What about men who are domestic violence? Can a man who is domestic violence still want it?

1. Gender discrimination against women The psychology of men with domestic violence Women must be careful.

In domestic violence, the perpetrators are overwhelmingly men, and some men believe in the idea of male superiority and inferiority of women, and regard domestic violence as a normal family rule or an effective means of forcing women to obey.

2. The psychology of revenge.

A man's testimonial, he said: "Before I got married, she and her family didn't treat me as a human being, and I was left to do all the dirty and heavy work at home; At every turn, she said to my face that I was inferior to her brother; I made a joke and made her angry and ignored me for a week; When I was dating, I was often asked to wait for hours, which was so disrespectful. Now that I'm married, I don't have to look at her face anymore, anyway, I'm tired of this day, she can't love her, I can't ask for it!

Of course, this is just a kind of men's revenge psychology, that is, revenge before marriage with after marriage. But there is also a more common form of revenge, which is revenge outside of marriage, and in addition to this, there may also be reasons for revenge because she was not good to his parents, or on some occasions he lost face.

All these things, big and small, will be piled up because of his narrow-mindedness, and finally form an endless revenge mentality, and if the first revenge fails to stitch up his "wounded psychology", then the later revenge will become more powerful ......

In short, this kind of revenge man is the most unqualified and terrible, except for breaking up and countering violence with violence, it seems that it is really difficult to find a good solution.

Men who commit domestic violence have great emotional ups and downs. Men who are violent are impulsive personalities and often can't control their emotions at home. The kind of man who has a violent temper at home and scolds his wife, who smashes things and throws things when he loses his temper, and who sends his temper to his family, are all prone to domestic violence.

And outside, this kind of person has another gentle appearance, which makes people can't believe that he actually has a tendency to domestic violence. For the sake of himself, a man who is violent will do nothing and do anything. Such people may also have bad habits in life, such as alcohol addiction, gambling, etc.

Men who have been exposed to these for a long time, even if they do not have a tendency to domestic violence at first, and slowly change their personality, will also have a tendency to domestic violence, so it is better to stay away. Domestic violence is not only actual verbal violence. Verbal abuse is an insult to the personality of others, and this kind of mental harm has a long-term effect.

When the wounds on the body are healed, the psychological wounds may be the shadow of a lifetime. Verbal violence is more horrific than beatings. Domestic violence must not be condoned.

With the first time, there will be countless times, and it will get worse. Female friends must distinguish these characteristics of domestic violence men before getting married to avoid being harmed.

This tendency to violence is sometimes not directly related to the level of education, and it is not uncommon for a man who appears to be polite on the surface or a man who feels gentle to outsiders to come home and punch his wife. Leaving aside the social and historical causes, the perpetrators themselves alone.

It is more terrifying to have a man who has domestic violence to live together, so the best way to encounter this kind of family is to divorce, otherwise everyone will be uncomfortable for the rest of their lives.

The man who hugged him must not be able to be with him anymore, because a man who has domestic violence will habitually commit domestic violence.

Such a man is a man with a very serious personality authority, and he is a man with no cultivation, so such a man is a man with no bottom line.

If you like a domestic violence man, marry him, and you'll know when he beats you to death.

A man who is a man of domestic violence, if he can repent and reform, he can still ask for it. But if you don't change your teachings, such a man is not the best.

Hello, the domestic violence man is really very terrible, once he impulsively becomes like a beast, it will hurt the other party, once you meet the domestic violence man, no matter how you lose, you must choose to destroy the first opening, otherwise it is you who are in pain, I hope to help you, hope, thank you.

It is not easy to get married and live, and it is inevitable that the two people after marriage will bump and bump in life, and sometimes there is a phenomenon of one party scolding the other.

1. If the other party is an occasional domestic violence, then Qing Mao can forgive him. Because it is not easy for a husband and wife to form a family, it is impossible to completely prohibit violence by one spouse against the other in the long course of life, in the decades that husband and wife have been together.

So for occasional domestic violence, and it doesn't cause any serious consequences, then for the sake of the family, for the sake of the children. As long as the perpetrator is truly repentant, he or she can be forgiven.

2. If the aggressor regularly commits domestic violence and has serious consequences that are unbearable for the victim. Then such domestic violence should not be forgiven.

The first is to resolutely divorce, and the second is to investigate the legal responsibility for domestic violence.

3. A hundred years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be slept together. It is not easy for two husbands and wives to be able to walk together in the world. Both parties should cherish each other, and neither the man nor the woman should be prepared for violence.

If you have something to say, refuse to destroy domestic violence!

Should I get divorced after domestic violence It is recommended that there are two situations in which you can consider breaking away from marriage: First, after many efforts, the other party still can't change the vice of violence, if you often work hard and improve yourself through various channels, personal reasons lead to domestic violence to be minimized, and become a partner to work hard to challenge. If the relationship actively looks for the cause of domestic violence and the solution to the problem, but the other party still can't change the bad habit, then it may be related to personality or mental disorders, and what you need to do at this time is to weigh the relationship and consider it carefully.

Men who are domestic violence can't ask for it, solve it as soon as possible, and start a new life.