After your girlfriend breaks up with you, she asks you how to get it back and change it

As soon as many people hear about the breakup, they will start to get nervous, thinking about whether they have done something wrong, and then all kinds of cranky thoughts, and even all kinds of pestering, harassment, threats, etc. However, they never see the essence of the problem, in fact, many times the other party is just to enjoy the experience when you can redeem it.

There are fake breakups and real breakups, whether it should be redeemed or should be given up, and different recovery plans should be formulated according to the actual situation.

So how to distinguish between a fake breakup and a real breakup? The key to a fake breakup is that the other party doesn't really want to break up, but wants to get your attention through the breakup, so that you can keep her, enjoy having you care, and hope to get your attention. This is not the case with a true breakup, which is because the other party is dead to you, has become disheartened, and even completely desperate.

Fake breakup redemption is simple, just express what you care about. The recovery of a true breakup is much more troublesome and needs to be carried out strategically.

The first is to use the puzzle theory to arouse the curiosity of the other party, and make a transformation of yourself, because if you are still the original you, why should others forgive you; The second is to use the foreshadowing done in the early stage to quickly reconnect, and use the "three-three-three chat method" to eliminate negative predictions in the process of reconnection, and use a new image to attract the attention of the other party; The third step is to guide the other party to invest in you, increase the sunk cost of the other party, so that the other party can not do without you; The fourth step is emotional manipulation, which pulls up one's own framework in the relationship and occupies a dominant position.

After a breakup, if you will only blindly kneel and lick and stalk, it will only make the other party avoid you and even get bored, so after the breakup, you must do it strategically. After the success of the redemption, you must maintain your own high framework, so as not to repeat the mistakes of the past, and continue to enrich your heart.

If you want to save your ex, you can use the book "Saving the Standardized Process" in ***wanhuimiji**. There are many detailed techniques for saving love (such as the law of freezing, the three-three-three chat method, the puzzle theory, etc.), as well as knowing how to get along with the object more harmoniously.

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Summary. Kiss, good evening, I'm Teacher Hua of Emotional Analysis.

When your girlfriend asks you, what if we break up? How did you? Whether she's changed her mind ......Kiss, good evening, I'm Teacher Hua of Emotional Analysis.

For the doubt you are encountering now, that is, your girlfriend asks you, what if the two of you break up, then kiss first, and the teacher can tell you very clearly that it is not your girlfriend who has changed her mind.

And then the teacher is teaching you how to reply to your girlfriend, you can say that, just say, we won't break up, I won't let that day come, we'll always be together, I'm not going to let go of your hand.

Kiss, you can reply to your girlfriend according to the teacher's words.

Kiss, you have to understand that your girlfriend is asking you what you will do if the two of you break up in the future, this is not what your girlfriend means by changing her mind, it's just that your girlfriend is insecure, and then wants to ask you to see how you are, what she wants is an attitude from you, get it, kiss.

In principle, the other party does not ask, do not take the initiative to say it, many people are not broad-minded enough, no matter how deep the love between the two parties is now, do not ask the past, should start from now, look forward, with the current more envy and fierce attitude to treat the relationship will be easier to obtain happiness.

If the other party asks about the pacing bridge, don't deceive, this is the essential difference, and then be careful not to arouse the other party's curiosity, and don't talk about the cause and effect, tell the other party that the reason for breaking up is that you are more suitable for yourself than him, which helps to enhance the relationship, remember that the more detailed you say, the greater the damage.

Let the past always be the past, don't always reminisce, people should learn to turn negative emotional experiences into a stepping stone to today's success, and make themselves more mature.

Anyway, it doesn't matter who your previous lover was? Anyway, it's me who is attacking the current lover, and there is nothing to worry about before that, I think two people in love should face the present seriously, enjoy the present, cherish the present time, and there is no need to dwell on the past. Haunted by the past, at least now he belongs to you.

I think that people who truly love each other can accept each other's past, and can also love each other's present and future, and two people should truly love each other and be able to accept each other's past, I think they should confess to each other and focus more on the long-term future, rather than just dwelling on the past.

After one of the two people in a relationship proposes to break up, the other party will ask some questions about the collapse. If you propose to break up, and the group has already made up its mind, then you can reply in a unified and general way with "it's not appropriate to be with each other", and you don't have to be too clear about every question.

You have the right to choose no, if it is an unavoidable nuisance, you can tactfully tell him that this matter is in the past, and it is not interesting to mention it again, and you should look at the hail before you lose it.

Summary. For your doubts now, that is, your girlfriend suddenly asked you, if the two of you broke up, what would you do, in fact, kiss, your girlfriend asked you this sentence does not mean that she wants to break up with you, nor does it mean that she has changed her mind, her main purpose is to see how you will be, how to say, how to do, kiss, you can understand that your girlfriend is deliberately doing it to you, in fact, at this time you just need to affirm her.

When your girlfriend asks you, what if we break up? How did you? Whether she's changed her mind ......For your doubts now, that is, your girlfriend suddenly asked you, if you say that you two broke up, what would you do, in fact, kiss, your girlfriend asked you this sentence is not to say that she wants to break up with you, nor does it mean that she has changed her mind, her main purpose is to see how you will be, how to say, how to do it, kiss, you can understand that your girlfriend is deliberately doing it to you, in fact, at this time, you just need to affirm her.

You can reply to her like this, you can say, don't worry, baby, we will never be separated from each other, we will always be together, no matter what difficulties I encounter in the future, I will not let go of your hand, I will not let the day of Qin Jian's breakup, it will not be.

Kiss, you can reply like this.