How to face the past and the present, and how to face the current self in the future

I'm happy for you because you have a great boyfriend. Being able to say ** preservation, even if it is said strongly, is worthy of admiration.

At the same time, if you really love him, repay him with your love and be considerate of him.

I guess everyone has some secrets that no one else knows! It's better to keep it a secret.

You must know that if you understand it as transparently, you will find many imperfections over there, and it is better to be silent until you are sure of him or you can tolerate these imperfections!!

Finally, may you both be forever!!

It turns out that they really love each other, so why be afraid to confess. Loving each other requires two people to confess to each other. Understand.

Trust. Understanding. If tolerance is not, how can it be permanent?

True love should cherish true love, and will work hard to just want love. Believe in yourself and believe in each other!

Tell him: I love you now, everything before is gone, so I have to delete. Because I belong later.

It's up to you. I just want to save everything with you from today.

Since he doesn't care about these anymore, it means that he still loves you very much and understands you, so let's be happy, since he doesn't mention it, don't tell him specifically, keep thinking about it. Let him go through the old ones. Why keep thinking about how tired you are.

Love him well, try to tell him as little as possible about your past, although you say you don't care, but your heart is a little uncomfortable, everyone has their own secrets.

Wow! This good man?

Heaven, you must treat him well.

Speak to him! He'll understand.

Touching the tears [because I was too excited])).

One, face the reality, the reality is cruel.

When this question is asked, it must be very dissatisfied with reality, the ideal is full, the reality is cruel, this is what a philosopher said. Many people are dissatisfied with the reality, because what they see is that many people are far ahead, surpassing themselves, and making themselves feel at a loss, as if they have already worked hard, how can they still be like this. Therefore, a sense of loss, mixed with a sense of jealousy, arises spontaneously.

Second, in the face of reality, we need to adjust our efforts in a timely manner.

As the saying goes, if the tree moves, it will die, and when the person moves, when you feel that you have lost the potential for development, you can change a place to work or change a place, and add new vitality to yourself by changing the working environment or updating the social circle.

When you encounter the failure of your career, the first thing to look back on is to find your own shortcomings, to find the solution to the cause, whether this thing is not suitable for your own development, or lack of necessary prerequisites, whether there is a problem in the way and way of dealing with things, whether the main reason for the resistance to your career is not something you can overcome, when you sort out these complex factors, you can face the reality rationally.

Both in history and in reality, many people have been forced to change their expertise, change their careers into unfamiliar fields, and achieve success through their own efforts. One of my classmates used to be a doctor of chemical engineering, and when he was about to graduate, he chose to enter Tsinghua Unigroup, changed his career to software, and through his own efforts, he became a software engineer, and did a good job in the field of encrypted communication, and now, he is the vice president of a company in the United States.

The previous one is put down and forgotten! Face the reality and read the society! Reading people, this person refers to:

Parents, siblings, husbands and wives, children, friends, co-workers, relatives, classmates, neighbors, ......As long as you understand these, have good social and interpersonal relationships, and then study and do things your own, and hone more in things, you will definitely have a bright future.

It's not good, Hakka v, send a vb, you didn't look at a few people, vvb, no, you're okay, you're sure, Xu can't be annoying, I took a look at it last time.

I give you advice, do you think it's okay?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, when you are walking, someone else apologizes to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the heart of the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some big joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain pure brother form, as long as you feel that the joints are released and the muscles are relaxed.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, but how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

If you work hard now, you can face yourself well no matter what happens in the future.

First of all, it's a normal emotional reaction to mind your girlfriend's emotional history, but if you want your relationship to be smoother, healthier and more stable, you should actively handle your feelings and learn how to communicate with your girlfriend.

Here are some suggestions:

1.Don't overemphasize your girlfriend's past. You have to admit that she once had a life of her own, and that her past is also part of the personality that makes up her present. Respect her privacy and choices, and don't overly ask or force her to tell you about her past.

2.Be honest with your girlfriend. If you have questions or concerns about her past, be honest with her. In an open and honest communication, you can understand her perspective and attitude and help you overcome problems together.

3.Maintain good communication. It is very important to maintain a healthy, equal and open communication. If you are able to communicate, listen to and support each other, your relationship will be stronger.

4.Support girlfriend. You, as your girlfriend's partner, should support her, understand her and respect her choices. If you find yourself unable to accept her past, then you need to consider whether you want to continue the relationship instead of blaming her or trying to change her past.

In conclusion, a healthy and stable relationship requires joint efforts and communication from both parties. If you are able to follow the above advice, your relationship will be much better and healthier.