Is it true that most marriages end up just making do with each other?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-19
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    To be honest, life is too long, so long that you don't know what will happen in the next second.

    After being married for so many years, watching the people around me divide and merge, and also looking at the various problems in the marriages of friends around me, of course, I have also experienced all kinds of quarrels and various contradictions in married life, and you will find that in fact, in the end of marriage, there are fewer and fewer people left who are truly loving.

    Once, we chose to be together in order to love each other, but in the constant friction of life, we found each other's love, which became less and less as the conflicts increased day by day, and were replaced by various troubles and contradictions in life.

    It is undeniable that there are still many happy families around me, but in fact, many families who look happy on the surface have also had countless impulses to divorce! Maybe marriage is really the grave of love, but everyone has to walk into this grave, once passed by the Civil Affairs Bureau, and saw rows of people lining up to get married on one side, but on the other side, there are also rows of people waiting for divorce.

    This tomb is constantly being entered and coming out. But some people look at it and think that in the end, love is really only plain, so no matter who you live with, it's the same, as long as each other can still think about this family and each other's children, this is enough.

    Maybe I'm still too young, sometimes I still want that feeling of being in love, and I always feel that that kind of plain marriage is just the love of the older generation, but, after seeing the experiences of so many friends, after I have also experienced various experiences, I really deeply feel that although love can be believed, the reason why the ending of the prince and princess ends the fairy tale when they are "finally together", because that should be the happiest moment, and after that, no one can predict, What will the life of the prince and princess be like?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    After getting married, love will eventually rise to family affection, although it is plain, but it will be real. If you just make do with your life, either your relationship is too dull, or you are going to settle in your relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Almost the same, the marriage will have no feelings after a certain period of time, and they will treat each other as their own family.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    <> but the probability of divorce is relatively low, because there is no hope, and the makeshift result is a family relationship.

    The appearance is stable, and the marital relationship is maintained. The child played an important role in this, and also received affectionate care full of blood and tears, which was the result of sacrificing the feelings of the parties to the marriage.

    In various considerations, the parties to the marriage just ignore their own emotional needs and lose their legitimate rights and interests for the sake of a loveless marriage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is also possible to be happy in a married marriage, because in the process of making do, if each other can make some changes and make some progress, it is not so difficult to achieve happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, the marriage that has been improvised, can also be happy, because there is something in common, and the more the two people go, the more they will feel safer, in fact, life is not to say that they are just two people slowly suitable.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A makeshift marriage can't be considered a happy one, and in my opinion, a makeshift marriage is just a person who is looking for a big guy to live with. Find someone to keep you company. He can't increase his happiness index.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A makeshift marriage should not be happy, but most people live in mistakes, and many families are helpless, because they have to make do for the sake of their children, probably mainly to give their children a better family.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Happiness can take many forms. Some people are willing to give after marriage because they have found the person they love very much; Some people have found a family, as long as they can live freely, they don't care about love or not; Some people find people who love themselves but don't love them, and after a few years of improvisation, they feel more and more that the other party has paid for themselves, and finally move towards happiness in the touch.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A makeshift marriage must be unhappy, because the marriage is carried out by two people together, some firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, this kind of happy life is happy, so the two of them have made do with it, there must be uncomfortable and unsatisfactory places, so it must be unhappy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A makeshift marriage is definitely unhappy, you must know that such a marriage will make two people break up sooner or later, and there will be no such happy feeling.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A makeshift marriage is definitely not happy, and the best thing is to change the status quo so that both people can discover each other's strengths.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A makeshift marriage will certainly not be happy because neither party has the slightest motivation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, a makeshift marriage can't afford problems, and once there are problems, it's easy to not be able to stick to them.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Can you be happy in a makeshift marriage? I think it's definitely not happy to make do, and it's impossible to make do with happiness. So it's hard to be happy if you make do with it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Makeshift marriages sometimes seem unhappy, but they also have makeshift reasons, such as for their children, not necessarily for their own selfishness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Can you be happy in a makedo marriage A makeshift marriage has also had a better life, and you can no longer always think about love, and you have to be responsible for your family.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Marriage is very happy, don't joke, don't say hip-hop **. That situation is very unhappy. As long as I treat my sister's marriage with sincerity, I think I am very happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A makeshift marriage really doesn't make any sense, and there are many times when the marriage is not happy, and then make do with it and have no children.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you want to make do with it, then you will be happy. But it turned out to be improvised, then I must feel that I am quite aggrieved, and it is better to divorce. Some people just get married for the sake of getting married, and she thinks that she can live with whomever she wants, that kind of mentality.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A makeshift marriage is not impossible to make, and it can only be improvised, but improvisation can also be improvised, after all, after a long time, mutual tolerance, slowly you will get used to it, you will slowly understand each other, you may discover each other's advantages, and you will have feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Even if you work hard, your marriage may not be happy, and if you have made do with a marriage, there is no happiness at all, there is no sweetness at all, so how can you be happy in marriage?

    Marriage happiness depends on the joint efforts of both parties, running their own small family together, moving forward in the direction of happiness, mutual understanding and tolerance, and mutual support in order to be happy.

    Any marriage that is about to be settled and made up is unhappy!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because there is no love in itself, just improvisation, such a marriage will not be happy, and there will be more troubles or problems between the two of you. It's torture for everybody.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think I'm happy in a makeshift marriage. This kind of marriage, I think, has no emotional foundation and is a foreshadowing for marriage. So such a marriage is also unstable.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    As long as we are together and run in slowly. Be able to understand each other more. More help.

    Gradually, the word improvised will be omitted. Two people can always expect, and the other party considers. Wholeheartedly for this family.

    Can you still be unhappy? That's bound to be happy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A makeshift marriage can't be happy, you can only make do with it, only two people really love each other, such a marriage can make people feel happy and warm.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A makeshift marriage may not be happy, but it will last a long time, because both parties see it this way, then the marriage will go on slowly.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    A makeshift marriage can't be happy, there is no affection between two people, just make do with it, and the family will be cold.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hello, a makeshift marriage will not be happy, and it is right to choose to marry the person you love the most.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    A makeshift marriage will never be happy, maybe only a moment or an occasional happiness, but only temporary.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There are several families with happy marriages, all of whom are making do with their lives, and the men all wish they could be like the emperor, with food to open their mouths, clothes to stretch their hands, and women to change every day, selfish. Mainly most people are running for their livelihoods, buying a house and raising children basically cost most of the income, and the work and housework have exhausted their energy and enthusiasm.

    Now most women choose to get married for their parents, for the sake of secular eyes, there is no love and happiness at all, if you find another one is to find someone to cook, this is too cruel for women. There is no relationship based on a marriage, and I think it will probably end in disintegration again.

    Because of my age, my parents asked me if I had a boyfriend and when I got married, and I wanted to say yes soon, but I hesitated again, whether I would continue to follow the marriage path of my fathers, whether I would continue to follow theirs' kind of As long as the conditions of both parties are OK, regardless of whether the personality is suitable and the values are the same.

    Is it serious and prudent to treat love and marriage, just get married in such a muddy way, and then start the division of labor between men and women after marriage, and then just live your own life, or a little more bloody, divorce and remarriage, all kinds of tosses. I don't think I'm willing to, life is just so long, I can't waste it.

    Nowadays, people mainly choose too much, and some are better than running a good one. Just like work, impetuous. I don't think it's completely improvised, marriage has to go through a lot of periods, it can't be a honeymoon period forever, and there are ups and downs like ** graphics, the beginning is good to die, and then it is dull, and then it doesn't sell each other, it can be handled well, and it will really be one of the closest people in the world in the future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Do you think your marital happiness is making do with life? Anyway, life is a kind of family affection in the back, living together. It's also a kind of day when no one can live without anyone, this kind of love is not love, but I feel very happy.

    Although there were bumps in the middle, I felt quite content.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think my marriage is very happy, and I am not making do with it, because we both truly love each other, and we can care for and tolerate each other together, so we are very happy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course, we think that my marriage is very happy, my husband loves himself very much, loves himself very much, and can tolerate himself no matter what happens, of course, he is not making do with life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think I'm quite happy in my marriage, and it's really not making do with life, but finding the life I like.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Do you think your marriage is happy? Are you making do with it? Marriages do have some of them making do with each other, and some of them are making do. It is very happy and loving.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Hello friends, I feel that my married life is still very happy, we are together because we love to get married, not to make do with life, I hope everyone does not make do with life, to be responsible for their own happiness.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think marriage is like this, there are happiness and contradictions in it. We still have to tolerate and tolerate each other, so that life can go on. Both people have to pay in a marriage.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Do you think your marriage is happy? Are you making do with it? I think our marriage is very happy. We have acts of mutual respect and love. Have a tolerant mindset. In the face of difficulties, we can work together. Overcome difficulties.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I feel that my marriage is very happy and happy, not to make do with life, but to live happily every day. My husband loves me very much, spoils me very much, and has endless words every day.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Do you think you're happily married? Is it making do with life? If the marriage is not happy, you make do with life and will never be happy.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Do you think your marriage is happy? Are you making do with it? I think my marriage is okay, not all people are making do with their lives, because some couples love each other and tolerate each other, and their lives are enjoyable.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Marriage needs to be managed, just like a job, it needs to continue to learn and learn from excellent experience, and the same is true for marriage, which needs to continue to grow, so that married life will be happier.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think our marriage is still very happy, it's really not that we're making do with life, it's better to live a happier life.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Do you think your marriage is happy? Is it the wrong life, this is very correct, everyone's marriage has ups and downs, and they all make do with life and move forward.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I feel that my marriage is happy now, there is no quarrel, mutual understanding and humility, two people are moving forward together, not making up for life, two people are trying to move forward.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    In real life, marriage will inevitably produce a lot of contradictions, but two people should also empathize, cherish each other, and not make do with each other, so that the marriage will be happy.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I think it's okay, my husband is also very good to me, I am reluctant to eat delicious food, I will give me and the child to eat first, it feels pretty good, the only regret is that I am married far away, and it is not easy to go back to my parents' home.

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