Don t cry, hold back! What are the dangers for parents to do this to their children?

Saying such things, many sensitive children will perceive their own behavior at the first time, and bring negative, troublesome feedback from their parents. This also prevents the child from having the opportunity to express himself normally. From ancient times to the present, the child's personality is rigid on the surface, but in fact it is fragile inside.

Saying such things, many sensitive children will perceive their own behavior at the first time, and bring negative, troublesome feedback from their parents.

So don't take the initiative to express yourself, cry for some reason, why do you cry. Because the state of the parents is also obvious that they are serious and patient not to listen to the child's narration, but only to blame. Saying such things, many sensitive children will perceive their own behavior at the first time, and bring negative, troublesome feedback from their parents.

This also prevents the child from having the opportunity to express himself normally. From ancient times to the present, the child's personality is rigid on the surface, but in fact it is fragile inside. Saying such things, many sensitive children will perceive their own behavior at the first time, and bring negative, troublesome feedback from their parents.

This also prevents the child from having the opportunity to express himself normally. From ancient times to the present, the child's personality is rigid on the surface, but in fact it is fragile inside. Saying such things, many sensitive children will perceive their own behavior at the first time, and bring negative, troublesome feedback from their parents.

So don't take the initiative to express yourself, cry for some reason, why do you cry. Because the state of the parents is also obvious that they are serious and patient not to listen to the child's narration, but only to blame. Saying such things, many sensitive children will perceive their own behavior at the first time, and bring negative, troublesome feedback from their parents.

This also prevents the child from having the opportunity to express himself normally. From ancient times to the present, the child's personality is rigid on the surface, but in fact it is fragile inside. Saying such things, many sensitive children will perceive their own behavior at the first time, and bring negative, troublesome feedback from their parents.

This also prevents the child from having the opportunity to express himself normally. From ancient times to the present, the child's personality is rigid on the surface, but in fact it is fragile inside. Saying such things, many sensitive children will perceive their own behavior at the first time, and bring negative, troublesome feedback from their parents.

It will make the child very aggrieved, will make the child hold all the words in his heart and is unwilling to say to his parents, will make the child and his parents become not close, unwilling to communicate with his parents, unwilling to talk to his parents, etc.

In this way, the child will not dare to express his psychological state, and he will not express his emotions in his heart later, which may cause depression for a long time, which is harmful to the child's growth.

It can make children become unconfident and intimidated by their parents. When you go out, you don't dare to communicate with others at all, and children like this will be very rebellious when they grow up. No matter what you do, you will do it against your parents. Therefore, we must pay attention to ways and means to educate children.

Parents will only make their children mature prematurely, and they will become more and more reluctant to tell others what is on their minds, and they will slowly become autistic.

Doing so will make the child very inferior, and it will also hit the child very hard, which will make the child's psychology have a great shadow.

Such parents will only scare their children, and they will also make them hate you more and more, because your education method is too strong and will not be beneficial to your child's development.

Children are always cryingThere are many factors that cause them to cry, sometimes they don't eat what they want, sometimes they don't have toys, or they cry for no reason.

As soon as the child cries, the adult will coax, if he can't coax, the adult will scold loudly, and the crying will bring a lot of pressure to the adult, and they hate the child crying.

So there are a lot of adults who don't allow children to cry, in the name of it, little boys have to have courage, how can they cry at every turn, if the child doesn't listen, a reprimand is indispensable.

In fact, we should know that crying is a common emotion, everyone will cry, cry when they encounter sad things, and cry when they are stressed.

Crying is a way to vent stress.

Keeping children from crying is actually letting children suppress their emotions.

Let's take a look at how not allowing children to cry can hurt them

First, the child's crying is actually showing his emotions to the person she trusts the most, but after that, the adult confirms that he is not allowed to cry, and over time, the child does not want to communicate with the adult. This is a blow to a good parent-child relationship.

Second, children crying also want to get a recognition from adults, they use crying to win the attention of adults, adults are bored with their crying, and children will become introverted and do not like to talk.

Of course, adults hate children's crying because of their work or pressure, but we should be human, we can also cry, we need to understand the reason why children cry at a deep level, and don't let them stop crying.

If the child cries, we should care for them with encouraging eyes and encouraging words.

Holding back and not crying is harmful to the body, especially for babies, this is a reasonable emotional expression, and tears can be detoxified.

Crying is originally released, and if you immediately ask not to cry, it will be very harmful to the child's health, but it is not good to cry for a long time.

Holding back crying is harmful to the body, and crying is good for the body. It is harmful for people to hold back when they are sad and not to cry, crying is normal and healthy, and there is no need to hold back when you want to cry.

If the child cries, the parent's inhibition will cause the child's emotions to not be able to vent normally, which will cause the child to have some mental illness.

It is normal for a child to cry to vent his emotions, and it is very uncomfortable if he is allowed to hold back and not cry, and it is not good for the body if he can't release himself.

Not allowing the child to cry is to deny the child's emotions, and he should be released and use crying to relieve the pain in his heart.

Holding back for a long time without crying will suppress emotions, and in the long run, internal injuries will occur, and crying caused by emotional changes is a natural reaction process of the body.

Generally, before the age of 2, the baby loves to cry because the baby is young, cannot express verbally, and does not know how to use language to express his needs and feelings, so he can only use crying instead. I want to cry when I'm hungry, I want to cry when I'm uncomfortable, I want to cry when I'm hot, and I even cry immediately if I don't meet the requirements.

Tears are to release feelings, not to release the body, of course, it is not good for the body, crying is beneficial to relieve emotional pressure, children also need to release pressure, express emotions.

When the child cries, let the child hold back and not cry, it will suppress the child's emotions, and it will be sick after a long time. Crying is also a way to vent.

Affect your child's mental health. Children's emotions also need to be vented, and always holding emotions in their hearts will have an impact on the child's psychology, so when the child wants to cry, parents must not let the child hold back.

Of course, it has an impact, which will cause children to become introverted, their emotions are not relieved, they are easy to go down the wrong path, and they will not be very happy.

Influential. Holding back tears and not being able to release them will lead to depression, depression, irritability, anger and even psychological problems.

If this sentence is too harsh, it is easy for children to become cautious and inferior, which is not conducive to children's growth.

It is easy for children to not tell their parents when they encounter grievances in the future, which will make children become introverted and inferior. You can teach your child to express her inner thoughts in words, rather than blindly not letting your child cry.

The effect of this sentence on the child is that it will make the child extremely unconfident. Produce a kind of inferiority complex. Therefore, it is necessary to speak softly in education.

The last time I had dinner with a friend, her child couldn't stop crying at all, and the friend kept talking patiently"What happened and why cry? "But the child just cried all the time, and this situation made my friend very angry, because he didn't know what was going on, and he didn't know what to do at all. At first, when the child cried, the friend would comfort and ask the child, but later the friend couldn't ask for any reason, just because the child was crying, and the result was that the child saw that the friend ignored her, beat him and started to beat people.

In the end, my mother was angry and annoyed, and shouted directly: Don't cry! In the end, I had to take the child away by force.

And this"No, you don't"The subconscious goal of parents is that children must listen to their own words and grow up according to their parents' wishes"Not good""Negative"Emotions arise.

One sentence"Don't cry"In fact, it hurts children a lot.

When the child is crying incessantly, parents are too troubled to solve the problem, and they may often inadvertently shout at the child"Don't cry"These three words, however, these seemingly simple three words can cause great harm to children.

It is very cruel to children, these ways are to make children stop crying for a while on the surface, there is no right or wrong and good or bad in this thing, every emotion has its merits.

It's just that when children have this kind of emotion, how parents guide their children to manage it appropriately, and they don't let children know how to manage their emotions.

1. Learn to observe children's emotions.

Parents should learn more about their children's habits in life and spend more time with their children, so that parents can be keenly observed when their children change. When parents find that their children's emotions may be a little low, they can make preventive preparations at this time to avoid the child's emotional out-of-control and guide the child out of the low mood in advance.

2. Be more patient.

Because of the child's age, many things will be affected by emotions, and many things cannot be said. When facing the child's emotional out-of-control, parents will comfort at first, but later they will gradually lose patience and do not understand the child, then the child will think that the parents do not like him, so he will be even more sad and choose to make a big fuss to vent his dissatisfaction. Parents should be patient with their children, and never let their children get angry, because parents are more angry than their children.

Children are emotionally uncontrollable and things cannot be resolved, but parents should not treat them in a way that ignores them, but should guide them patiently and spend as much time as possible with their children to understand them, so that similar problems can be solved.