Are you in favor of the elderly who have lost their lives in nursing homes?

In China, the housing problem of the elderly who are alone is an urgent problem. Many elderly people have lost their children, and they have no relatives, who will solve their pension?

Some people think of nursing homes. Actually, I'm against the elderly living in a nursing home. However, the elderly who have lost their independence have no children, they are alone, so I am in favor of going to a nursing home to spend the rest of their lives.

First, nursing homes are full of elderly people and have a common topic. In nursing homes, they can meet people of a similar age, they can chat about what they want to talk about after dinner, eat snacks, and bask in the sun. In addition, they are all elderly and have lost their children, so they also have a common topic and a common hobby.

Second, nursing homes are cared for. Older people, they get sick easily, so it's good to have a good medical condition. Now, if the elderly are alone at home and have a sudden illness, no one will know, and the life of the elderly will be lost.

Most of the diseases of the elderly are sudden, so in nursing homes, there are special people to check their bodies and make an assessment report on their health status, which also provides a guarantee for the lives of the elderly.

Third, the living conditions of the nursing home are good and at home. At present, most of the problems of supporting the elderly who are alone are solved by the state, so we do not have to worry about the poor living conditions of the elderly. On the contrary, their living conditions will also be better.

Many elderly people in their former homes will easily think of their children, which is also sad for Tizeng. Therefore, it is also good for them to live in a different environment.

Disagree, nursing homes can never be compared with their own homes, and caring for the elderly at home may make the elderly more comfortable.

When I was in college, I volunteered in a nursing home many times, and the nursing home gave me a very bad feeling. Every time we went, we saw the old people sitting in front of the door one by one basking in the sun. Some old people don't like to communicate with people, so they sit there by themselves in a daze.

The living conditions of the nursing home are not particularly good, some rooms do not see sunlight, and as soon as you enter, you will give people a cold feeling, and even the quilt is soaked in moisture. Most of the meals are in a large pot, and even if there is an additional meal, it is just some eggs and meat. This kind of life is not good.

I am more in favor of having the elderly care at home than in nursing homes. It would be better at home, at least in terms of food and housing. The most important thing is to have your own relatives and children at home.

When the elderly are old, they always want their children to be by their side, even if it is just to look at them, they will feel satisfied.

I remember that every time I go back to my hometown, my grandmother will always surround me and ask me to tell her about my work and life, even if I don't understand her, she will listen attentively. Sometimes my sisters and I would play there, and my grandmother would sit and watch us laugh. As long as we are at home, her spirit is very good, I think this is the unique strength of relatives, only in front of the people you love can get the greatest happiness.

There may be many people who are busy with work and do not have time to spend with the elderly, so they send the elderly to nursing homes, at least there are many companions there. In fact, sometimes the more this happens, the more lonely they become. With so many lonely elderly people, sadness is contagious, it is better to let them be at home, if the old people in the boring community are the best objects for them to chat.

When you go home from work every day, you can take a walk with the elderly, talk, and let the elderly enjoy the joy of their children's knees, which may be the best arrangement for them.

I think I'm personally in favor, and I've thought about it, and I'll go to a nursing home when I'm old in the future.

My generation I feel quite open-minded, unlike the previous generation, it is relatively difficult for our parents' generation to accept nursing homes. In their minds, they feel that the elderly living in the nursing home are not taken care of, so they will resolutely not let their parents go to the nursing home, thinking that it is a sign of unfilial piety to others, regardless of their parents, in fact, they also do this, my grandfather and my grandfather have never lived in a nursing home, even if they can't move, they take turns to serve.

I don't think so, I think nursing homes can give them better conditions, I think if I get old in the future, my children still have to go to work to earn money, living in the city is quite stressful, don't they all have to work to earn money? When the time comes, I have to take care of their children, where do I have time to take care of me, and I usually go to work, their children go to school, I am quite lonely at home, it is better to have the other half to accompany me, if the other half is gone, I can't deal with anything at home in time, and my own children at home will not be at ease.

It's better to go to a nursing home, at least three meals a day are prepared, and there are so many peers to entertain together, the most important thing is that there is a special person to take care of it 24 hours a day, and what is the situation can be found in time.

Of course, going to a nursing home is my own will, I am willing to go, but when my parents are old, I will still respect their ideas, I can go if I want, and if I don't want to go, I will find a special person to take care of them, anyway, it doesn't matter where they are, as long as they are happy.

Impossible, without the signature of the children, they will not be allowed to enter at all. It is also a strange Chinese characteristic, with children and daughters going to nursing homes, and no children and daughters at home and growing old alone.

The best way to care for the elderly is to hire a family nanny, if the family conditions are good, their pension is still guaranteed, if the family conditions are average, for such the elderly, find a better nursing home is the best way to care for the elderly.

Some elderly people who are lonely in nursing institutions choose to go to nursing homes, but the current situation, the vast majority of nursing homes in China are privately owned, and in accordance with relevant regulations, they need to be signed by their children as guardians before they can be allowed to live in nursing homes. Losing their only child, those who need to go to a nursing home for the elderly, will also lose the eligibility to live in a general nursing home. It is difficult to care for the elderly at home, and it is also difficult to go to a nursing home, and the realistic choice of the elderly who have lost their independence is in many difficulties.

Legal basis: Social Insurance Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 58.

The employer shall, within 30 days from the date of employment, apply to the social insurance agency for social insurance registration for its employees. If they fail to register for social insurance, the social insurance agency shall verify and approve the social insurance premiums they should pay. Individually-owned businesses without employees who voluntarily participate in social insurance, part-time employees who do not participate in social insurance at the employer, and other flexibly employed persons shall apply to the social insurance agency for social insurance registration.

The State shall establish a nationwide unified personal social security number. An individual's social security number is a citizenship number.

Lost independence, a painful word! The elderly have something to rely on and have spiritual sustenance, and they rely on their children, and they are also entrusted with their children.

Since the implementation of the one-child policy in the early seventies of the last century, a group of one-child children has emerged. But for various reasons, some families send white-haired people to black-haired people, and become lonely old people, how can these lonely old people rely on, how to sustenance, and how to provide for the elderly?

After the death of their son, Qiao's father and Qiao's mother took over the brand founded by Qiao Renliang, registered a Douyin account named "Gao Caiping and Master Qiao", learned to shoot **, shared the couple's daily life and food in front of the camera, and also suffered from the malicious cyberbullying of some netizens, and came into contact with the world where evil and good coexisted in the son once lived. The couple leaned on each other and stood up from the pain hand in hand.

You may think that the parents of star Qiao Renliang will lack pension money? The pain of losing one's independence has nothing to do with whether his son is a star or not, and others can't empathize. It is true that Qiao's father and Qiao's mother are not financially embarrassed, but how many ordinary families who have lost their independence are neglected on the fringes of society, and they have to bear not only the mental blow, but also the pain of aging physical state and old age.

The two major problems of economy and medical care have become two big mountains that weigh on the people who have lost their independence.

In response to how to help the elderly who have lost their independence to spend their old age in peace, the state has been constantly exploring, practicing and improving relevant systems and policies over the years.

In 2018, the state raised the standard of support for families who have lost their independence to 450 yuan per person per month. In the future, the state will continue to dynamically adjust the standard of assistance according to factors such as the level of economic and social development.

The best way to care for the elderly is to hire a family nanny, if the family conditions are average, finding a better nursing home is also a good way to care for the elderly.

In addition, the elderly need to maintain a healthy lifestyle, including a balanced diet, moderate exercise, regular medical check-ups, etc. Older adults need social interaction to alleviate loneliness and depression.

The elderly who are lonely need to ensure the safety of their living and living environment. They can take steps to protect against hazards such as burglary, falls, and fires. You can install smart bridges, simple security equipment, help equipment, etc. in the residence to ensure personal safety.

In addition, seniors also need to take precautions so that they can respond in time if something unexpected happens.

Psychological problems of the elderly who have lost their independence:

1. Low self-esteem

On the one hand, they are afraid of contact with the outside world, and on the other hand, they are eager to fit into a group of people who share the same fate. The biggest killer of happiness for people who have lost their independence is extreme low self-esteem, believing that they do not deserve happiness. They erect an invisible psychological wall between themselves and others, and between society.

2. Lack of spiritual sustenance and comfort

Families who have lost their independence have experienced a double blow of spirit and psychology, and many elderly people have undergone profound psychological changes, and some families may even encounter social discrimination, and they urgently need spiritual sustenance and comfort.

What should I do if I get into the elderly? Whether or not we can get adequate old-age care is not only a question of conscience and morality for the whole society, but also a question of whether we keep our promises.

A single family is a family in which an only child dies and the parents will not have children, cannot have children, and do not want to adopt a child. After the life of the orphaned family is "old and bereaved of children", the difficulties of providing for the elderly in the future must be overcome by the state.

In 2001, the "Population and Family Planning Law" was promulgated, involving the relevant provisions of social security for the orphaned groups, as stated in Article 27 of Chapter 4 of this method: "If the only child is accidentally disabled or dies, and his parents will not give birth to or adopt the child, the local people** should give the necessary assistance." But the meaning of the word "assistance" is not an obligation or responsibility, and how much assistance counts as "necessary"?

There is no specific quantitative indicator in the law, and there is a certain degree of flexibility in implementation.

Moreover, with the strong support of the local government, the financial resources of various regions are different, and the focus is not the same. The local government in relatively backward areas still needs to find ways to attract investment and vigorously develop the economy? What if I don't have the funds?