How can I keep him? What do I use to keep you?

Well, that's the expiration date of love, you want to keep him, care more about him from now on, and go shopping with him, it's okay. He is addicted to the Internet, which means that he feels empty and lonely, and can only vent online to obtain satisfaction.

It's also a problem, if he doesn't care about you, there's no way. He may have endured enough, your willfulness. Your vexatiousness. Don't be in a hurry, be yourself and wait and see. Don't be in a hurry.

Borges's "What Do I Use to Keep You" is appreciated as follows:

What do I use to keep you" to express his loneliness and sadness, hoping that someone can understand, love and embrace him. There are a lot of negative imagery in the poem, unlike many love poems, generally when talking about love or pursuing a girl, some positive things will be used such as delicate roses, the sun, bright stars, etc., this poem uses sentences like "I try to impress you with confusion, danger, and failure".

Because these so-called "negativity" made me see the humility of emotions and made me understand what kind of posture the other party was admiring me; At the same time, it also made me empathize: every loneliness, every sadness that Borges embodies, drips into my heart, and makes me completely stand with this person, understand him, love him, and want to embrace him.

What do I use to keep you" is a famous poem in Borges's oeuvre. Whether it is the English version or the Chinese version, it is very amazing to read, and the emotions between the words are profound and touching. This poem was written in 1934 and is included in the collection of poems, The Other, the One.

It itself is an excerpt from "To Beatrice Biveloni Webster de Bourrich", so it is a love poem.

About the writer

Jorge Luis Borges was an Argentine poet, philist, essayist and translator known as an archaeologist among writers. He is proficient in English, French, German and other languages, and his works cover short essays, essays, poetry, literary criticism, and translated literature. His representative works include "The Garden of Diverging Paths", "Circular Ruins", and "The Book of Sand".

In love, we all want to be able to keep each other's hearts and build a healthy and stable relationship. However, this requires genuineness, good communication and mutual understanding. In the following article, I will share some ways to help you keep your loved ones.

1. Treat each other sincerely.

Building and maintaining a healthy relationship starts with being honest with the other person. Sincerity is the cornerstone of building trust, and only through sincerity can the other person feel that you are sincere and caring. When interacting with each other, keep your true self and don't hide your thoughts and feelings.

At the same time, it is also important to respect the feelings and opinions of the other party, and be honest with each other.

2. Good communication.

Communication is a very important part of a relationship. Through good rental communication, we can better understand each other's needs, expectations, and feelings. Learn to listen, respect the other person's opinion, and don't rush to express your opinion.

At the same time, learn to express your needs and feelings so that the other person can understand you better. Through effective communication, problems can be solved and intimacy can be enhanced.

3. Support each other.

In a relationship, it is very important to support each other. No matter what difficulties and challenges the other person encounters, we should give support and encouragement. Going through difficulties together brings us closer together.

At the same time, learn to care about the needs and desires of the other person, and take the initiative to help the other person achieve their goals.

4. Respect personal space.

Respecting each other's personal space is also key to building a healthy relationship. Everyone needs a certain degree of independence and freedom, and we can't interfere too much in each other's lives and decisions. Give each other a certain amount of space and give them the opportunity to pursue their interests and dreams.

At the same time, we also need to learn to be independent and develop our own lives to make our relationships more balanced and healthy.

5. Grow together.

Building healthy relationships isn't just about meeting each other's needs, it's more about growing together. We should set goals together and work hard to achieve our dreams of being cautious. By working together, we can promote each other and make progress together.

Growing together not only increases the stability of the relationship, but also increases the happiness of each other.

6. Dealing with conflicts.

In any relationship, it is difficult to avoid conflict and disagreement. The key is to learn to handle conflicts correctly. Conflict is not the end of the relationship, on the contrary, it is an opportunity for the relationship to develop further.

Learn to deal with conflicts calmly, respect the other person's point of view, and seek common solutions. By resolving conflicts, we can get to know each other better and increase the stability of our relationship.

It takes sincerity and hard work to keep your loved ones. By being honest with each other, communicating well, supporting each other, respecting personal space, growing together, and dealing with conflict correctly, we can build a healthy and stable relationship. Let's work together to keep each other's hearts and create a beautiful love.