What happens to the men who are domestic violence?

Men who commit domestic violence deserve to die.

In the face of a wife who has been abused by her husband, but has always endured it and not divorced, we, the bystanders, will be particularly incomprehensible, and even will issue an angry question to such a wife:

Why would you continue to live with a demonic husband who has treated you violently in the past and will most likely not stop in the future?

Why don't you be brave and assertive and speak up for yourself?

Don't you know that there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, shouldn't you leave the demon husband and cut off all relationships with the demon husband once you are subjected to domestic violence?

However, there are too many such wives, and they seem to be locked in the cage of marriage by countless shackles, for a year, a few years, more than ten years...In this way, he endured torture and pain in silence for the rest of his life.

Why? Why is a wife willing to be exposed to a violent marital environment? Is divorce really so difficult for them, even disregarding their own lives?

Maybe we bystanders haven't been subjected to domestic violence and can't fully understand the psychology of these wives. Let's talk about why

Emotional control. Wives who have been abused by domestic violence are usually subject to three levels of emotional control, which makes them unable to divorce.

First, she was threatened by her husband. Wives who have been victims of domestic violence are particularly vulnerable in their hearts, they live in fear and anxiety all day long, and their husbands will threaten them in addition to domestic violence. For example, the husband will tell them:

Divorce is not that easy; If you dare to have the idea of divorce, I will torture you even more; Even if you're divorced, you can't escape my control....When people are vulnerable and fearful, they are extremely inferior and helpless, so they will be convinced of these threats, and will not dare to act lightly, but can only be content with the status quo.

Second, domestic violence is justified. If the husband of domestic violence does not think that there is anything wrong with beating and torturing his wife, his thinking will also affect his wife's wisdom and scum, so that the wife will subtly recognize the concept that "a husband can beat his wife", resulting in the wife can only endure it even if she is bitter.

Third, a sense of shame and self-blame. The wife believes that the reason why she is subjected to domestic violence is because she is not a qualified and good wife, so her husband's domestic violence is a reasonable and legitimate means of punishment for her. If she files for divorce because of her husband's domestic violence, what should she do if she is accused by the people around her, saying that she is to blame and does not repent.

This is because of machismo, playing prestige at home, being a bear outside, being angry outside, and venting his wife and children when he comes home.

One of the reasons why men are violent is that they are violent, and the other is that they do not take their lovers to heart and disrespect them.

Nest, the family is horizontal, and he doesn't dare to mess with people outside, so he can only take his daughter-in-law out of anger.

It's not a man, it's your husband, it's Qixi, and women also have domestic violence, so Qisui has to analyze it specifically, don't hit a big piece as soon as something happens, okay, your husband's problem is not a man's problem, solve it yourself.

What else does a man who doesn't respect a woman need him for? Without a reason, domestic violence is not loving you.

How do you think men understand domestic violence?

Men actually don't pay special attention to the problem of domestic violence, after all, not all men will be violent, and they will not beat women, generally only a small number of men will go to domestic violence, so most men think that domestic violence is a very common family conflict, so they don't care too much about it, and they don't want to know about it.

Can a man who is domestic violence be forgiven.

Unforgivable. Domestic violence once means that he has this potential source, as long as he is in a bad mood, he is easy to break out. It's a ticking time bomb, and it's not safe to live with such people.

Can a woman tolerate domestic violence from a man?

Dear, definitely not. There are two reasons: one is that the husband and wife are equal, not the relationship between superiors and subordinates, let alone the relationship between landlords and slaves, you are here to live with your husband, not to find domestic violence;

The second is that a home is a place of love for each other, not a place of domestic violence, domestic violence itself is wrong, it is a behavior that is spurned by others, and it is a manifestation of men's incompetence, which is definitely not okay. So, how do you avoid domestic violence? Enduring domestic violence, you will inevitably connive at the other party's intensification, and it is also a sign of your cowardice, so you can't tolerate it at first, you can't tolerate it the first time, and when the other party calms down, you have to communicate with the other party first, and it's really not okay to let the elders educate him.

If there is a next time, directly use the law to defend yourself, otherwise it will be a few times without opening your limbs. In addition, the bell must also be tied to the bell. You have to find the reason from yourself, why were you being subjected to domestic violence?

It is impossible for a man to be violent to you for no reason, just repent and sell yourself in time after knowing the reason.

First of all, the first is because he can't lead the way to resist, and at the same time, he may have a very low status in the stupid oak family.

This has a certain relationship with personality.,For example, when you meet the character of a particularly strong girl.,It's easy to appear like this.