Why do you face a breakup after graduation?

After graduation, many people choose to return to their own city, and leaving the city naturally means breaking up.

Because graduation has to face a lot of practical problems, first of all, whether the two have the same idea, whether they have the opportunity to go to the same city to avoid long-distance relationships, there will be many practical problems, if it is true love, it should not be affected.

One of the big reasons is that each of them has to look for a job, and then they may be separated.

Because after graduation, some people choose to develop in big cities, and some people choose to return to their hometowns, and the differences in geography during this period are the culprits that lead to the breakup.

Long-distance is a very realistic and difficult problem to solve, both parties may be in a long-distance relationship because of work, and very few can stick to a long-distance relationship, so they will face a breakup as soon as they graduate.

After graduating, the planning of the two people is different, and the people they meet in the place of work are also different. If you are not firm enough, many factors can lead to a breakup, and college graduates consider getting married in the future. If the boy has no money, he can't give the future.

Everyone says that love in school is the purest because there is no need to think about material things. When I was a student, I had living expenses every month, and my life was very nourishing. When you graduate and enter the society, it is impossible to continue to gnaw at the old people, you can no longer stretch out your hands with clothes, you can open your mouth with food, and the society is so cruel that love can't be eaten.

In the final analysis, people are not mature enough and love is not strong, but I really want to laugh, what's so heartbreaking, can't I see that people and feelings are problematic? Their rupture is due to selfishness, irresponsibility, and immaturity, not to flying misfortune, birth, old age, sickness and death. Two people who can run in completely, don't run in, don't grow, can't take responsibility, can't understand, that kind of love can only be called a playhouse.

Every couple has different reasons for breaking up. Some of them are because they are in different places, some of them are not sincere because they are just looking for someone to accompany them in college, some of them are because there are many differences of opinion when they are facing work, and some of them happen to be separated at that time, all of them, which is normal.

In the four years of college, there was no consideration for the future, nor did I think about the future, let alone the foreshadowing of the future. Therefore, most couples will only struggle with the question of "where to go in the future and who will compromise for whom" when they graduate, and the confusion of not being able to find employment + the conflict between two people is not compromised, which can easily lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Many couples fall in love in college, and at most they can only run in their personalities, but not their three views, habits, and even their families.

Therefore, when I really want to talk about the development of this relationship after graduating from college, I can think: "There is a big gap between our three views, our family backgrounds are different, and our living habits cannot be run-in" In the past, it was possible to drag on for a day, and if you can not think about it, you don't think about it, but now it is really time to face these problems and solve them urgently, and most people will give up because of the difficulty. Instead of spending time and energy to deal with it, it is better to change to another one that does not need to be tangled.

First of all, a relationship in college doesn't need to think too much about material things, think about the future. And when it comes to graduation, two people may have different future plans, for example, one wants to be in his hometown, and the other wants to go out to work hard. Couples who are away from campus tend to feel more direct material pressures and have more conflict.

Secondly, a lot of college students fall in love just for the sake of falling in love. Choosing to be with this person is not because he (she) has to be, but it feels good to have such a boyfriend (or girlfriend), which not only satisfies his emotional needs, but also makes himself not appear abrupt in the environment of college love. So this kind of relationship can't last under the pressure of society at all.