What happens if you do get divorced?

No, if you love her, then you look at her advantages and disadvantages, first of all, calm down yourself, marriage is not a game, you won't meet without fate, and you won't get married, taking over each other is the main thing, although I feel that I have done a lot of things for her, but, after doing it for a long time, I will feel that it should be, and I must grasp the proportion well.

Here's a way for you to find a piece of paper and solve a few problems to see what you do or don't meet in the same way.

1。Write down the advantages of the two people in detail, no less than 20, think about it if you don't have it, and then write down each other's 10 biggest shortcomings, and you don't need to write more.

2。For the advantages and disadvantages, look at the advantages of how to do it, how the disadvantages arise, and the cognition of what the problem is, and write it down.

Don't say a bunch of words, use writing, if you can't write it, it's a psychological illusion.

3。Quarrels are normal, life is cooking, only rice people will feel bored, so add vegetables, vegetables have sweet and sour, everything can not be added randomly, the amount can not be added randomly, everything has a degree. When cooking, put everything into the pot, the pot is home, you can't turn it without a shovel, if you don't turn it, there will be a problem with the rice, the top is raw, the bottom is paste, and there is no way to eat the rice.

Vegetables are small things one by one, trivial things, and the shovel is two mouths, and the shovel turns the vegetables. If you don't touch the pot with rice, there will be a phenomenon of pasting the pot, and if you touch it, you have to make a noise, (quarreling, bickering) This can't be avoided, because you can't let the rice be mushy, right?

4。Everything must be shared, shared with each other, need to participate together, don't do everything alone, then it will be divided, do it together, you wash the clothes and she dries the clothes, you wash the vegetables and she chops the vegetables, she cleans, you clean the glass, you do it in a high and dangerous way, she does it easily and safely, and enjoys the happiness of the process together.

Take a step back and take a good look at yourself! Life needs love, but life is not all love between men and women! Enrich yourself, enrich your life, so that you will not be blinded!

Divorce is not scary, your fear is what you imagine! Life is wonderful, add color to your life, there are landscapes everywhere, including your current side! Go ahead, it's all about fate!

Don't be afraid!

You will regret it, she will regret it.

Will regret it. will lose money.

It will be troublesome.

I just want to say that you can get divorced casually, which shows that you don't pay attention to marriage at all, and this is the result as it should be.

It's better to leave, what's the use of keeping him? Is it just for no one to quarrel?

Divorce is easy. There are two types of divorce, litigated divorce and divorce by agreement. Taking litigation divorce as an example, if one of the spouses requests a divorce, he or she can directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that if one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if the rock adjustment is ineffective, the divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (Sipei Zao) has been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that the divorce is not allowed, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates a divorce lawsuit again, the divorce shall be granted.

Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.

Here's why:

First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.

You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.

Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.

Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.

The third is that after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home. Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it!

When you meet someone who is destined, love boldly! Enjoy life!

In short, after the divorce, there are many opportunities, and happiness may come to you!

1. Lack of understanding and tolerance.

In real life, the divorce of some couples is not because of some particularly big problems, but just because two people bump and bump in life, and there are often some quarrels. And the reason for the quarrel is not some big problem, but because of the lack of understanding and tolerance between the two people, so the husband and wife will quarrel because of some trivial things. And these divorced couples, because they do not understand and tolerate, their lives are a mess, and in the end, the two of them cannot continue to live.

From this type of divorced couple, we should get such a truth, that is, only when the husband and wife understand and tolerate each other, can the marriage of the two people be in a happy state.

2. Do things without considering the other party's feelings.

In real life, there is such a phenomenon, that is, some couples do things as they want in their daily lives, and sometimes make their own decisions. And this decision often does not take into account the feelings of his lover, so it causes his lover's dissatisfaction, and eventually leads to a fierce conflict between the two people. The divorce of this type of couple stems from the fact that two people do not understand each other, never consider each other's feelings, and are somewhat selfish in terms of personality.

From this type of divorced couple, we can derive a truth such as accompaniment, that is, the husband and wife must consider each other's feelings in their daily life, so that they can be happy.

3. Lack of emotional communication.

There are some divorced couples who do not have major problems in terms of their relationship, and the two people do not quarrel very often, and there are no huge differences between them. It's just that the husband and wife don't have anything to say in their daily life, and after returning home, they do their own things, and the two are almost no different from strangers, which leads to the divorce of the two people. Such two people will definitely not be able to continue to live, so every couple should give their feelings after marriage, and usually care more about each other.

4. Lack of motivation to change yourself.

In real life, some divorced couples divorce because of some shortcomings of each other, and Iwashi is more and more disappointed in marriage because he can't get used to some of each other's problems. In fact, the fundamental reason for the divorce of this kind of husband and wife is that the husband and wife lack the motivation to change themselves and do not change their shortcomings, which leads to the marriage getting worse and worse. Just imagine, if the husband and wife have some shortcomings, when their lover points them out, they will change their shortcomings.

In such a situation, there will be no problems in the marriage of two people, and those who know how to change themselves will be able to maintain their own lives, so that two people who love each other can live together.

When love is gone, full of dullness and boredom, and you can't stand trivial quarrels, divorce is not far from you.