Tell us why people with low self esteem feel that everyone is indifferent to him.

Because people with low self-esteem are very sensitive, maybe if you put a glass of water a little louder on weekdays, he will think that you are angry or how to drop, thinking too much, but others are not so sensitive, so they will feel that the people around them are very indifferent, but in fact, it is not indifferent, but some people are not so delicate.

Because people with low self-esteem are very closed in their hearts, when they judge whether they are friends or foes, they will think that he has a certain amount of harm to us, so we will feel that they are indifferent.

There are two main reasons for low self-esteem, one is the distrust of oneself and the denial of one's own ability. The second is caused by the backlog of others' negation of oneself for a long time. People with low self-esteem generally do not like to speak and do not take the initiative to speak, they are immersed in their own world, and perhaps in their own world they are always practicing the next time to speak, so that they can speak like normal.

But when I opened my mouth, I always felt like I was stuck in something, and the previous practice in my heart was useless. After such a long period of accumulation, people with low self-esteem less and less like to talk and speak, and slowly become cold, so they will also feel that others are more indifferent to them.

Because people with low self-esteem are more sensitive, because they dare not speak, they prefer to listen, drink and observe, and when the other party shows a little dissatisfaction and disgust, people with low self-esteem will bring the target of this emotion into themselves.

Because he has low self-esteem, he doesn't believe in himself, just like myself, I used to have low self-esteem, I was not handsome, I was not tall, my family was poor, in addition to studying better, I didn't study well later, I really didn't have anything to be proud of, and later, I went to high school, went to college, and dropped out, everything stemmed from low self-esteem, and even I liked a girl, because I was afraid that I couldn't give her the happiness she wanted, I withdrew, and for a while locked myself in the house, afraid of seeing people, I didn't even dare to go out to work, I was thinking about what I could do and what I could achieve, and this year I really mustered up the courage to come out and learn a skill, and I realized that I didn't need to look down on myself so much, everything came from the fear in my heart.

Low self-esteem itself is problematic, and some people are sensitive because of low self-esteem, and they feel that others are hostile to him. Actually, no, low self-esteem is an influence from various circumstances, and this influence will accompany you in your life, if you don't deal with it in time. In the final analysis, if you are not good enough, you will feel that you are getting worse and worse, and your inferiority complex will slowly worsen.

Low self-esteem is due to denying oneself and caring too much about what others think. Whatever you think will pass on. How to put it, free yourself from this emotion.

You can't control whether others are indifferent or not, but you can control it. Making yourself good is the most important thing, and it has nothing to do with you that others are indifferent.

People with low self-esteem are sensitive, they tend to have a certain defect, thinking that others are always targeting him for this defect.

People with low self-esteem feel inferior to others from the bottom of their hearts and cannot fit into the bustling world. He is indifferent to everyone, and what leads to the indifference of self-righteous everyone to him is actually the result of his low self-esteem.

People will infect their emotions on others, especially those who are close to you and have good feelings. People with low self-esteem will transmit the discomfort of low self-esteem to those close to you, and unconsciously, these people will unconsciously alienate you.

They are very sensitive, and they will feel that all of them dislike and reject him, and they will be even more lonely and uneasy.

First of all, such a person has such an inferiority complex in his heart, he is very sensitive to the eyes of others, every move, the most important thing is lack of confidence, he should improve his self-confidence and make himself more attractive, so that there will be no such feeling.

Low self-esteem is also related to personal growth environment factors, no one affirms her, so she has no self-confidence in herself, for fear of doing bad things, for fear that others will laugh at herself.

I'm a person who has low self-esteem, but the conflict is that I still have a strong self-esteem, and I think about all the things that are very common in my heart for a long time, and I compete with myself. Apathy: Isn't it? It should be that you are very indifferent to others, maybe you don't feel it yourself, and then you feel that others are very indifferent to you, a vicious circle.

Because he cares a lot about other people's eyes, especially his own attitude, he is used to thinking crankily.

I think people with low self-esteem are relatively sensitive, fragile, and insecure.

People with low self-esteem have their complex family backgrounds, either they are single-parent families, lack of fatherly or maternal love, and lack a sense of security about society and the people around them, the best way is to keep a proper distance from others, talk less, so that others cannot peek into their inner world, which is a way of self-protection; In fact, as social animals, who wants to live a lonely and lonely life, they also yearn for the beauty of friendship and light up a colorful life, but they have not found a suitable like-minded good friend for the time being; Their inner world is colorful, and the heat of their desire for love and friendship is often more intense than others, just like coal, it is cold when it is not lit, and when it is lit, it emits high temperature and warmth. May we awaken inferiority complex with sincerity, warm and indifferent with friendship, and add more beauty to the world!

People with low self-esteem are generally a bit introverted, they are afraid that others will know their inner world, and they are afraid of being hurt, so they would rather be indifferent by themselves and pretend to be like a hedgehog than accept the kindness of others to him. Because he feels that he will hurt the people around him, although he may use the wrong way, he will still do it stubbornly, because it is not his intention, he just doesn't want the people around him to pay too much attention to him.

But this Yezhou-like person, if you get along with him well, he is actually a very good friend, and you will find some whimsical ideas in his inner world, and you can find that he can hold a lot of things in his heart, and you will find it very interesting.

Because it's a person with positive energy, it's just not good at expressing it, so it's just a matter of making yourself like this.

At least he has lacked love, whether it is from all ages of life, because of the experience, he has become indifferent and lonely, and he no longer believes in the beauty of the world......

Then make a distinction between inferiority complex, one is inferiority complex in mental state, and the other is inferiority complex in material needs.

After all, no money is indeed impossible, if there are certain conditions, that is, money, it is indeed able to meet some of the necessities of a person's material needs, so part of the reason is that money can indeed meet the inferiority complex of material needs, that is, to remove the inferiority of this superficial material form. Mono tung.

But if you put it on the spiritual level, after all, there are many reasons for the inferiority of this mental state, it is not necessarily due to the material, it may also be due to some energy received by yourself, or the mental state, and it is a certain setback, resulting in low self-esteem and inferiority, then the convenient inferiority complex is not satisfied by money, because the removal of this inferiority complex still requires a certain amount of spiritual intervention at the psychological level.

To be precise, the formation of this inferiority complex is caused by the different experiences and feelings received, so if you want to carry out this inferiority complex self-healing, it is more necessary for the people around you to give appropriate encouragement and affirmation and give these people a full sense of security, so as to gradually eliminate this inferiority complex, and the formation of inferiority complex is not achieved overnight, it may be formed through the accumulation of months and seasons, so most of the time can slowly overdo this inferiority complex. Especially in terms of the affirmative feeling of an effective psychological self-confidence, only by slowly forming this process, that is, slowing down this stage, allowing people with low self-esteem to slowly accept their own state and accept themselves, and then it is more likely to eliminate this inferiority complex.

Inferiority complex is in a person's heart, and there will be many reasons for inferiority complex, such as family, social status, education, money and wealth, etc.

If you don't have self-confidence, you only see your own shortcomings and the advantages of others, then your inferiority complex will be very strong. Maintain an optimistic attitude, be confident rather than inferior, be good at discovering your own shining points, have enough courage to face things, don't have to envy others, don't have to belittle yourself, and living yourself is the key.

No one is perfect, it is certain that there are shortcomings, and when we are unsatisfactory due to our own shortcomings, we may have an inferiority complex. Low self-esteem can appear in life, but don't let it affect our lives, after all, life is not only one emotion, one color.

Low self-esteem is always underestimating one's abilities, and the main reasons for this are lack of self-awareness, frustration, physical reasons, personality defects, mental illness, and bad childhood experiences.

1.Lack of self-awareness: For example, always underestimating oneself, being negative about one's own ability, appearance, and quality, always comparing one's weaknesses with the strengths of others, feeling that oneself is worthless, and then having low self-esteem.

2.Suffering from setbacks: Frustration is easy to produce negative emotions, if you have suffered a lot of setbacks, failures, and the heart is not strong enough, you will feel worthless and inferior.

3.Physical reasons: Some people have physical defects, poor growth or physical disabilities, and in the process of getting along with their peers, they are prone to inferiority.

4.Personality defects: Some people are always very negative and pessimistic, and some people are particularly perfectionist, and the above personality is usually very negative when facing problems to measure their abilities, which then causes low self-esteem.

5.Mental illness: such as depression, anxiety, etc., these patients usually have a particularly low opinion of themselves and have an inferiority complex.

6.Bad childhood experience: For example, in the process of growing up in childhood, I was often criticized, blamed, beaten and scolded by my parents, and disapproved, which is also closely related to low self-esteem.

Therefore, for people with low self-esteem, it is important to see that they can build self-confidence, or seek the help of a professional doctor to get out of their low self-esteem.

The causes of low self-esteem include being affected by frustration, physical deficiencies, and being affected by personality.

1.Affected by setbacks: People will react differently after suffering setbacks, such as rebellion and compromise. Some people will become negative and pessimistic after suffering setbacks, especially introverts will become more inferior after suffering setbacks.

2.Physiological deficiencies: When there are physical deficiencies, it is easy to have adverse effects on the psyche, such as short stature, ugly appearance, and low self-esteem.

3.Influenced by personality: Everyone's personality is different, such as extroverts and introverts. People with a more sensitive personality have magnified the negative consequences brought about by things, and are prone to inferiority.

Inferiority is a psychological weakness formed in the process of human nature development, and its formation is mainly due to the change of people's subjective consciousness, and the inferiority complex is subjectively believing that they are inferior to others, and they will always be worse than others.

This kind of wrong cognition leads to wrong behavior, always using one's own shortcomings to compare the advantages of others, in such a gap, it will become more humble, and the process of a vicious circle is like a whirlpool, making people fall deeper and deeper.

However, in life, the people who can overcome low self-esteem and move towards success are a minority after all, and we see more examples of ordinary people, but they are crushed by inferiority, thus closing themselves at home, cutting off contact with society, and becoming a complete failure.

Low self-esteem is an emotion that everyone experiences, and some people have a weak sense of inferiority, so low self-esteem does not have much impact on their lives. And some people have a strong sense of inferiority, and low self-esteem often bothers them. Money only changes objective facts.

Money does allow us to live a better life and have more power, so under objective conditions, we surpass many people. This strong advantage of wealth cannot be denied by wrong habits of thinking, so our inferiority complex is reduced.

1.Money can bring a sense of honor.

But we need to know that no matter how rich our money is, there will always be people who can match our wealth, or who are more wealthy than us. When we meet such people, the advantage of wealth is gone, so the contrast of reality becomes blurred again, and the wrong habit of thinking (habitually devaluing oneself) begins to appear again. So we found that money does not actually have our inferiority, it only temporarily pushes our inferiority complex.

2.Adjust your mindset.

If we want to truly change our inferiority, we must revise our thinking patterns and change our perception of inferiority, so as to achieve the goal of truly inferiority. Only when we realize that we are not worse than others or realize that low self-esteem is a normal human emotion and do not need to care too much about it, can we be freed from low self-esteem and live our lives calmly.