, but certainly not a lover.
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Whoever you love, you will be with whomever you want.
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Wow. It's sci-fi.
You should seriously tell the one you like. You like her.
As for the other two who like you. But don't think that if I like something that doesn't like me, I'll reluctantly accept that I like me.
One is to choose her. One is to choose. The other two. She.
Don't fool around. It's not good to hurt everyone.
Hurt others. I can't help it. How can it be smooth sailing?
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This kid, it's really messy, a typical post-90s, let me take a sentence, now the school is important, but now the adolescent ignorant like, it's okay, but don't go too far, since the two girls who like you like you, you also treat them like ordinary classmates, you don't know, anyway, they didn't ask you openly in front of you, and you like that girl, since she wants to be with you, then you tell her, you like her, you have always liked her, ask her if she does it, if she doesn't do it, Then pull it down, I also came from that time, got one in middle school, and later became good friends, because it was handled properly, high school focused on taking the university entrance examination, and when I went to college, I was looking for a beloved, because at that time your mind was mature and you looked at the problem rationally. in order to find someone who has true love with you.
What do you think? Just a suggestion. It's up to you to decide what to do in the end, but in my experience, you should know by the time you go to college. When I was in junior high school, I was so naïve, and now I think I was stupid at that time.
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Isn't it, there is such a female drop, so what did she mean by asking you earlier, I think long pain is better than short pain, you can figure out for yourself whether you want to like it yourself or like yourself, don't be indecisive if you think about it, just give yourself an explanation, why do you think it's so complicated.
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It's so troublesome, you can chase whoever you like, and you can do this and that.
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Find someone you love It's better to find someone who loves you.
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I think I'm a love saint under it.,But don't be a love saint.。。 Love saint on the 2 brothers to persuade you to slowly understand them after going deep to choose the one that suits you most Although someone will inevitably be hurt But the deeper the love, the more serious the injury!
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...Coma.
You can't help this situation, she already thinks that you are definitely not a good person, even if she knows that you are honest, but your friends are so exaggerated, and she is so shy, even if they are together, she will feel embarrassed.
Don't look for her often, get in touch with her friends more, see if you can improve their perception of you from her friend's point of view, and meet her as naturally as possible, instead of making people feel that you are pestering her.
Don't be afraid to see him or anything, you're unnatural, and she's even more uncomfortable.
Men, be thick-skinned, don't be too blind when chasing girls, it's not that you pester her every day, she will be moved, pay attention to the method.
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Explain it to her first. Then after being together for a long time, there will always be something to understand each other. Apparently she listened to your friends and had an opinion about you.
I feel like she's a good girl. It should be the gentle type. But it's also the sentimental kind.,I'm not very assertive.,Hehe.。
Get your mind right, let it go, and love. If there is no evil in the heart, how can it be restrained by desire? The key mindset is the most important thing.
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Girls are sensitive, and it's obvious that you've been misunderstood by her! Explanation is the best way to do it at this time!! But you're going to have to ask your buddies to explain like her!
She won't believe it just because you explain it! It can be seen that she is also a very pure girl! You should cherish such a girl!
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If you are shy, you may not be able to come out in private, in fact, you can think of the old way, love letters, hold on, such a girl is not easy to impress, but if she is moved, she will be very involved In short, come on, don't be too public, she shouldn't like to be public
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Since you are shy, then ask her out in private, it is impossible to achieve the effect you want in a crowded place.
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You explain it to her first, and if so, you explain it all or it's useless. Then I advise you to give up.
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Boys have to take the initiative, be friends first, and then be boyfriend and girlfriend after understanding, OK
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It's very simple
Tell you a story; A friend, he Du junior high school grades are at the bottom of the zhizhi, then dao
After studying in a technical school, the grades are still the same.
Back (the countdown) to answer a girlfriend, people just dislike it and have no money, and his girlfriend broke up after 4 years of dating him. In fact, that girl was his first love. So he began to degenerate, surfing the Internet, playing games, etc.
One day after a while, he suddenly made up his mind to regain his dignity, began to make money desperately, and now opened a small company. Actually, he just wanted to prove that he wasn't stupid. He wants to make a lot of money and make his original girlfriend regret it.
I don't know if you understand the meaning of this story?
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All successful people are inseparable from hard work, the key is that you also understand, but you just can't persevere, I think it's unlikely that you will change suddenly, you can try to focus on some small things, take your time, it's good to be determined.
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The fate of a lifetime does not care about the quality of learning, my classmates who have studied well are now working for others, and those who have studied first have tens of millions of family businesses, and those who do not study well in advance into the society are basically bosses, and those who study well are either working for others or unemployed.
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If you want to open a point, there is no hurdle that you can't pass, you used to be in a hurry to die, but now it's not still in this world, in fact, everything is not as serious as you think, believe in yourself, you can, those little garbage can be, what are you afraid of?
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Sometimes my copy thoughts are uncontrollable, I don't want to think about those things, but I can't do it, I feel sorry for my family... You are their hope, there are only a few people in the family, and it depends on you to get ahead, every time you make up your mind, you can't manage it for long, and you start to think about it when you have free time, fantasizing about how glorious your future is, how romantic your love is, and you also want to study seriously... You're pretty much the same as me, I go out and ride my bike every time my mind is confused, go out for a walk, and be quiet by myself, or you can go to the mountains and yell and vent, hoping it can help you...
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I deeply sympathize!!
I also have such a problem.,Actually, I understand the truth.,But dao just can't do it, right? I think that every time I answer the most energetic time, it is when I receive a blow, and it is usually a time when I feel that I am quietly looked down upon by others. My willpower is also very weak, so weak that I feel scared, I feel that I can't do anything, to be honest, I still have a very important exam to prepare for, but I still mix it up and play.
As a Bensan, I don't know what to tell you, because I can't even solve it myself, but I want to tell you something. I have a friend who, according to him, lived a mixed life before high school and didn't learn anything, but after high school, he suddenly realized what to do if he didn't study well. Now that he is a junior, he works very hard, I asked him why he has so much perseverance to study, and he said that because he has to do this, he will have to support his family in the future, and strive to make his son born a rich second generation.
It's a too far idea, but it makes me think he's reliable. Think about what kind of life you want to live in the future, who wants you after entering the society, and whether you can support yourself, these estimates are also very realistic questions for you. Set yourself some small goals and achieve them one by one, when you watch these small goals be achieved one by one, you have a sense of superiority.
Without further ado, let's encourage each other! - The youth of Bensan.
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It's useless to smash the enlightenment for so many years, if you want to learn, buy a knife, and give yourself a little bit of mental concentration, or you just find some time to experience the society, and remember that you have to be cruel to yourself now.
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My situation is very similar to yours, but I already have a goal, and after a great blow, I wish you to open it soon.
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Start with a detailed study plan and stick to it.
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Then watch more people who have a hard life, maybe it will give you a lot of inspiration, especially those who have risen strong from poverty, the key is to have your own dreams, go see the movie Old Boy.
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Students of this age.
Bai is like this, Du has psychological troubles, and I was like this at that time
To be honest, there is no good way, all editions have to rely on themselves, first of all, restrain yourself from thinking about everything, and the best way to do it when you are cranky is to listen to ** Distract yourself from your thoughts. Those successful people are not all waiting for pie in the sky to fall from the sky, but also rely on hard work People are also born with that life and that mind If you want to succeed, you have to put in the effort It is recommended that you read more inspirational books Give yourself some motivation I used to be the same as you But after that age, it is much better to work hard and believe in yourself Pay will be rewarded.
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You and I used to be almost the same, career, family, love, nothing. But I'm not in a hurry, so to speak.
After all, a little more than 20 life capacity.
It's not uncommon to have a bit of a bump. The only thing you can do now is not to be a burden on the family and not to let your parents worry about you. Do your work honestly, say how to work honestly, and let your superiors and others say that you are a good person when they hear you.
Stupid people have stupid methods, dedication, karma and obedience. In terms of love, to be honest, I fell in love with him for a long time, and I confessed to her the year before last, and I was very sad. But I gave her a promise to wait for her to graduate from college, which is to wait four years, and she refused.
When the time comes, I'll be telling her that whether you accept me or not, the promise I made to you has been fulfilled. I can't give you an exact answer as to what the ending will be. Hopefully, you remember what you said to him, commitment is important for everyone.
Hopefully what I have said will make a difference in your life now ...
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I am also a weak-willed person, but I think success lies in yourself, perseverance is very important, perseverance is not strong, it means that you can do things consistently, and self-confidence is also very important. I know I'm not much of a philosopher, and I don't have any big arguments to speak of. I just hope you look at your palm when you feel like you can't do it, because your fate is in your own hands.
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Alas......Landlord, in fact, I am the same as you, and I am the same ...... the end of the world
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What is the play copy, it should not be useful, what you said.
What to play You directly say that you don't study well and like to watch ** Like fantasy Don't you get it Said that you are good that Shenma Directly said that you are not self-motivated With no strength to endure a little hardship and play with eggs But now it's almost the same Are you in high school or middle school and what is not all the hair, it's better than the waste The kind of self-reliance is still thinking about something else.
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I'll show you an article called "Success" and "Merit" Losers are envious of success on the one hand, and impatient on the other hand, eager to eat a bite and become a big fat man. As everyone knows, success is composed of the words "success" and "merit", and success is the accumulation of merit, which is called "merit to natural success". Wang Xizhi, a great calligrapher of the Jin Dynasty, studied calligraphy in the pond for 20 years, washed the pen and dyed the water in the pond black, so that he had the attainment of perfection in calligraphy.
Success is the foundation of success, and if a person wants to achieve success, he must go through arduous struggle, and this process is also the process of accumulating merit. A drop of water fell from the lintel and fell heavily on the stone, and it exploded with a splash, but there was not a trace of it on the stone. After a year and two years, the hard stone was finally pierced by the droplets.
If success is easy and can be achieved without struggle If success is not the accumulation of work and does not need to be climbed hard, then success will become cheap and lose its original dazzling color Then what else do we want to succeed Li Shizhen trekked through mountains and rivers and tasted all kinds of herbs Collected and sorted out information for decades Only then did the pharmaceutical masterpiece "Compendium of Materia Medica" come out Sima Qian traveled to famous mountains and rivers to read classic cheats Suffered palace punishment Endure humiliation and bear heavy burdens Pen cultivation Only then did the birth of "Historical Records". On the road to success, there is no shortcut, and there is no treasure gourd, so instead of sitting and envying others for "success", it is better to stand up and accumulate their own "merit". It is important to know that the blooming of any flower requires the bud to be nurtured for a long time, and any medal must be paid by the successful person.
Success is selfish, it will never give glory to lazy people, success is fair, it will unreservedly shine the bright stars on the perseverance of the strugglers.
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