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I seem to see my own shadow in you, like an introverted boy who has always been at a disadvantage and hesitation in his relationship, carefully observing, guessing, entangled, and retaining...
I'll give you a few bits and pieces:
1. Don't think about what she means, whether she is interested or not has no effect on you, and you are not attractive enough to her in the overall situation, so it makes no sense for you to entangle her with a good impression of you at this time.
What women want most from men is a sense of worship of the strong and a constant sense of mystery, and not a serious and thoughtful warm man. Why do some ladies like those little gangsters with yellow hair? Because the gangster Huang Mao will show a very powerful, brave and domineering appearance many times, this is what a junior version of the "strong" looks like.
Look at you now, she doesn't care about you, just because she looks at your circle of friends and thinks all kinds of things, is this a strong or a weak? It's weak to the end!
3. Relax, let go, let go, do your studies and career well, enrich your life and hobbies, when you are a person who is free and easy and has a lot of interesting things, then the attraction of your whole person will come. A truly comfortable relationship is when you are full and full, and then put in three points of energy to get along with your partner. Instead of putting 100% of your energy on the other person, let the other party see you through at a glance, and then be boring.
Don't take this girl too seriously,You just met her first.,Girls with the same appearance.、Girls with the same personality.、There are thousands of girls who are also attracted to you.,It's just that you haven't met it yet.,Let it be.,Since she doesn't like you.,You might as well enjoy your free life.,Improve yourself.,Meet the next suitable person in the future.,Don't miss it again.。 If you are being dragged by her now, then you will lose even more later.
5. When something is broken to a certain extent, throwing it away, tearing it, and building a new one is faster than repairing it! When a relationship already has many problems, instead of being tired of doing useless retention, it is better to let go and start again.
Addendum: I know that for introverted people like us, it is difficult to be so decisive and proactive, many times we are used to mending the current things, do not want new ones, and are reluctant to give up on what is about to be lost now, and finally have nothing.
I don't want you to be like me, waiting for all the bitterness and bitterness to try it before I realize that the price should have been paid at that time, and it was too late to wake up.
Let's give it a try, I said a few points above, you might as well take a step back and think about the feasibility, think about whether you will die if you do that, and how about trying if you don't die!!
Tearing through all the cages of the moment, her tsundere lets her tsundere, and when you decide to let her go, her tsundere will only make you sneer.
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