How does it feel to not go out to work for a long time?

I don't go out to work for a long time, as if I have derailed from society, and I feel that I am very useless and have not shared the family's financial expenses.

If you don't go out to work for a long time, you will become lazy, depressed, and eventually live a chaotic life.

If I don't go out to work for a long time, I feel like I'm out of touch with society, and I feel very useless.

In addition to the strange eyes of relatives and friends, the most serious thing is that I can't keep up with the pace of society.

Slowly I became an otaku, and I was very afraid of contact with people outside, and I lost my self-confidence and social skills.

If there is no work, there is no income, and the most direct thing is that the economic adaptability is weakened, and the longer the time you do not work, the more your savings will be consumed, which will lead to the occurrence of living difficulties.

Slowly, they become more and more lazy, unwilling to contact society, and just want to stay at home.

I was depressed for a long time, and my relatives and friends came to persuade and introduce the job, and I was in a very bad state at that time, and I often left my job after a day or two, and changed more than a dozen jobs in a few months, especially in the previous month, when I arrived at the place of work, I retreated, and sometimes I didn't go to work directly. Under the persuasion of relatives, I slowly came into contact with more people, and my mentality slowly changed, and I was able to go to work normally. Looking back now, I don't know how I survived at that time, and I have always relied on the help of relatives and friends around me.

The impact of not working for a long time can really make people depressed into their own little world and derailed from the outside world.

I think the first thing is that I have no financial income, I have to rely on others, I lack independence, and I also cause burdens and troubles to my family and friends, which is easy to cause family disharmony. ‍‍

From the individual level, the physiological level is due to the lack of work for a long time, the reduction of exercise during the day leads to sleeping late at night, and it is difficult to fall asleep after sleeping, and it is easy to get neurasthenia in the long run. At the psychological level, with the prolongation of the non-working state, the desire for work and the desire to change the status quo will gradually appear, but they will always be suppressed by the idea of not working, and they will be depressed, and they will not be able to do anything.

I feel that the economy can affect my position in the family. No job, no income, although my husband's money is also my own money, I can use it if I want, but I don't earn it myself, and I don't feel so angry when I use it. Your in-laws may also think that you have eaten and drunk for nothing.

I haven't been to work for a long time, and I feel that my mind is slow to react or something. It may be that there is less contact with people, and I feel that my thinking and everything are half a beat slower. Got stupid.

In the end, I feel that I still have to go to work when I have the opportunity, not only to work, but also to improve myself in all aspects. Realize self-worth. This is to be responsible for his own life, and it is also a good example for the child, and when the child grows up, it will not make him feel that his mother is useless and will not do anything.

As a housewife who has not worked for more than three years, being without a job for a long time is, first of all, anxious, irritable. Not long after getting married, I got pregnant, and then I resigned and didn't go to work. At first, I thought it was pretty good, and I just eat, drink and have fun all day long.

Later, I gave birth to a child and brought all kinds of sadness to the child, and I couldn't leave as soon as I wanted, which was very annoying! All day long or even all year round, I am entangled in the trivial matters of the children's family, which is laborious and time-consuming, and I can't see any sense of achievement, and I always feel very depressed in my heart! From time to time, I feel like getting angry, which is very annoying.

Long-term non-work leads to a decreasing trend in social interaction, cognitive bias in the standard of judging oneself by others, and at the same time, it will gradually find that the judgment of things around oneself will be biased, and even gradually the cognition is out of touch with society, and social adaptation will also be disordered.

If you don't work for a long time, your interpersonal resources will be exhausted without follow-up replenishment and friendship. In addition, if you don't work and interact with people for a long time, you are prone to lack conversation and your own opinion reserves on social hot issues, and you are usually unable to answer when interacting with people, and the content of the conversation is drifting away, and your social skills are impaired.

As someone who hasn't been to work for 5 months,My point is that not going to work is not the same as not being motivated.

So during the period when I was not working, I didn't completely lie down and rot, I was a reporter for provincial TV stations and the new editor-in-chief, and I am currently living in Dali while operating my own businessGondola in sojourn".。My experience of being away from work for a long time is as follows:

First, it's really fun not to go to work!

Needless to say, when you don't go to work, there are no KPIs and involution, and people will really become happy and easy! I used to work in a first-tier city, and with a small team, I needed to manage upwards and downwards, and I needed to be responsible for the children recruited, the company, and myself.

On days when you don't go to work, you only have to be responsible for yourself. Of course, this requires a certain amount of self-motivation and a sense of purpose, allowing yourself to enjoy the moments when you are not at work, and gradually planning your next steps. Otherwise, after a short period of happiness, it is easy to enter the stage of emptiness and confusion.

Second, the income is really unstable!

In the first three months of not working, I allowed myself to do only what I loved, and adjusted my body and mind without thinking about cash and income. But from the fourth month onwards, I need to think about my income**. While living in Dali while doing self-improvement, due to the professional foundation, my ** content has been favored by individual businesses, I chose a few reliable and favorite businesses to cooperate, but also refused to disagree with some of the cooperation.

After all, isn't this the fun of freelancing without going to work, you can be your own master.

At the same time, such a choice also means income instability. It is not a lot of work, nor is it a fixed salary, but an unstable income mixed with fate, luck, strength, hard work and other factors.

So during this period, it is necessary to have a good mental state and long-term planning, deposit reserves, and so on. It is normal to make ends meet at the beginning, but as long as it is a firm choice and persistence, I believe it will get better and better in the future.

Thirdly, there is really freedom to work when and where you want to work!

is still the same sentence, not going to work does not mean not working, but when you want to work, you want to work in **, you have the final say! It doesn't matter if you're used to taking a nap and working quietly at night, or waking up in the morning to work and going to bed early, you can do it. I live by the sea, and I have to go to the beach for a walk or bike for a while every day, so the working hours depend entirely on the mood of the day, but the list of the day is basically completed.

The freedom of work place is even happier, sometimes writing on the balcony of the inn, tired and looking up at the clouds; Sometimes bring a picnic mat and computer to the beach, blow the sea breeze and wait for the sunset; Sometimes you can go to your friends and work together to get busy.

Of course, if you also want to take a long time off workYou'd better be someone who is self-motivated, purposeful, and planned, otherwise you will really become a young man who lies flat Lying down for a short time, it is easy to lie down for a long time and not get up ......

If you don't go to work for a long time, you will become loose and lack motivation.

It will be disconnected from society and the workplace, and there will be no income.

1.Get used to being at ease.

If you don't go to work for a long time, you will gradually get used to living a comfortable and relaxed life at home, and you don't want to go back to the workplace to live a stressful life. Because you don't go to work for a long time, the pace of life will also become slow, and once you get used to a comfortable life, it will be difficult to return to the workplace.

2.Just want to stay in your comfort zone.

Originally, I worked hard in the workplace, on the one hand, because the company's attendance system was restricted, and on the other hand, because of the competitive environment in the workplace, so I went to work every day on time. If you get out of the high-pressure environment of the workplace and don't go to work for a long time, people will become unruly, how to be comfortable, after all, the environment determines people. In addition, the home itself is a relaxing environment, a place of rest, if you do not go to work for a long time, people will become lazy, lack motivation and life goals, and then get used to the comfort zone, and do not want to return to the workplace.

3.Disconnected from society.

If a person does not go to work for a long time, he will be out of the orbit of society and ignorant of the world, which means that he is out of the living environment of the workplace, and he is not aware of the changes in society and the changes in the workplace. Correspondingly, there will be limitations in people's cognitive level, and the establishment of values will also be deeply affected by the ideas of family members, if this is the case for a long time, in fact, it will do more harm than good, so it is necessary to realize that this is a problem early and try to change the status quo.

4.Returning to the workplace is difficult.

Once you have left the workplace, people's concept of time is gradually weakened, and they will be more casual in doing things, and their action will slow down, after all, there is no supervision and urging of leaders at home, so everything comes from the heart, and if you want to do it, it doesn't matter, as long as you are comfortable and energetic. If you are accustomed to living a comfortable and casual life at home, it will be difficult to make changes and return to the workplace, because the energy and motivation that used to work hard have been smoothed out by a comfortable life, and you don't want to go back to a high-pressure and stressful workplace life.

If you don't go to work for a long time, you will be out of touch with society and have nothing to do all day.

Nothing to do, no goal.

First, it will lead to individuals not having a fixed economic income**, which will lead to poor living and unable to meet personal needs, which is one of the biggest consequences of long-term absence.

As we all know, work is the foundation of each of us, and only when we have a job can we have an income and maintain a normal life.

If you don't work for a long time, it means that you can't get a regular income, and you can't get a consistent income for a long time.

In this context, without a fixed income and a sustained and stable income, it will have a relatively large impact on one's life.

Just like during the epidemic, many people have no job, no income, and their lives are very poor, they can't buy what they want to buy, they can't eat what they want to eat, and they can't go where they want to go.

Therefore, it will not only affect your own quality of life, but also affect your personal development, which is a direct consequence of long-term absence from work, and it is also one of the most serious consequences.

Second, long-term non-work will lead to a long-term loss of contact in one's interpersonal relationships, which is not conducive to social communication and personal development, which is a far-reaching impact brought about by long-term non-work.

Not working for a long time will change the individual's temperament, especially when the social circle of life becomes only oneself and family, will lose a lot of fun, will lose a lot of resources, will lose a lot of opportunities for life development.

In this context, it will not only affect the development of the individual, but more importantly, it will also affect the future education and enrollment of children and their future development.

After all, a person can only develop if he is a social person, and if he is a single individual, he cannot exist for a long time. If you don't communicate with people for a long time, don't deal with each other, and don't have a circle of colleagues, then your knowledge will become narrow, and your vision will become narrow, and you will not be able to meet the needs of rapid economic and social development in any case, and you are likely to be eliminated by the society over time.

Third, long-term non-work will lead to a decline in one's professional ability and professional ability, and affect the ability to re-employ in the future, which is a relatively serious consequence caused by long-term non-work.

As we all know, practice brings true knowledge, practice is an important way to improve skills and increase talents, if you don't go to work for a long time, it is equivalent to a knife that is not used for a long time, it will rust.

If you don't use knowledge, it will rust, your mind will become dull if you don't use it, and you will be forgotten if you don't use your profession, so only people who often use their knowledge and use their professional ability to do things can be more flexible and have the strength to develop.

After all, if you don't go to work, you will lack the motivation to learn, and if you don't go to work, you will lack the application of professionalism, and over time, with the development of the times, especially the rapid progress of science and technology, you will not be able to use your original professional knowledge and business capabilities.