20 points. Please help analyze this little family matter.

I don't think I often go home, I should go home once without the old man to say, I should take the initiative to buy some things that the old man likes to eat, that is your responsibility, but also the least politeness, why every time the old man says and can't think of it, your wife should not be angry, she is the most daughter-in-law, how can you buy some vegetables and buy some fruit for your mother-in-law, how can you not even buy some fruit time, buy something at night that is also your mind, even this little bit of heart is not exhausted, you have children in the future think about what will happenYou should think about it for yourself.

Of course, your mother just thinks that you often don't go home, go home, bring something delicious to your mother, and it's not your mother's fault, isn't it good for you to bring fruit home to see your mother, why is your wife upset? What do you come home for, is it just to come back to play, or to come back to see your mother?

Think about it yourself.

I think this is a manifestation of your mother's loneliness, because if you buy it for yourself, you will feel that "I" am a person, and even the fruit has to be bought for yourself, and no one cares; And if my children buy it, even if they have said it beforehand, they will feel very happy, because they will feel that their children are still as obedient and well-behaved as when they were children, and they will also feel that this is a sign that my son cares about me. Your mother buys vegetables mainly for you and your wife to eat, if she eats alone, she won't go to such great lengths to cook, she will want to eat alone It's simpler, since you only go home once in a long time, then of course she is very happy, of course she wants to make those hometown dishes for you. If we only think about the bad things, then the result will also be bad, why not think about the good side, and parents want their children to really understand them, they don't want money.

No time is really no time, since you have put down what you are doing and gone home, can you still say that there is no time, some things are just excuses, and I don't think your wife needs to be angry about this kind of thing, it's a bit of a fuss.

Maybe your mom wanted you to sell it to her.

It lasts a long time! You don't have to be too good to believe the words of the fortune teller or someone else's biography. As long as we trust each other and care for each other, we will be able to endure forever.

Do you want to see the physiognomy here? The relationship is good for a long time, and the relationship is not good!

Your husband's heart is not careful....I can't help but get a divorce.

Becoming stronger on your own is the only way out for you.

If you agree to the divorce, you can mediate the divorce. If you do not agree to the divorce, state your reasons and hope that the court will mediate and reconcile.

If one party insists on leaving, they will eventually leave.

Please respond to the lawsuit in a timely manner. Submit your evidence to the court.

Very understandable to you, you did the right thing. Your parents did something wrong, but understandably. In life, it is inevitable that there are many problems between the choice of big principles and small principles, you are still a student, have a clear attitude towards life, it is not an exaggeration to say, you will do for what you do, gain more.

Don't quarrel with your parents about this, you should learn to accept your parents' education tactfully. Especially your parents are also very concerned about the face in front of their children. Learn to be tolerant and study hard.

I hope you become an independent soon. Interpret your choices with your own achievements.

It's hard for you to encounter this problem, in fact, it's often like this, it may be a generation gap, anyway, the quality of our generation is more or less evolved (except for some exceptions), but parents are parents after all, I have seen people who were extremely strong when they were young, that is really the eldest and his second, but when he is old, he is really weak, even pitiful, really pitiful.

Parents can't choose, and don't change (they can't change them when they're not old, and they don't have to change when they're old under their children's noses, because they accept everything, even if their children make trouble unreasonably, they can endure it, which also means that most people, except for exceptions).

When we were very stubborn during the rebellion period, we thought it was right to say that we would not back down from anything, in the Northeast dialect it was "too dead", and when I graduated from work, I found that I was too stupid, only to find that it was all indifferent to the trivial things, really, even if my parents did not fulfill their responsibilities back then, even if my parents hurt my heart back then, even if my parents beat me up back then, I found that I didn't hate (maybe hated at the time), maybe there were faint complaints, but they all dissipated and didn't matter.

The next time you encounter something like this, don't take it too seriously, you can not tell your parents that you gave eight yuan, just say that you gave five yuan, so that everyone is fine, right?

I think the problem is complicated, it's hard to say, the mood is weird, and after reading your message, it's like a social problem.

First time I heard about it. Haven't encountered it.

In general, it is more important to do national affairs, but without the support of a family, there is no motivation to do national affairs. So, you can do it yourself.

The major affairs of the country are not my generation, and the trivial matters at home ask me to wait to work.

It is certainly not possible to give an absolute answer that varies from time to time and from place to person, and to distinguish the order of importance, and then make a specific judgment.

I've played debate tournaments in school, and it's a big problem.