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Sometimes loneliness is also a rare state, you can do what you love and meditate on some problems. Loneliness shows that you have different values from those around you, and if you firmly believe that you are right, there is no need to cater to others. Some roads have to be walked alone, and I think it's a change of mindset.
Maturity will allow you to gradually have a clear goal and know what you want, but I think this loneliness is only a phase, and you will definitely meet some like-minded people on the way to your endeavors.
Maybe you'll feel that way.
When you come home from work, dragging your tired body to squeeze the subway, in such a displaced, bright city, in the middle of the night when it is still full of people, you will feel a kind of loneliness of "being alone in a foreign land as a stranger", and this feeling is even worse when you are depressed.
You have colleagues, but you don't feel a kind of warmth called "friends" from them, you miss your parents, but they are separated by thousands of mountains and rivers.
There are far more tears than joy that Beishangguang brings you. You are like a homeless bird, in the continuous migration, there is no branch to rely on, in the ups and downs along the way, you are lonely flapping wings and trying to fly.
Loneliness is never fun, but when it comes and we can't avoid it, try to draw strength from it.
In lonely times, growth is the fastest, because you have to bear everything alone.
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Hello, the older and more mature people are, the more lonely they tend to be. Because when a person understands everything and is mature enough, he will think more, he will have fewer and fewer friends, and he will feel lonely in his heart.
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It must be like this, because if a person is very sensible, many people will think that you are a very smart person, and it will also make your heart suffer a lot, so sometimes you will feel very lonely.
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When a person understands everything and is mature enough, it may be very lonely, unwilling to socialize with others, feeling bored and boring.
Or maybe he has a lot of friends because he knows what his friends want? What can I give? It always makes friends especially happy and loves to be with her.
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Yes, I feel that there should be such a feeling, when a person understands everything, when he is mature enough, he will feel lonely, because he feels that no one else understands her.
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This shows that he is indeed mature enough, but the current situation will make others. I didn't dare to get close to him, because everyone else was afraid that this person was too mature and would see through him, so they had no friends around them.
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When a person understands everything, but is mature enough, he must be very lonely, because he knows too much, so he can see through it at a glance.
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Not necessarily, but this is largely due to the fact that the person is too good to find the right one.
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Such a statement is certainly not accurate either.
Because a person is very mature and understands everything, then he doesn't have to be particularly lonely.
If he can handle anything well, then he is also very good at dealing with people, so his popularity is good.
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It just proves that your mind is very mature, right? It can't be said to be lonely, this may mean that you are more sensible.
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A person who understands everything often lacks understanding or like-minded people, and he is doomed to be lonely.
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One is not alone. When you think about it one by one, you will be lonely.
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A more appropriate suggestion is that you can take the way of self-ridicule, you can try to say some harmless shortcomings or troubles about yourself, and take the initiative to make fun of yourself and make fun of yourself, which can not only amuse the other person, but also quickly gain the favor of the other party.
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I don't agree with this topic, mature enough, it's relative, it depends on what kind of circle is around him, if the circle is mature, he won't be lonely.
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I don't think that's the case, if you're mature enough, you know that it's very important to communicate with people, to interact with people, because everybody needs a circle, only with everybody. Only by communicating more can you make yourself more capable and more developed.
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In fact, I don't think that real maturity is to know the world but not the world, such a person knows everything, but he does not follow the mainstream and can adapt well to society, and he is not lonely.
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Yes, because he understands everything, and he understands what others don't understand, but no one shares this understanding with him, so he will be lonely, and the longer time passes, the more lonely he becomes, even if he is accompanied, he can't have the kind of resonance in his heart, and he can't get rid of the lonely mentality.
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Loneliness is the normal state of life, enjoy loneliness, you can find the most true self; Enjoy solitude and you can see a better life. The sign of a person's maturity is to enjoy solitude. When everyone around you leaves, don't be afraid, don't linger, it's someone else's choice to come and go, it's enough to be yourself.
Along the way.
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When a person understands everything and is mature enough, it may be lonely. Because mature people can tolerate loneliness, and they don't need anything from others, and they don't talk to others when they have problems. So at this time, it was all done by myself.
Of course, this situation also divides people, and some people will have a lot of friends around them when they mature, and they will also make themselves very happy.
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When a person can be mature enough for everything, then he should be more lonely, but it cannot be said that he is necessarily lonely, because his thinking exceeds his age, and he may make friends with older people, and it is in this age group, for example, that there may be no real friends between classmates and colleagues, but he will make friends with some older people.
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Summary. Good afternoon, dear! A person's maturity needs to go through: it can be observed from the three aspects of a person's cognition, which can also be said to be the three growth of a person's heart.
Good afternoon, dear! A person's maturity needs to go through: it can be observed from the three aspects of a person's cognition, which can also be said to be the three growth of a person's heart.
1. Growing up for the first time: When you find that you are not the center of the world, many times, young people will generally think of it as a symbol of youth, vigor and high spirit. But for young people, it is sometimes seen as a symbol of impulsiveness, impatience, and self-centeredness.
When many people are young, they will have a flamboyant personality, they can't get used to seeing many things around them, they feel that they are the center of the world, and they want to change the constraints of the world's rules and regulations with their own strength, and then change the world and the people around them, so that the world can develop according to their ideal blueprint.
2. The second growth: when we find that no matter how hard we try, some things are still powerless after all, we recognize ourselves, correct our attitude, understand our position in this world, and change our attitude towards the world. You are fighting for your life, family, career, and ideals every day!
I hope to exchange my hard work for what I want. At this time, you think of an ideal of your childhood, that is, to become an Air Force pilot who can fly a fighter plane in the blue sky, and then you are full of excitement to participate in the pilot recruitment, and finally you are told that the height does not meet the requirements, the eyesight is not qualified, and the physique is not enough.
3. The third growth: When you know that some things are powerless, you will still try your best to fight for the second growth makes you understand that there is not necessarily the same proportion of growth between pay and harvest, some things are very close to us, and you can have them with hard work, but some things are far away, and you may not be able to get them with hard work, so as to change your mentality. When you know that some things are very hard, but you may not be able to get results, in order not to regret yourself, you resolutely choose to do your best, just for a future without regrets, knowing that you have struggled for this, you will not regret that you have not worked hard for this in the future.
Dear, life is a process, struggle and compliance coexist, you must respect the law, go with the flow, but also work hard to pursue a better self.
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What is maturity, the problem is so big, some people will not be mature in their lives, many things, the earlier they experience, the easier it is to understand the truth of being a person and doing things.
Maturity is the beginning of accepting impermanence, understanding that all that people want in this life is God's reward and food. Because I have seen too many natural and man-made disasters and changes in the world, I know that not all efforts will be rewarded. Therefore, when the wind is smooth, it will not be hypocritical or swell, but take advantage of the east wind to work hard to make money and save money, prepare for rain on sunny days, and even if you fall to the bottom in the future, you can lie dormant with peace of mind.
Stop complaining and start being grateful.
When I was young, I liked to be perfect, and I always complained that I was in a life that I didn't like, and I felt that my situation was different from what I thought. When I grew up, I realized that what I have been complaining about may be what other people dream of, what I am accustomed to, and what others have worked hard for a long time to get, and I began to be grateful for life, my parents, and others.
Begin to understand the limitations of others and stop being black and white.
Understand that different people have different views and are in different positions, and it is possible to be right. Small from living habits, big to worldly concepts. Furthermore, everything that comes across is a finished product.
Sometimes, parents are narrow-minded because of poor knowledge; others are timid, all because they have no mountain to endorse their families; The villain is snobbish because he was bullied in the past. If the person does not threaten his own interests, he begins to understand and tolerate. Empathy, if you were him, you might not be able to do better.
No longer delusional to mess with everyone at once, learn to focus on everything.
When he was too young, he liked to spread the net to communicate, hoping to win the world's beauty. Later, I found that the more this is the case, the more I can't catch the point, and the more I love to cast the net, the more I can't catch the big fish. Later, I understood that you must be excellent yourself, so that there will be excellent people gathered around, long-sleeved people who are good at dancing will get to know a large number of people, but most of them are not helpful to themselves, and the people who are excellent and beautiful, and the people he interacts with must be able to improve and progress together with them.
Many people are adults, but they are not mature, maturity is not to read a few chicken soup articles, to be enlightened, nor to listen to a few lectures, to see through the red dust.
Maturity is a psychological and physical transformation, a person who is naïve and youthful convergence, begins to become calm, tolerant, begins to know how to be grateful, knows how to reciprocate, and hopes that he is not only an adult, but also a mature person.
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A person's mature liquid bush should start from being able to endure loneliness and loneliness! When you are lonely and lonely, you will look back on the people and things you have encountered, both satisfied and dissatisfied.
A person's life road is to face it alone after all, some people think that there is everything with only a friend who is famous, indulged in social circles all day long, thinking that the more people you know, the better, in fact, there is no need to meet so many people, a large part of the interaction is useless, for example, I bought a house last year, I urgently need money, but after thinking about it, I feel that there are few who can lend a hand, I let my husband play a few ** did not borrow money, and finally my second brother, second sister-in-law lent me money, There is also a good girlfriend who knew that I needed money and prepared 20,000 yuan for me, although the money was enough at that time and I didn't use my girlfriend's money, but I am very grateful to my girlfriend. So I thought that when people reach middle age, they should be mature at an age, and they should not go to unnecessary or unimportant entertainment, and they can endure loneliness in order to mature step by step. In this era, the pace of life is fast, and it is good to slow down occasionally, and only when a person is quiet can he think about some problems, use appropriate ways to deal with some pointing things, and gradually become better.
People who can endure loneliness are psychologically more mature, are very assertive people, in this special time is still very important, only because they can endure loneliness and loneliness to achieve the industry, in the modern complex era, if you want to succeed, you must endure loneliness and loneliness, in order to grow up step by step, to maturity.
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Knowing how to enjoy solitude is indeed a sign of maturity when a person begins to read Li, because only a person who can truly be alone is the most powerful, and can also be truly mature.
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It's not about enjoyment, but it's mature to be able to adapt to loneliness, because life is not a scattered spike to get together every day to talk and laugh, so the clan does not exclude the declaration of independence, which is a manifestation of a person's maturity, but it is not enjoyable. Punch and balance.
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Be. Enjoying solitude is a process of self-knowledge and the beginning of a person's maturity.
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