I m a college student, so why do I always have a lot of discomfort when I come to school from home?

You are too home-loving, coupled with the fact that the environment is unfamiliar (opposite to home), and the whole family revolves around you when you are at home, you are the center of the family's life. But when you get to school, you don't feel like you're the center. And one of my personal experiences is that I am very homesick when I eat, imagining that the food is prepared by my mother and served on the table at this time, and when I go back to school, I have to eat and queue up, and there is no good food at home, so I will be even more depressed.

Another reason is that your dormitories are more selfish, and the relationship is not very close, right? This can also cause this to happen.

Hehe, I'm about to graduate now, and I'm still in love with my family, so I can understand your feelings, but people always have to grow up, and there will always be a day when you leave your parents and go out on your own, so learn strongly, I believe you will be able to do it! Come on!

This is normal, because you are a family lover, you have a strong dependence on home, you think the food at home is delicious, even if it is not very good, you eat more than the school junk dishes, and the bed at home is more comfortable than the school, and at home you are facing the people you are most familiar with, when you get along with them, you are the most natural time, of course you will be a little uncomfortable when you leave the house suddenly, but it doesn't matter, when you get older, this feeling will disappear back a little bit, Because one day you will get married, you will always leave your parents, it doesn't matter, it will be fine to adjust, don't always think about these things, it is important to do what you should do in the new year.

Because, in the third year of high school, I worked very hard to be admitted to university. After being admitted to university, I found out, what should I pursue now? Because of this, in fact, if this problem is really to be solved, it is difficult to say, not difficult, easy to say, not easy.

So, if you really want to solve it, hold a student meeting, and in this meeting, you have to ask the students' questions, and then, ask some students to answer and ask questions. Then, according to it, summarize the problems, solve them one by one, and that's it.

Freshmen leave the high school campus, where the learning atmosphere is extremely intense, and with a sense of so-called "freedom", with an infinite hope for the mysterious temple and a better future, they step into the new environment of the university campus, which was unfamiliar at first and has a little longing. At this moment, many new students are very idealistic, and they are full of curiosity about this place. However, due to the great changes in the living environment, study habits, interpersonal relationships and many other factors, the gap between the ideal and the reality, the original vision has gradually been worn out, and many new students have a series of psychological problems because of this change.

Since college students are studying in different places, they come from all over the world, and there are certain differences in family background, personality, and living habits. Some students are confused, timid, worried, afraid to contact others, and do not know how to get along with new classmates, feeling that interpersonal relationships are complicated, which makes it difficult to communicate with new classmates. Some students sometimes speculate and suspect others for no reason, and have nothing to do, resulting in tension and discord.

Some students like to be self-centered and pay too much attention to themselves, only consider their own needs, do not care about the feelings of others, do not care about and understand others, and eventually become lonely, lost, lonely, and even have fear of communication, and these symptoms can easily lead to psychological problems such as loneliness, depression, low self-esteem, and anxiety.

Exercise a good mindset and overcome it.

Mentality is a Chinese word, pronounced xīn tài, which is commonly known as a state of mind.

The psychological process is constantly changing and temporary, and the psychological characteristics of the personality are stable, while the psychological state is in between, which is both temporary and stable, which is the manifestation of the unity of the psychological process and the psychological characteristics of the personality. A sound mindset is more powerful than a hundred wisdoms.

Homesick statements are:

1. Homesickness is due to the separation of the home, and homesickness is because of longing for home. I really want to go back and see the smile of a long time away, listen to the endless chatter, and feel the many things that have been lost for a long time, and then embark on the trip.

2. I am homesick, I want to think about the yellow light, and I see it in the evening, no matter how cold the weather is, there will be a warm current flowing into the blood, flowing all over the body, and the legs that are numb from the cold, I will have inexhaustible strength and rush back.

3. Home is a clear sky that parents hold up for their children with a loving umbrella.

4. On the days when I come back regularly, I am devoted to my homeland again. But after a short two days, I had to leave again, so I began to look forward to the day when I would go home. People have to leave home after all, including home, perhaps it is this parting that makes that miss extra warm and beautiful.

5. I was very homesick, especially in the dead of night, in a bleak emotional corner alone in a foreign land, I closed my eyes slightly, and listened to the saxophone song "Coming Home" that made me feel a lot of feelings, and the homesickness in my heart became stronger and stronger.

Dear, everyone is the same when I come, I don't want to study, you can go out to play appropriately, and it's normal to want to go home, because most people are away from home for the first time, when I came, I came alone, and I saw other people's parents and relatives send them, and I wanted to cry, but I slowly got used to being alone, you can participate in more club activities in your freshman year, and you can study hard in your sophomore year.

often complaining that they are not suitable for this or that life; In my opinion, a lot of this complaint is nonsense. As long as we remain open-minded and fully enjoy the happiness that God gives us every day, then we will have sufficient strength to endure the pain that comes.

Usually leaving home to study will be very homesick, psychologically stressed, and will be inexplicably annoying!

Suggestions: 1. Continue to stay, because going home is an escapist behavior as a man should not do, to face the reality bravely, and to go home with good development prospects? 2. Adapt to college life as soon as possible, college, half is school, half is society, in college not only to learn culture but also to learn interpersonal communication, make more friends, is a good choice!

3. Tell you quietly that the development prospects have little to do with the major......

Think about what you would most like to do when you come to this school? Then go and finish it, and slowly you will find that there is also a place for me to miss here.

It's good to get used to it slowly, it's better to make a few good friends, and it's good to take it slowly.

So why can't you learn it? Is it the school Reeds or the environment and atmosphere.

What should I do when I get home? People will laugh at you. You can't stay at home for a lifetime.

Born in the blessing does not know the blessing, has no skills, does not want to dry, and drinks porridge.

Summary. The reason why freshmen are confused is because they had a clear goal in their previous academic career, which was to be admitted to university. Suddenly, after going to university, without the supervision of teachers, you enter a stress-free state, and you will be confused.

When many students first enter the university campus, they often have some discomfort and some confusion and worry.

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The freshman is confused because he had a clear goal in his previous study career, which was to be admitted to college. Suddenly, after going to college, without the teacher's supervision, I entered a stress-free state, and I was confused.

You can put a certain amount of pressure on yourself, such as studying for the level of four thick pants, taking the rock trap certificate, learning a technology, etc. If you plan your future employment direction in advance, or go to graduate school, let yourself have a goal, and you will get through the confusion period well.

Personally, I feel that this has a lot to do with the sudden change in the pace of life in high school and college students. When I was in high school, I went on to higher education.

There is a lot of pressure, everyone is busy preparing for the college entrance examination, and everyone is busy. After I went to college, I suddenly had so much free time, I didn't know how to allocate it, I didn't know what to do with myself, what not to do, and even what I would follow the mainstream and do something that I didn't think a good student should do in high school. And I have nothing to do all day, and I feel sorry for my conscience or something.

In fact, it is precisely because people with the above ideas are good students that they will want to solve problems.

In fact, as long as you make a plan, you can solve this problem very well. Some people say that a lot of knowledge learned by college students is basically useless after work, in fact, I still recommend you to study hard, because college, I feel, the important thing is not the content of learning, but the mastery of learning methods, and good learning methods can only be found through continuous self-study. I recommend focusing on the knowledge of specialized knowledge, because the learning of such knowledge has a certain relationship with future work.

To put it militarily, even for that tempting scholarship, it's not in vain to study hard, hehe...

In addition, you can also develop your own hobbies, participate in an interest club or something, and you can get to know more people, which is good.

It's because the environment has changed, people have a sense of recognizing their lives, and this kind of consciousness is innate, and the difference between college and high school is that you have more free time, so to adjust this situation, you have to find a way to spend your free time, go to read books, exercise, chat with new classmates, make a few new friends, and this situation will soon pass. I hope my answer is helpful to you, thank you.

Life is all free to learn the direction you want to go in the future.

You can choose to make more new friends, in fact, friends can make you happier in college, and slowly you can adapt to it by studying more.

You can choose to take it slowly, don't rush, communicate with your classmates more, see how they adapt, and learn their methods.

Try to change your life status, try to integrate into the life of the university, and don't reject it.

What's so uncomfortable with this?

It's just that someone in high school set the rules for you, but college didn't.

So, the best way is to customize a schedule for yourself, such as what time to get up in the morning, what time to go out to read English, what time to go to class, what time to get out of class, what time to play on the computer, what time to review what homework, what time to go to bed, etc., and then what day of the week you can relax and sleep until you wake up naturally and then do nothing. A combination of work and rest.

When the time comes, you will see that people who have nothing to do all day long and play around on the computer are completely different from people who have goals and directions in strict accordance with the plan, there is a lot of time in college, and you can go around to play, but the premise is that you must not fall behind in learning, and you must avoid failing the course, and you must get high scores, so that you can get your report card in the future.

Of course, club activities are essential, and there are many things that are complicated, but the more complicated they are, the more they can exercise their ability to do many things at the same time, and anyway, if you want to be active in college, I don't think there is any time to waste in college.

The best way is to make a few genuine friends, and the help of friends will make you enjoy your university life.

1.Entering college, where all your past is a blank slate for them, is the best time for you to reinvent yourself.

2.There may be real love in college, but only possible. Many times they are together because everyone else is in love and envy or for other reasons.

3.You have a lot of unexpected money in college. For the sake of your family and your own future, never spend money on it.

4.Your college friends are likely to be part of your future career. They will help you. But you should also make yourself capable of helping them, so you have to work hard.

You must know the theory of evolution, the environment will not change because of you personally, only people adapt to the environment, and you will not get used to anything at the beginning, and it will be fine slowly.

The first floor is good, don't think too much, and patiently accept the new and everything. It's just a temporary discomfort, don't worry!!

Just try to introduce yourself.

This society is very realistic, it is not us who chooses society, but society who chooses us.

Natural selection, survival of the fittest. It has almost left us with no capital for delay and mistakes, and we are adults.

I really didn't feel comfortable when I first entered my freshman year, and I felt very uncomfortable. Especially after leaving family and good friends.

Recently, many sociologists have also been focusing on the problem that there is too much difference between students' expected college life and actual college life. Only to be a sunflower, open to the sun, with warmth in our hearts, we must be strong and must struggle.

In fact, learning is only one aspect, but it is also about developing your own interests and hobbies. For example, drama, dance, singing, painting, etc. In short, you have to have a skill to gain a foothold.

Youth is really short-lived, and squandering is squandering. Not anymore.

Learning well is only one of many abilities, but no matter which way you go, you don't succeed easily. There is only blood and sweat behind the glamorous, and some careers are even a hundred times more tiring than reading good books.

People who receive higher education will definitely be different.

I can understand your pain.

Because of empathy ... Above, all encouragement.

May you be all right. ^_