What do you think about people who don t want to trouble others?

Such people are so kind-hearted. He will help you with anything you ask him to help you with and will be grateful to others.

I don't usually bother people unless I have to.

I'm like this, it seems that if I ask for help from others, I will owe people a lot of favors, and the kind that can't be repaid is better than doing it myself to be efficient and happy.

It's either that you're not confident in yourself or you're not confident in your relationship.

If you can do a lot of things yourself, it's best not to bother others, because everyone has their own pressures. Life is not easy.

They would never ask for help unless they had to, they thought it was troublesome and shameful. At the same time, they are also resentful of others asking for their help. Over time, the anti-dependency will become a lone ranger in the eyes of others.

For this kind of person, they will not ask others for help, even if they understand that the other person can help them, but they still prefer to put in more effort to achieve a certain goal.

In fact, I think that friendships between friends are troublesome, and not wanting to trouble may be not very friendly.

People like me are the kind of people who are still in a dilemma most of the time.

Such people are more self-reliant, like to solve their own things, and don't like to trouble others, which is also good, but it may be a bit of a drill, and a matter will be entangled for a long time.

Thin-skinned, with a heavy sense of gratitude, afraid of owing others favors, and will not open his mouth to others until he has to. Sentimental and suspicious, afraid of being rejected and looked down upon by others.

I like to look at problems from the other person's point of view, and think about others in everything. He has a strong sense of responsibility, cares about the causal connection between things, and is afraid that his appeal will cause other adverse consequences.

They try to avoid asking others for help, and even when they have to, they feel intense embarrassment and shame. In the same way, they do not want others to depend on them, because in their eyes, dependence itself is shameful, and their own affairs should be solved by themselves, not by others. For the average person, it is heartwarming to receive help from others, but for those who are dependent and incompetent, accepting help is equivalent to acknowledging one's own weakness and powerlessness.

The feeling of inferiority to the other person being in a high position and in a low position and in need of someone else to "give" them can stab their self-esteem and even make them disgusted with themselves. This is the reason why they would rather hold on than trouble others.

Don't be reckless, people with strong abilities also need help from others, and maybe they can learn something different from it, so that they can progress.

I feel that I am troublesome to others, and I feel that I should be unworthy. Or, you feel that you are worth something that you shouldn't bother others. In fact, in essence, this kind of psychology is a lack of self-worth and a kind of inferiority.

If a person is never willing to trouble others, then he will need to be alone to do things alone, and over time, he is very independent but also lonely, he enjoys solitude and occasionally fears solitude. He is also often an honest man who does what he says and has strong self-esteem. Always carry it alone, how hard it is, you look for others to help, and then when others are in difficulty, you help him, so that in the mutual troubles, a relationship is strengthened by exercise, and sometimes these so-called "rituals" are needed to get in touch with people and the world outside, so that people will live happily.

I don't bother you, and you don't bother me The concept of social interaction has gradually emerged among the younger generation and has become a common mentality in modern society. This concept affects young people's lifestyles, values, and interpersonal relationships, especially with the rise of digital social networking**.

1.Self-independence and free consciousness. With the progress of society and the emancipation of people's minds, the younger generation attaches more importance to self-independence and free consciousness.

They believe that everyone should have their own space and way of being, and are not willing to be forcibly intervened or constrained. As a result, they tend to adopt a social mindset of "I don't bother you, and you don't bother me" to retain a certain degree of freedom for themselves.

2.Busy modern life. The pace of modern life is accelerating, and people's work and life pressure has increased significantly.

When young people are faced with complicated work and life tasks, their time and energy are very limited, and it is difficult to take on too much social pressure and obligations. As a result, they will be more inclined to follow the social concept of "I don't bother you, and you don't bother me" to reduce their burden as much as possible.

3.Prefer virtual socializing. With the development of Internet technology, virtual social networking has gradually become an important form of social interaction for young people.

This way of socializing is not limited by geography and time, making people more free and comfortable. In virtual socialization, people are also more tolerant of the alarm wheel and easy to follow the principle of "I don't trouble you, and you don't trouble me", avoiding too much interaction and interference.

4.Shifts in social values. With the development of social, economic and cultural development, people's values are also changing.

When young people look at social relationships, they place more emphasis on equality, mutual benefit and rational cooperation, and no longer emphasize emotional and emotional factors as before. Therefore, the social concept of "I won't trouble you, and you won't trouble me" is more in line with their values.

In short, the social concept of "I don't bother you, and you don't bother me" is indeed gradually emerging among the younger generation, and this social mode more or less reflects their self-independence, free consciousness and change of values. However, for the most critical interpersonal relationship, there is still a need for a certain amount of trust, sincerity and care.

Because I am afraid that I will not be able to help others when they need to help them, and I am even more afraid that I will give too much.

I don't bother you, and you don't bother me" This social concept is not new, but a relatively common social norm. It emphasizes the principles of mutual respect and self-preservation, especially with regard to personal privacy and free will.

However, in modern society, as the younger generation grows up and the internet becomes more popular, this social concept may become more popular. This is because young people are more concerned about personal privacy and freedom, and are more inclined to think independently and make their own decisions. They don't like to be disturbed or interfered with by others, nor do they like to interfere in other people's affairs, and prefer to maintain an appropriate distance and degree of freedom.

Of course, this does not mean that young people do not value social and interpersonal relationships, on the contrary, they pay more attention to the values of equality and mutual assistance. They are more willing to build genuine relationships rather than simply take advantage and exchange. Therefore, the change in social attitudes may be more of a development and progression than a negative trend.