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That's because you didn't work hard enough, so you weren't good at anything, so you didn't live the way you wanted. It's better to make some changes, learn what you love, and work hard.
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I think this is a normal phenomenon, is the time limit you give yourself too short, five years, how can you live as you want to live?
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Don't worry, you should have your own plan, try your best to do it, even if it won't be perfect, but don't deviate a lot, don't have high requirements for yourself.
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It's been more than ten years since I graduated, and I haven't lived the way I want to be.
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Then change yourself from now on, let yourself metamorphose, and become what you like.
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If you don't live the way you want, you work hard to change. Go find the life you love.
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In fact, like you, I don't feel like I want to live like I want to live, and this world is so cruel.
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It's the same as me, but after all, I've been through a lot, and I've grown a little. Entrepreneurship has just begun, so let's work hard.
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5 years is not a long time, give yourself a few more years to see if you can live like yourself.
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If you have such an idea, it may be that you are not very clear about one of your goals, lack a certain positive attitude towards life, and need you to set a reasonable goal for yourself, and then continue to move towards this goal.
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Imagination and reality are different, many things are involuntary, but not being able to live as you want may be too young, or you may imagine life too beautiful.
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Many people are like this, you have to learn to compromise with reality, and try to live what you want, as long as you do your best and have a clear conscience.
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Then don't think about anything, do the things of the moment, read and study well, although doing so will not necessarily make you live as you want, at least your heart will not be as helpless as now, learning can make yourself psychologically sustenance, have goals, as long as you persist one day you will live what you want.
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But this is also the path I chose, and I still have to grit my teeth and struggle step by step. Life, as unsatisfactory as it is, is not a reason for us to run away.
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At this time, I still hope that I can work hard to turn the current situation around, and I may choose to start anew, study hard, and become the best person.
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You can calm down and think about it for yourself, and then make a clear plan for your future, and face life with a positive and optimistic attitude.
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Although there is no regret medicine in the world, you can learn what you want to learn, and through perseverance, you can live as you want to live.
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I may conduct a deep introspection, because it has been five years, and there is no certain result of hard work, and my heart is really full of loss.
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