If your partner is divorced, will you mind?

Won't mind! Divorced men and women have certain "advantages", after a marriage change, no matter what the reason, they (she) must have a calm thinking process, learn from the pain, and will definitely find out some reasons from the divorce. Remarriage will definitely take the initiative to develop strengths and avoid weaknesses, overcome the lessons of the failure of the original marriage, and cherish today's life more.

If it were me, I'd mind, and saying I don't mind is false. For an unmarried girl, her prince complex still exists. The other half has been married, and I still feel a pimple in my heart.

When you think about him walking the red carpet with you, having already walked with another woman before, the level of excitement can't be matched.

In fact, there is not much difference between divorce and falling out of love, the difference is that there is an extra book, an extra ceremony, and there may be more than one child, and there is no difference in others. Some people can't accept that the other party has been divorced in their hearts, as if they feel like this, the other party is inferior, or they feel that the other party is not perfect, but there may be few people who have really thought about another problem, it is possible that this person has only been in love once before marriage, and entered into marriage with this person, or it is possible that this person has only been in love once, two or three times, and those women or men who have not been married, although they have not been married, may have been in love seven or eight times or a dozen times.

Sometimes we can't look at a person's character to decide by divorce once, and even if some people have been divorced twice, it doesn't mean that the person is bad, we can only say that sometimes the luck is a little worse. Divorce is sometimes because two people have different ideas and tempers, but in fact, there is nothing wrong with this. Divorced people often have a failed marriage, so they will cherish their marriage more in the future, in fact, don't say that you dislike those who divorce, divorced people, especially women, are very sought-after, when you dislike others, others may have been chased by others.

There might be a little bit. But he doesn't particularly mind, but if he is divorced and has children, it may be a different matter. After all, if he is just divorced, he will know more about marital feelings, and maybe it will be easier to get along.

I am an insecure person, and I always feel that my heart is more restrictive, and it is difficult to accept that he has a history of marriage. At the same time, I think that a man who has been married, his expectations and longing for marriage are not like men who have not experienced marriage, and those who have been divorced already know too well whether they will be like water, just want to find someone to serve him, or to find a stepmother for his children. Being a stepmother is the hardest thing in the world, so for people like me, I definitely know the difficulties and retreat, and I don't want to be as tired as a spy.

Truth be told, if I were a single woman who had never been married, I wouldn't be looking for a divorced man. Even if this divorced man is very good to me, very good, very rich, very powerful, and can provide me with a worry-free life, I will still not provoke, not ambiguous, not approach, and completely refuse.

Don't say I'm narrow-minded, but I actually mind that my partner has a history of marriage. As the saying goes: a slap doesn't make a sound. A failed marriage is related to both parties, and the blame cannot be placed solely on either party.

Because some divorced people will have higher requirements, they can't objectively look at themselves and know themselves, which can easily lead to a situation where the high is not low or not. Therefore, there are many divorced people who have found it difficult to find the right other half! This requires a good adjustment of your mentality and cognition, otherwise it will be difficult to find the ideal other half!

Because few people are willing to marry someone who has been divorced together, people who have been married to someone else will be at a disadvantage in finding a partner.

That's because many people are very concerned that their other half has a marriage history, and no one wants their other half to be married for the second time.

Because divorced people are very realistic, they will not invest a lot in this relationship, which makes it difficult for them to find a suitable other half.

This is because divorced people are often hurt a lot, and they don't have a special trust in marriage, and divorced people will also be disliked by others, so it is difficult to find a suitable other half.

Because divorced people have higher requirements for the other half in life, it is difficult to find the other half.

It is difficult for divorced people to find their other half, the main reason is that after experiencing a broken marriage, there is more shadow in this regard, there will be some fear, and the psychological pressure will be greater.

This is because divorced people generally have a shadow on marriage, and they can't get out of the influence of the first failed marriage on themselves, so they will increase their vigilance when they get married in the second marriage, and thus become more difficult to find a partner.

Everyone who chooses to divorce must be hurt in their marriage, so they have to consider more issues when starting a marriage again. After all, marriage has brought them pain, and it is not easy to find a new partner in this situation.

Because after the divorce, there was a state of distrust in the relationship, and because of the divorce, others have opinions about her, so it is difficult to find a suitable other half.

Because divorced people all know that people are sinister and know that the other party can't live together, it will be difficult to find a suitable other half.

Because the mood has changed, what is needed is a reliable person, not to get love, more afraid of finding the other half, and the requirements are also very strict.

Because divorced people will think about a lot of things, and these things will interfere with your choices very much. So it's hard to find another half.

It is because divorced people have experienced the sadness and happiness of two people in love in this marriage, so it will be very difficult to find the other half.

Because it is difficult for people to believe in feelings after divorce, and they feel that they have a failed marriage, they will be very cautious about the next relationship.

It is because they have lost their faith and they have lost their trust in their marriage after the experience of their previous marriage.

Because after experiencing a failed marriage, it is easy to be suspicious of bad people and not believe in marriage.

After the divorce, you will not leave a good impression on your other half, so it is very difficult to find a suitable other half.

For divorced people, it is difficult to find the other half of the reasonUnwilling to compromise any longer, the attitude will be more cautious; After experiencing a marriage, you are more aware of your needs; The bond of the child.

1. Unwilling to compromise, the attitude of choosing the other half is more cautious

People who have experienced a marriage are, emotionally speaking, equivalent to experiencing a frustration in life. They have been divorced for a long time, and they may still remember the damage that marriage caused them. When getting married, it is a joint decision made by two people who love each other, but they choose to separate due to various contradictions in the future, and the pain in the middle is not so simple to explain.

Therefore, many people can't figure out what the problem is, and even wonder if they are not suitable for marriage, or they don't know how to love someone at all. This kind of mentality makes them dare not love boldly anymore and are unwilling to open their hearts. Even if you meet someone who you have a little bit of a heart, you are more cautious in your attitude.

2. Be more aware of what you want

Divorced people will learn from their previous marriages and have a better understanding of what they really need. For example, in the first marriage, you may pay more attention to the other party's goodness to yourself and the relationship between two people who truly love each other. But after divorce, you will know that marriage is not only about love, but also about whether the personalities of the two people are suitable, the family environment of both parties, and the material conditions.

Therefore, when choosing the other half, you will also consciously use your own standards to consider whether this person is suitable or not.

3. The reason for the child

Personally, I think it is difficult to find a partner after divorce, and the biggest reason is still in the children. Many children cannot accept the divorce of their parents, and one of the parents quickly finds the other half. This is incomprehensible and unacceptable to young children.

Many parents also take into account their children's moods, fearing that they will affect their life and learning, so they dare not easily find a significant other, and may not think about it slowly until their children grow up.

Jiang Boquan believes that because some divorced people can't understand themselves objectively, especially some ladies, it often leads to a state of high and low. Therefore, some divorced people have a hard time finding their ideal partner!

Divorced people, who have experienced the failure of their previous marriage, generally do not remarry easily, because they know what harm marriage will bring to them, so they will not easily find a significant other.

Because the person who has been married to Li has already experienced love and marriage. They have come to understand the nature of love and marriage. So it's hard for them to want to go through these things anymore.

Why is it difficult for divorced people to find the other half of the lichen is that if there are children, then other people are unwilling to take on the responsibility of raising children, and the second divorced person is more realistic about marriage, not as much as at the beginning, if you want to talk about it, you will only be picky about marriage, and sometimes link is not too early. Dealt with.

Because in today's society, many people look at material conditions, and if you have been divorced, you are equivalent to a second marriage, which is already inferior to others.

Personally, I think that the reason why it is difficult for divorced people to find a significant other half is because very few people will find a divorced person to marry.

Because they have been hurt in their marriages, they will be more cautious and demanding in later marriages. But there are fewer marriageable people.

Because it has been hurt by feelings once, there will be psychological shadows, so I will no longer look forward to feelings, and I will not look for a partner again.

Because they have been hurt in their marriage, they dare not remarry easily, for fear of experiencing a failed marriage again.

Unacceptable, marriage is only once in a lifetime.

Unacceptable. Life goes on, work hard, live hard.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

What's so bad about a divorce if you like someone and can accept all of his divorces.

If you and your significant other are already divorced, you can also get married again if you meet someone you like. Even if some people have been married and divorced, they still have the right to pursue their own happiness, and after the divorce, many people will encounter their own happiness again and have a person who loves them very much.

People need to experience a lot of life before the first marriage, we don't have much experience in marriage, but after getting married, there will be a new change in married life, the relationship between two people before marriage may not be very good, and they don't know each other's specific situation very well, so they get married in a daze, but after marriage, all kinds of contradictions in life will break out, and two people often quarrel, which will lead to divorce between two people, if everyone divorces the other half, It is still possible to get married, divorced men or women also have the right to pursue their own happiness, maybe after experiencing a marriage, everyone will have another view on marriage, and then choose their own partner will think about a lot of things, then this time the partner may be more in line with everyone's mind, if you marry with the person you like or with the person you like, you will be very happy, even if you are a second marriage, it doesn't have much to do with it.

The current divorce rate is also relatively high, some people because of family reasons or other reasons and others did not meet a few times, so they went directly to get married, but after a period of time, they found that the personalities between the two people are not very compatible, and it is easy to have some contradictions, so they will divorce again, and the divorce rate in China is relatively high, and this situation is not very optimistic. I hope you must think twice before getting married, but if you are already divorced, you can continue to pursue your own happiness.