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If a guy really doesn't love a girl and has no feelings, he may not agree to the engagement, or even if he agrees, he will delay or find other reasons to cancel. Because love is the foundation for two people to establish a stable relationship, if there is no relationship, it is difficult to establish a real romantic relationship or marriage relationship.
In addition, if a guy does not love the girl, he may be reluctant to talk to the family about having feelings. Because he doesn't have a real feeling, he may feel that it is better to lie to his family members to avoid their worries or unnecessary trouble.
Of course, this is only an inference in general, and the specific situation needs to be analyzed according to each person's personality, experience, and specific situation.
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Yes, after all, marrying and marrying are different, men need to pay more costs in marriage, especially money, on the eve of the engagement may have already contributed some money, if the family conditions are generally not very strong personal ability, he will continue to be engaged and married according to the family's arrangement.
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Will you talk to your family about feelings? I think that if this is really emotionless, I will never get engaged, because engagement is not child's play, and I will never tell my family that I have feelings, it is all self-deception and self-deception.
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If you don't have an emotional foundation, you can slowly cultivate your feelings, understand more, don't rush to get married, even if you are an unmarried boyfriend and girlfriend after getting engaged, you can understand more, and you will have an emotional foundation if you get along more.
Engagement is not marriage, since there is no other party to each other, and I don't know if the road will get better in the future, I am confused about the future, I should not be in a hurry to get married, I want to give each other a period of time to accept each other, to understand each other, if after a period of time, each other's hearts still can't fit each other, or can not accept each other, then don't make mistakes again and again, to correct this undue mistake in time, choose to withdraw from the marriage contract as soon as possible, let go is also to give each other a chance to be happy, so that it is better than after marriage, If you find that you are not suitable for each other, it will hurt less to divorce again.
If after getting engaged, get along with each other for a period of time, understand each other for a period of time, and find each other's advantages, it is still acceptable, then add some time to understand, until the two people have the feeling of continuing to live, so that they can enter the marriage process from the engagement, otherwise the engagement in a hurry, the marriage in a hurry, and the marriage finds that no one can accept whom, then the damage is great, the injury is no longer two people, but two families, if there is a child, the most harmful is the child.
So engagement is different from marriage, since there is no other person in your heart, don't get married in a hurry, give each other a period of time to get to know each other, if this period is over, find that it is still not suitable, then say goodbye as soon as possible, no one will affect anyone's happiness.
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Women and men are different, women will slowly accept a person because they are moved, and men don't like it.
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Engaged, the girl has no emotional foundation for the boy and can be cultivated slowly, but it is still a little strange at the beginning.
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Life can pass slowly and slowly cultivate feelings, but feelings are always cultivated in the right people, I don't know whether the boys and girls are suitable for their personalities, and what their respective thoughts on marriage and family are, these will affect their later lives.
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If you feel that it is not suitable in the process of getting along, it may lead to a breakup.
If you really don't love it, break up, the relationship is like this, since it has been wrong, it must end early, it will only make it more painful when you are separated, and you may continue to look for the love that really belongs to you when you leave him!
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