How to stop yourself from having a crush on a girl

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Suppress it. Can it be done?

    What a beautiful thing it is for a boy to have a crush on a girl! Why stop yourself? It's an impulse in the heart that can't be stopped. So, how to solve this problem?

    Since you can't stop it, you just want to go on. I mean, you can't go back, just go forward.

    What does that mean? When I think of what I want most, I don't want to. The extremes of things must be reversed.

    If, after a while, your crush on her remains, then be brave and tell her. You don't have to be in a relationship with her, but at least say it and it will feel better, even if she doesn't accept you.

    Also, I think you should figure out if your affection is only for her. I don't doubt your sincerity.

    When I was your age, I didn't like people older than me to say, 'I came from your time, whatever.'" But, now I find out that they were actually right. So I hope you don't get tired of what I say, at least I'm sincere.

    I also had a crush on girls when I was your age :) I found out later that I had a lot of girls. In other words, my liking was really just an instinctive feeling for the opposite sex.

    Of course, this cannot be miscalculated, on the contrary, we should be happy. Because our sexual orientation is normal.

    Finally, I wish you a speedy solution to this trouble. Try to concentrate on your studies. In the days to come, you will get the love you deserve as a girl!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Can you imagine that when there is a big flood, you use something to block the water?

    Of course, the water cannot be blocked, it can only be dredged.

    It's like love, you can't stop when real feelings come, like is like, but you're young now, most of your current likes are just a curiosity, you said it yourself, you don't even know her name, so you can't talk about love at all.

    I think what you need most now is to get to know her, understand her, and slowly, you will find that in fact, she has a lot of shortcomings, after all, no one is perfect, she may not be the type you like at all, and you can concentrate on learning at that time.

    However, when you get to know her, you have to be bold and let go a little. I wish you to calm down and study hard as soon as possible, and I also wish you success in your studies.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Go with the flow, don't keep thinking about things like "forget her", do what you need to do, and don't deliberately do superfluous things. If you can't do it, say to yourself: She is my sister, she is my sister, she is my sister and say it a few more times

    It will definitely work (I am above).

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Take the initiative to talk to her, and the two of you will get to know each other, and it should be noted that you have to talk to her with the attitude of making friends, and don't have distracting thoughts.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's very simple, think about other people's bad.

    For example, imagine people picking their nostrils, constipation, and so on.

    That's what I used to do for boys who couldn't possibly, and it worked, depending on whether you want to or not.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no warning when love comes, the flame of love is higher than the sky, don't stop it, don't suppress it, if you want to love, do it, let's be a big problem.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want your girlfriend to have a good impression of you, you must first be yourself, work hard and work hard, be responsible and responsible, have a regular life, have a good character, and both parties have a common language, so that your girlfriend has a good impression of you. Bright locust.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To make girls have a good impression of themselves, it is recommended that you do the following:

    First, you must do what you like. First of all, you must understand what girls like, what they pursue, and what their ambitions are, and then do what they like and care about, so that girls will definitely have a good impression of you.

    Second, you must understand girls. Girls most want to have a boy who understands herself, including her temper, personality, what she loves, what she hates, and what she thinks in her heart. If you can do that, girls will have a crush on you.

    3. Be able to attract girls. Your appearance, character, work performance or academic performance, conduct and other aspects are different, which can attract the attention of girls. Girl Zheng Yinjie will have a good impression of you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Clause. 1. Improve your financial ability. As long as you can bring happiness and enough material things to the other person, and can solve many problems for her in life, the girl will like you.

    Clause. 2. Be a neat boy. As long as you clean up and know how to dress up, girls will like you.

    Clause. 3. Be a humorous person. Girls like the kind of boys who can make her happy, as long as you have enough humor, all girls will be happy, and they will like you.

    In short, let girls like you, just start to be a positive boy.

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