Would you mind if your partner is disabled?

If it's me, it's in two cases.

If the unexpected partner is disabled, he or she will continue to do so because of feelings, commitments, ties and responsibilities.

If you are unmarried and have no development partner, and the other party's disability does not affect the situation of self-care, such as lameness and other minor diseases, it depends on whether the two people can have feelings; If it is a serious illness, such as amputation, it is impossible, if there is a probability, it is also that the other party's economic conditions are good enough to support the future, good enough for me, not hereditary (some disabilities will be inherited), because I am just an ordinary person, and my family background is also very ordinary, and I do not discriminate against people with disabilities, but I must consider the actual life, whether human and material resources can support me to go on, and who can support and share with me when my parents are old?

I don't know under what circumstances this question is raised, but what I want to say is that if disability is an established fact, then you have to accept this state, and you have to accept the differential treatment of others against you, everyone has different life circumstances, has their own considerations and trade-offs, and you can't demand others with your own standards.

Moreover, when it comes to differential treatment, it is not only physical disabilities, but also because of mediocre appearance, insufficient height, poor family background, insufficient education, gender differences...Everyone can be treated differently, and this is the norm in society.

The important thing is to keep your heart strong, even if others mind or even ridicule and insult, if there is no actual nuisance, if you don't mind, who can hurt you.

At any time, learn more, strengthen yourself, let your heart grow, and encourage each other.

I think you must not go back to consider disability when you are looking for a partner, then you have become your other half, then he must have touched you or you love him very much, then you will mind, probably not! In fact, a person's physical disability does not mean that the person's mental disability is disabled, but if he thinks that he is disabled himself, or even feels inferior, then he must be disabled, because the power of the mind is terrible. I wish you all happiness and happiness for a lifetime!

I am a more rational person, and whether I can accept that the other half is disabled is divided into many situations.

If it was before marriage:

1. Look at the degree of disability, the type of disability, the reason for the disability, if it is just a disability that accidentally breaks a finger or toe, or other disabilities that do not affect life. And then the kind that is personally very good. You don't mind.

2. If it is a relatively large degree of disability, no matter how good it is, I will not consider it.

I think a lot, as a girl, if you marry a disabled person, you need to bear a lot of pressure, and you can't do it on your own to have a child or raise a child in the future, and the disabled person will also affect the physical and mental health of the child. And I don't believe in the steadfastness of love, my life is so long, in case I regret it then, if I want to divorce, it is the children who suffer, so I won't gamble.

If it is after marriage:

Whatever the situation, I wouldn't mind. Since you have chosen, you will definitely not abandon your other half because of your disability.

This depends on whether it is before or after marriage, if I am before marriage, maybe I am more concerned. Because when you are young, whoever falls in love cares more about each other's ability and appearance. But my other half's disability occurred after marriage, I won't care much about this, I will understand that this is the suffering that life gives us, and it is impossible for him to face everything alone, so I will face it with him!

Now most girls before marriage are more realistic, if the other half is disabled, don't say that you are more difficult at this level, and the same is true for your parents. In this society, there are really few pairs of parents who really let their children marry a disabled person, because although the disabled person is worthy of sympathy in their eyes, if they want to wronged themselves and be with each other, it is obviously a loss, and they will naturally still care!

If I am not married, and I like my other half very much, and his disability is not too serious, and it is not much of a problem to take care of myself and make money, then I naturally like it, and I don't have to worry about my parents, I will be responsible for my own life, and I will decide to love him for the rest of my life!

But if his disability affects his life, ability to earn money or ability to have sex, no matter how much I love him, I may give up, because I am a more rational person and a more realistic person. I knew that if the other half had a disability, the two of us wouldn't be able to get far. I may not have that much confidence in myself, I need to find someone who is trustworthy and better than me in terms of earning power, so that I dare to have confidence in life, or be selfish!

I think there are two situations in the married state, if the accidental partner is disabled, it will be easy to get online, because there are feelings, commitments, ties and responsibilities, if the unmarried is the development object of the other party's disability, does not affect the situation of self-care, such as lameness and other scenarios, it depends on whether the two people can have feelings, if it is a serious illness, such as paralysis, then it is most likely impossible, because I am just an ordinary person, and my family background is also very ordinary, and I do not discriminate against people with disabilities, but we must consider the actual life of manpower, I don't know under what circumstances this question was raised, whether the material resources can support me all the time, and who can support and share with me when my parents are old. I want to say yes. If disability is a given, then accept it.

Accept that others treat you differently. Everyone's life situation is different. They all have their own considerations and trade-offs.

You can't hold others to your own standards. And when it comes to differential treatment. Not only physical disabilities, but also because of mediocre appearance, lack of height, poor family background, and insufficient education.

Gender differences. Everybody will. It's possible.

Being treated differently is the norm in society. The important thing is to keep your heart strong, even if others mind, even if you are ridiculed and insulted. If there is no actual disturbance, if you don't mind.

Only can it hurt you? Learn more about yourself at all times. Let the heart.

Grow together.

This really doesn't mean discriminating against people with disabilities, seeing people with disabilities will do feel pity and want to help them, but if you really let the other half find a disabled person, many people will mind, and there are some normal people who don't care about their families, and friends who oppose finding people with disabilities may be true love, if you accidentally get disabled after marriage, you have to accept it, and you have to accept it if you don't accept it, <>

This really doesn't mean to discriminate against the disabled, seeing the disabled people will really feel pity and want to help them, but really let the other half find a disabled person Many people will mind, there are also some normal people who don't care about their families, friends oppose finding the disabled may be true love, if you accidentally get disabled after marriage, the other half is disabled, you have to accept it if you don't accept it, this really doesn't mean that you discriminate against the disabled, you will really feel pity when you see the disabled, and want to help them, But if you really let the other half find a disabled person, many people will mind, there are some normal people who don't care about their families, and friends oppose finding a disabled person may be true love, if you accidentally get disabled after marriage, the other half is disabled, and you have to accept it, this really doesn't mean to discriminate against the disabled, seeing the disabled people will indeed feel pity and want to help them, but if you really let the other half find a disabled person, many people will mind, and there are some normal people who don't care about their families, and friends who oppose finding a disabled person may be true love. If the other half is disabled after marriage, this is another story, if you don't accept it, you have to accept it, this really doesn't mean to discriminate against the disabled, you will really feel pity when you see the disabled, and you want to help them, but if you really let the other half find a disabled person, many people will mind, and there are some normal people who don't care about their families, and friends who oppose finding a disabled person may be true love, if you accidentally get disabled after marriage, you have to accept it, if you don't accept it, you have to accept it, this really doesn't mean that you discriminate against the disabled, you will really feel pity when you see the disabled, I want to help them, but if I really let the other half find a disabled person, many people will mind, and there are some normal people who ignore their families, and friends oppose finding a disabled person may be true love

Hello, it would be a lie to say that you don't care, if you are a sound person, you will not want to find a disabled person, because the inconvenience of the disabled person will also drag down their own life, if you have to serve a disabled person for a long time, how depressed and uncomfortable your heart is, a person's ability to bear is limited, and the general choice object is chosen on an equal basis, but there are exceptions, emotional events are difficult to say, as long as you like it, you can choose, no matter what kind of person he is, As long as you can pay your true feelings to care for him for a lifetime, and you can never give up for a lifetime, even if you are a disabled person, you can accept it if you can do it, if you can't do it, don't choose, because since you can't do it for a lifetime, don't hurt a disabled person, because it's not easy for him, and he can't be hurt for the second time, since he doesn't have the ability to care for her for a lifetime, don't choose to live with him for a lifetime, since you choose him, You have to stay with him for the rest of your life, and you have to think about it before deciding to wish you good luck, come on.

I can accept it, this is nothing, it's normal, as long as two people really love each other, and it has nothing to do with identity, I think lovers should get along as follows!

1. Rely on each other.

Since two people are together, if they want to get along for a long time, the most important thing is to trust and rely on each other. We are looking for someone to be able to face all the storms together, not all the storms are brought by the other party.

2. Understand each other.

It's true that there is no empathy in this world, but we can understand each other. When two people get along, they need to think about each other and don't impose their own will on each other. Only by understanding and tolerating each other can two people get along better.

3. Be tolerant of each other.

When two people are together, you should not only appreciate each other's strengths, but also tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. Everyone has their own habits and shortcomings, so don't just blame others. Two people are together to help each other and constantly improve themselves.

No matter what the other person has lacking, we must tolerate and accept, and then we will work together to change.

4. Respect each other.

If you sneak through your hand cracker today, and you take a peek at your phone, and you don't respect each other, it will inevitably cause a round of quarrels. Everyone has their own space and privacy, and knowing how to respect and protect each other's privacy is the greatest respect for each other, so that the emotional life can be more harmonious.

5. Praise each other.

Anyone likes to be praised by others, because it is an encouragement and recognition of the other person, and no one does not like to listen to good words, and complimenting each other can promote the relationship between the two very well.

All in all, having the misfortune of such a family, being the other party who will not be disabled is the right decision no matter what decision they make. As ordinary people, there is no need to point fingers, after all, it is their own decision. Have you ever thought about what you would do if you were to encounter such a thing?

If I really love him, and if he really loves me, I will consider continuing to be with him and take care of him, and if he gives up on himself because of his disability, I won't be too attached to him.

To be honest, this needs to look at what disability. Because there are really too few people who can carry out true love to the end in real life, it is up to me whether I will accompany or not, but if the other party asks for it, I will definitely not be comfortable.

As long as it is true love, no matter how the other party is, it will accompany you, if you are forced to be helpless, there is no way.

If my significant other is disabled, of course I will always be there for him, because I love him, so I am willing to sacrifice myself. To love him is to be with him all the time, no matter what happens to him.

My other half is disabled, and I have always been with him, after all, being able to become a husband and wife is a love cultivated in a previous life.

I'm sure I'll always be with him, and I can't abandon him just because the other half is disabled, it's immoral to do so.

I will always be there for him. Since we have come together, we need to overcome the difficulties together, not to leave the other half and walk away. Happiness and hardship are shared.

I will be there for him, although he is disabled, but my body is still intact and can do everything and take care of her

If my significant other is disabled, I will be with him in his toughest times, and if he is well, I will leave. I'm not really sure how long I'll be with him, but I'll be with him through the hardest times.

I've always felt that I'm not a very kind person, because I don't think kindness necessarily has any good results, let's tell a story of my own, I had a boyfriend before, he had a contagious disease, and it was very serious, when he just found out that he had a physical problem, he didn't go to see it and broke up with me, I don't know if I have a hole in my brain or what's wrong, I didn't agree to break up, first told his family on his own initiative, and he went to the hospital at the mandatory request of his family, Diagnosis is a very serious condition.

I didn't think about breaking up at all, I heard the doctor say that it will take at least one year, and it will take at least two or three years to get better, and I decided to go with him, during that time I basically urged him to go to the hospital every day for intravenous drips, he was afraid of pain, and I endured it when he got angry, and now I think about it like I'm really taking care of my son's mother, it's really heartbreaking! Anyway, I didn't give up when he was the most difficult, and stayed with him for a year, and then probably broke up because he really started to waste my feelings as a matter of course.

So I don't know if I'm going to do something stupid like this again. When a person is disabled, his mental state must be very bad, very irritable or very low, I may want to be a very understanding person at that time to help him, give him hope, relieve him, and accompany him all the way. But I really hope I don't want that, but I definitely want to give him financial and moral support, I can give him the joint property of the husband and wife I don't want anything, treat him, and then take care of him and accompany him through the saddest times, but in the end I will want to separate, because I will definitely be exhausted, since I have already experienced it, there is no way to beautify the cruelty of life.