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When the attitude is indifferent, you should take the initiative to communicate with the other party, and hope that the other party can improve immediately, if the other party continues to do this, then it may make the two people enter a cold and violent state, and finally the two people may also break up directly.
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I think you should leave him, he has refused to communicate, and his attitude is still very indifferent, that is, it shows that he doesn't like you anymore, at this time you should stop the loss in time, withdraw as soon as possible, and find the right person.
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At this time, you must be tough, understand the other party's thoughts, and don't let the other party fool the past, otherwise it will only hurt you more.
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We can only control ourselves, not others."
Trying to control other people's thoughts and actions is childish and extremely wrong.
Faced with the question "What if one party always refuses to communicate in various ways?" For such a problem, Mr. Chen Haixian's plan is to use "rejection" as a topic to communicate.
Indeed, what we have to do is to control ourselves, not to control others, in the face of all kinds of specific problems, we have to talk more about our own feelings, and to understand the reasons behind others, rather than blindly trying to control others and change others.
What if "my father is socializing and refuses to come home"? As a daughter, it is not a simple and rude change of father, but talking about the previous warm experience, understanding the reasons why the father is unwilling to go home, and in the end there may be two results, first, the father is moved by his daughter and begins to go home; Second, the daughter empathized with her father's feelings, accepted her father's practice of not coming home, stopped complaining, and reconciled with herself and her father.
Take action, do what you can do.
This is what the ancients said, do your best and obey the destiny of heaven. It is up to people to plan things, and it is up to heaven to make things happen.
Communication is no exception.
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Most of these people who refuse to communicate with others, most of them are alone people, and they will like this kind of alone time, they will be very happy when they get along with themselves, they will be very relaxed, and they will be more energetic than the usual process of getting along with others, because they have a lot of things to do, a lot of ideas to realize, of course, sometimes, they also like to be in a daze, but they don't feel bored, but when they are in a daze, their brains will be relaxed, and the whole nerve cells are open. But once someone walks into their world, they will be very repulsed, they will feel uncomfortable all over the body, and not speaking is the expression of their game, so what others say and do, even if they say it to him, for him, it is also a gesture of rejection from thousands of miles away.
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"Communication" is the normal way of establishing relationships between people, if you refuse to communicate, of course, the mentality is nothing, and then the whole world will only feel lonely, only feel that you are just a person. Why communication is essential.
If you refuse, then you will be destined to be a "lonely person" for the rest of your life! So let's talk about the mentality of refusing to communicate!
Communication is a must for everyone, so this communication can allow you to get along with your friends and parents in a good and harmonious environment. In this way, your life will be meaningful and you will find your own value. Then you chase your dreams, so that is the embodiment of the correct life values, communication is something that everyone must adapt to and call to communicate.
In this way, you will be able to talk to the whole world, to the whole society. Let the society affirm you, and let the world affirm you. In today's society, communication is a must, and then it can give you a job, you can have food, so that you can live on.
Refusing to communicate is equivalent to blocking your own road and blocking all your own roads. This is an outcome that no one wants to see. Come on, communicate bravely, don't refuse to communicate, in this way, your life will become better and better, closer and closer to your dreams, and achieve dreams come true!
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As someone who has had a mental illness, I answer this question because I feel it deeply. In my opinion, it's not that we refuse to communicate, it's that we don't have a path. You don't understand me, and I don't understand you, so what's the point?
If you don't understand my thoughts, then you are not my fellow travelers, and it is futile to continue, because it really hurts to look at the eyes of the people around you who do not approve and do not understand.
I feel like there is a glass cover between me and the world, I can see you, you can see me, but I can't touch it at all, I feel like I'm completely locked in a black box, I want to go out, I want to scream, but the voice that screams is absorbed by the darkness, that sense of powerlessness, despair, I can't understand it, because the idiom of empathy is too hypocritical, the needle doesn't pierce your body, you don't feel how much pain. In the same way, the feeling of being disapproved of and incomprehensible is also deeply rooted in my heart, lingering, so I am more and more silent, whether it is my parents or friends, it seems that there is nothing to do with me except for a relationship, I am also very painful, they are also very painful, I know, the pain is ** for me, but I don't want to do this, I can't help it.
We're not as stubborn as others say, we just don't understand, we just don't understand you. If I don't understand you, but force me to understand, it will only make me more and more silent. It's a good thing to put yourself in your shoes, but can you do it easily, everyone speculates with subjective intentions, and wants to teach people he thinks are inappropriate with a sanctimonious appearance.
Did you communicate with me on an equal footing, and did you give me the decency and respect I deserved? If not, please leave.
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I'm just too used to being alone, and I don't want anyone to bother! But this mentality is not good!
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That means that this matter is not negotiable, very stubborn, and insists on one's own opinion.
I think it's okay, if you treat your parents very filial, very respectful and respectful, it means that this person is a person who knows how to be grateful, and is also a person who respects friends and elders very much, and treats others kindly.
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