When you fall in love, you shouldn t joke about the results

This kind of autosuggestion is still not good, and I always warn friends and family not to say negative things, and this is why.

1] Verbal suggestion: Language not only has a suggestive effect on others, but also has an autosuggestive effect. If a person deliberately says that he is in a bad mood to others, and he sees a person and says, "I'm in a bad mood, don't touch me", and if he says too much, he will really be in a bad mood, and this situation often happens.

2] Action Suggestion: If I swing my fist at you, this action indicates a threat. If I applaud you, I welcome and encourage you. If you sing on stage and everyone applauds constantly, it's a hint of positive praise from everyone, and it will give you more confidence.

3] Environmental cues: When we see the sea, we are prompted by the sea, and our hearts can't help but be open-minded; When we see the mountains and are hinted at by them, we can't help but feel solemn and peaceful. Environmental cues are irresistible, not only in the natural environment, but also in the social environment, where the social culture also has a suggestive effect on us.

When you live on the Loess Plateau, your mentality is also in tune with the Loess Plateau.

4] Repeating a thought often produces beliefs, which in turn become unwavering. This belief can be good or bad. People who often say suicide are likely to commit suicide, people who often say they are breaking up are likely to break up, and people who often say divorce are likely to get divorced.

I don't want that, if it's serious.

You can't joke and poke each other's sore spots, you can't joke about each other's family, you can't make jokes about each other's predecessors, you can't joke about the deceased, you can't joke about each other's brothers or girlfriends, etc., you must respect each other.

When you are in love, don't mention anything about your ex, especially don't say that you miss each other very much or hail orange when you're in love, I often joke about breaking up because of a trivial matter, although it's a joke, but the other party may take it seriously, and don't keep saying that someone else's is good, especially don't say good things about someone else's boyfriend.

First of all, don't poke at the other party's sore spots, and you must learn to praise and respect the other party, don't joke about his family or his family stool, and his previous emotional experience, and learn to communicate with the other party.

Women and men, that's the agent of this world. In this world, we always have so many worries and so many beautiful dreams. We are in this world, and we know that affection is the best hope between people.

Since we are in this world, we must always be warm, and we must always have a stable belonging to the world. We are in this world, and we are always looking forward to the end of life. Therefore, everyone has so many expectations for relationships.

We want us to be the good ones in life, we want to be the ones who are treated favorably by God, but we find that sometimes, God is joking with you. You know, if you don't plan to "get along" with the other person, it's best not to make this kind of joke

What do you think of me.

We are good friends, and on the road of life, we know that good friends are the most beautiful beings we see. We are in this world, we always like to be lively, so we have so many pot friends walking in our lives all the time. Male friends, females.

Same-sex friends, opposite-sex, this is our life. But you have to know that sometimes, there are some things that cannot be said among the opposite sex. What do you think of me, it's going to be misleading.

I like you so much.

Love, that's the easiest word in the world. Love, that's one of the most beautiful words we see in the world. Because of love, our old days have happiness that can be recalled.

Because of love, our little days have a mystery that can be recalled. But Dan is loved, but not to anyone. Between the opposite sex, I like you so much, it is often misleading.

We don't have to try.

In this world, feelings are indispensable in everyone's life. However, we live well in this world, and we know that feelings are not the eternal companion of everyone's life. Sometimes, we are all on the road to finding feelings, because feelings are not so casual and rush into our daily lives.

But you know, the opposite sex, we don't have to try that, don't make such jokes.

If you don't plan to fall in love with the other party, don't easily answer some requests or wishes from the other party, otherwise it will bring the code to both parties to be injured, and the result is very bad.

If the other party is a girl, don't easily say that I will marry you, in this case, the other party is likely to believe that it is true, but you have not made an actual move, so the girl's favor towards you will be greatly reduced.

Then you should not make jokes about getting together or getting married, because it is irresponsible to the other person, and you will become very, unhappy.

Two people in a relationship should respect each other and respect each other's family and friends. As long as it's built on mutual respect, there's nothing that can't be joked about. <>

Speaking of which, I am reminded of an incident that happened to a colleague of mine. Her boyfriend took her to meet his family, and it was the boy's grandmother's birthday. During the meal, a large family sat around a large table, and the boy said to his girlfriend that he wanted to eat pot wrapped meat, and asked my colleague to clip it for him.

Speaking of which, I think boys don't care about their girlfriends anymore, but more excessiveness is still to come. When she stood up to serve him food, her boyfriend took the chair behind her, and when she did, she sat down on the floor, and the whole family laughed. His boyfriend said:

I want everyone to have fun. I can't go on more. Later, my colleague didn't get angry, just said that you are too annoying, and continued to eat.

I wonder how there is such a man? Is your girlfriend shameless? How can you be so disrespectful?

Doesn't it feel like a shame to live in a family with such an atmosphere? Why can't my colleagues see such a family clearly? Why be with such men, I don't think I have any more words to describe them.

Joking really has to know the appropriate way, and the appropriate joke can enhance the relationship between two people, just like a boy saying: If I choose again, I won't choose to be with you, I think you are too good, I don't deserve to be with you at all.

In fact, behind every joke, there is an attempt to express a true idea.

A relationship must be done out of respect, not to insult the other person's personality.

Not only when you are in love, but also in many interpersonal interactions and jokes in life, you must grasp a certain scale, and you can't joke unscrupulously without a bottom line, and joke about the other party's shortcomings as talking points.

Especially when you are in love, you care very much about the other party's evaluation and feelings about yourself, and you care very much about the other party's words and deeds. We don't like people who don't like us, or who see our own shortcomings.

So if my boyfriend tells me that my ** often has acne and ** is in a particularly bad state, I will definitely be very unhappy. Because girls like others to praise their good looks. Although I am born to look good, I will never allow others to say that I am not beautiful.

After a long time, my boyfriend knows what he cares about the most, so if the other party jokes about something he cares about very much, I will definitely have a cold face right away.

Just like a lot of articles I read on the Internet, female friends also can't laugh at their boyfriend's poor sexual performance, Tintin is particularly short, and a series of other aspects about himself, he will also get angry and think that you don't love him. If he is shorter, you can't laugh at him for being shorter, in short, don't joke about the other party's shortcomings!

And don't talk about your idols. For example, many girls like Lu Han, but many boys say that Lu Han is a special girl, and then laugh at him. Your idol, even if it is your boyfriend, will never allow others to ridicule him, because he is like his own faith, laughing at your faith, will you be happy?

And parents who have information about each other can't comment. It's a very emotional thing, and if you joke about your elders, it will make people think that you are particularly rude, disrespectful to your parents, and you don't know how to take measure.

I think when two people are together, don't talk about the past, the past is all in the past, what you need to face now is the present and the future, although sometimes it's really just a joke, but it will make both people feel a little uncomfortable.

I used to have a boyfriend who always liked to ask me about some things in the past, I really don't want to ask these questions, whether it's good or bad, it's a thing that has already happened, I don't need to keep mentioning it, it's also very annoying, sometimes he sees my face is bad and will say oh, what's a joke, what I hate the most is joking in advance.

When I'm with my boyfriend, I don't ask each other too much about how it was before, even if there is a bad one, it's his past, what I will have is his present and future, I think the past is respected, should it be joked? The most annoying thing about two people together is to be in advance.,And there's comparing yourself with your ex.,I'm really speechless.,Is there any comparison?

One of the most bizarre questions my boyfriend has ever asked me is to ask me if I love him more or love my ex more, I really don't know how to go to him to be satisfied, I can only say that no matter which boyfriend I am with, I use sincerity, I don't say who I love more, who I love less, if I don't love then why are we together, I really say this kind of nonsense, take it out and ask is nothing to say, he especially likes to compare himself with his ex, I don't know if he wants me to love him more, In this way, you can find a sense of presence.

I couldn't help it later, so I talked to him, and I said please don't always make comparisons in advance or just jokingly, it's really annoying, don't be a disgusting person.

This can't be generalized, it still has to be divided into people and love stages. Anyway, in the beginning, try to lean on the strengths of the other person (whether male or female) and the common hobbies of the two people.

Joke: Give her 400 when you're done

Consequences: She habitually looks for you 50

M: I know all about what you've done before

F: Divide it!